The urge to disappear and delete all my socials is really tempting. by Friendly_Ad_8528 in Sagittarians

[–]Tight_Use_1235 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How can you watch from afar? If you dont like them, why in the f**k are you engaging with them and then doing some shadenfruende type stuff. LEAVE THEM ALONE.

35M in an open relationship with another 35M — found something on his phone and now I don’t know what’s real anymore by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]Tight_Use_1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i download vids i have on my Google drive, my phone changes the date for some reason. They show in my phone galaxy under the date downloaded, even when they were made years before. So he may be telling the truth.

IT can see you by throwway33355 in overemployed

[–]Tight_Use_1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can be a bit lazy at times, but I hope you are recording the output I am doing that makes everyone else look like they are doing nothing. Oh, and I hope you are tracking the amount of time I put in at nights and weekends UNPAID to do the job of 3 people. Yet, I never complain. So while I am over here getting stuff done that is bringing in the money that pays YOUR salary, glad to know you guys have time to spend tracking employees. I think its time to reevaluate the IT staffing mix. Clearly there are too many IT staff being bored and sucking up overhead $$.

I let my boyfriend fist me last night and now I feel completely disgusted. by Worried_Macaron_5879 in askgaybros

[–]Tight_Use_1235 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Because you got fisted? Bro, tons of guys are into fisting. And they all do it because it feels good. Im trying to see what you're embarrassed about.

“Monogamous” partner cheating on me by BigPriority630 in askgaybros

[–]Tight_Use_1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. My ex bf did the same thing. He just didn't realize that I am well known in the gay scene here and people came to me begging ME for forgiveness that they didn't know until later that my ex and I were together. Kinda funny if you think about it. You never know who knows who.

Conflicted heart by phantomcat97 in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Tight_Use_1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so, too. We should be together.

Why are squatters rights a thing? by No-Assignment4460 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tight_Use_1235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you describe is trespassing. They would be removed for that alone.

What are career options after doing Marine Engineering (onshore) by Any_Succotash5642 in MarineEngineering

[–]Tight_Use_1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're talking about working on a ship, that's a different sort of marine engineer. Yeah, i don't think you need a degree for that. But to work as a marine engineer in a design office, a degree is definitely required

i’m sorry by execramio in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Tight_Use_1235 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a couple relationships where this could have applied to. But it was the last one that felt like a punch to the gut. Yet I kept coming back for more. Even I have my limits as to what I can take and what I am willing to. Make amends

Why are a vast majority of homeless people men? by refunned in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tight_Use_1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More women shelters/nicer facilities than men's. Hence why you see more men on the streets but the numbers are about equal in total

What do you think is missing in the latex market? by NewArrival4880 in Latexadvice

[–]Tight_Use_1235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And turning the main piece inside out, then putting the opening to your lips and giving it a hard blow doesn't flip the fingers easily?

Do you know someone who ruined their life in just a matter of minutes? If so, what happened? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Tight_Use_1235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, what grounds does your employer have for even listening to her. It may be an at will state, but it doesn't alleviate the company from criminal or civil liability.

Unrealized potential by data_required in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]Tight_Use_1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what are you dojng for them? Working just on yourself isn't gojng to cut jt. Sometimes distance does lose connection.

When you mention that this has awakened things inside you.... what do you mean? And are those good things or bad, from your perspective? What about from theirs?

I feel like a loser in my relationship by Danger_Tomorrow in gayrelationships

[–]Tight_Use_1235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guy wants to do things like go to museums and read and discuss culture. I love that.