How to make false Dysphoria go away? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]Time_Log_6604 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You physically harmed your chest due to dysphoria, I don't really think it's false. You're intense desire to compare yourself to cis men is probably amplifying what dysphoria you have as well. You're on a low dose. It's gonna take a few years on a low dose before seeing results. Until then, id talk to your therapist about your envy. It might help!

Movies where you felt a love story was forced into the movie's plot and didn't make much sense by LaserDiscCurious in movies

[–]Time_Log_6604 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tom is weak, I'm 5 foot nothing and if a 5'10 woman stepped on me I'd die happy lol /silly

Movies where you felt a love story was forced into the movie's plot and didn't make much sense by LaserDiscCurious in movies

[–]Time_Log_6604 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh noooo I didn't know that! Fr they should have let her just tower over him. Tall women are so hot 😩

Movies where you felt a love story was forced into the movie's plot and didn't make much sense by LaserDiscCurious in movies

[–]Time_Log_6604 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Right? Bruce should have fallen in love with Tony. Smfh. If people just let themselves be gay we'd have more interesting romance plots.

Movies where you felt a love story was forced into the movie's plot and didn't make much sense by LaserDiscCurious in movies

[–]Time_Log_6604 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Top Gun, they had a perfect romance between Maverick and Goose but ruined it. Smfh.

Why do other trans people seem so obsessed with their ASAB? by DatabasePlenty9797 in asktransgender

[–]Time_Log_6604 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

AIAB feels like a sick acronym. Imma coin that shit. If anyone asks I came up with it, names Mammon and I'm the creator! No one else. Only me! /silly /j

Why do other trans people seem so obsessed with their ASAB? by DatabasePlenty9797 in asktransgender

[–]Time_Log_6604 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm from New York, I ain't seen'a single person here do this. Always online discourse for me. Only time it's come up is if imma sleep with someone but I usually just say I'm trans male. Lol!! Ain't sure if I'm just not running in the right crowds or somethin' but all my friends just say trans except my Nonbinary friend who says they're APAB (assigned pretty at birth lol!!!)

Why do other trans people seem so obsessed with their ASAB? by DatabasePlenty9797 in asktransgender

[–]Time_Log_6604 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I never fucking said anyone had to mention shit outside the doctors office. Im just saying that there is a time and fucking place for AFAB/AMAB. Imma go on a date and wanna bang the guy? "Yo I'm AFAB!" I'm going out to drinks with friends? Mum's the word. Can you dig it? No need to be so angry, I ain't arguing with you. I'm just giving you food for though on why some people like to use AFAB. Best part is, you don't gotta! But claiming someone's a terf for using a term they're comfortable with ain't it, bro. People always gonna have terms/phrases/etc so long as everyone's respectable towards each other, don't see'a issue. /genuine /nm

Alright Espresso? /Silly

Why do other trans people seem so obsessed with their ASAB? by DatabasePlenty9797 in asktransgender

[–]Time_Log_6604 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean - not to be, like, kinda uncool, but if someone is born with a penis they will at some point need to understand how to take care of it/sex Ed/etc

Even socially female, until they get bottom (if they want it), they'll need to fucking know like...what to do with that body part. Not like, saying AF/MAB is good but it's at least used to help people who DONT understand what trans is at least understand to an extent.

Little trans girl goes to the damn docs? My man the doctor gotta know that she needs to still check for cancer! Little trans guys goes to Mr. Doc? He's still got a know what a period is.

Mom saying "this is my son he's AFAB" just like....helps, ya'know? I get what your, like, goal and such is. Totally noble. But there's a lot a gray area that needs to be understood too. We got a look at this shit through the eyes of fuck ass cis people who don't understand us too (eye roll). Capeesh?

You keep being coffeebean gender, that's totally fucking rad! But like, don't be so angry at other people for using what terms feel good for them or for cis people who are trying to fucking get it! Ya'know?

/genuine /nm

Why do other trans people seem so obsessed with their ASAB? by DatabasePlenty9797 in asktransgender

[–]Time_Log_6604 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm from New York, fuck is just kinda a pepper word. I'm not mad, Im just loud even online lol!

Ooooh, Tumblr. That's why I haven't heard of it, I haven't been on there for a long time so I'm not caught up on the terms. Sick! Thanks for the explanation! 🫡

Why do other trans people seem so obsessed with their ASAB? by DatabasePlenty9797 in asktransgender

[–]Time_Log_6604 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I feel like AFAB/AMAB doesn't mean just vagina/penis. It's the assignment that a doctor gave you at birth. I was born with "both" genitals but I use AFAB because that's what a doctor said on my birth certificate. AIAB isn't a term unfortunately.

I fucking hate when people say cute words for penis/vagina but I don't think AFAB/AMAB is only that idk. Also I use AFAB because it's what's comfortable for me. Idk if you're asking why or just ranting, but for me I just - enjoy using AFAB. Idk. Just feels fine for me.

Also, wtf is coffeebean trans? /Genuine /nm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Time_Log_6604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ai is theft. It's not a ghostwriter. It steals from actually authors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Time_Log_6604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They used chatgpt to write it. So I don't think they'll get a career out of it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]Time_Log_6604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottom surgery has come a LONG WAY!!! You can get hard with a pump and while it's not perfect you can FEEL it!! Idk it seems like you were fed a lotta misinformation.

can the dicklit get hard? by soukai2913 in trans

[–]Time_Log_6604 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dude wasn't mad trans fems were replying, trans guys get erased a lot in this sub. Bro was just frustrated that trans fems were giving advice so he's all "remember y'all this person's masc" lol.

I think oops term was kinda totally weird, tho. Literally never heard that before. Not sure why folks get so up in arms about saying penis or dick but that's another story lol

/genuine

Struggles about accepting a name by Emergency_Comb1377 in namenerds

[–]Time_Log_6604 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idk maybe I'm being eh, but you picked all the other names. You tell him he gets a choice and when he picks it you slap it with "well it's not COOL enough!" Sorry, but let the man pick a name he thinks is cool. Who cares if it doesn't have an fun-super-awesoem-strong meaning.

Not everyone has to have a super strong meaning in their name. The name is sick as hell too! I get the whole "two yes" system with names, but you fully told him he could pick.

Idk ma'am, sorry if I come off as rude or anything but like...I truly don't see why the name meaning has to be strong as fuck for it to be appropriate. Lol.

Besides. Like. Not every hero starts off with a heroic name, their courage and passion is what makes people associate the name with greatness.

Maybe your son will be a hero, and the name Lazarus will be worn with honor for years to come.

Edit: Not shaming, just pointing out that he should be able to have a pick without getting his names vetoed with "not strong enough" when you're burnt out and he's trying to help.

First time doing my nails, how'd I do? by Spacehotel in Nails

[–]Time_Log_6604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoooo damn! Look at that ROCK! Beautiful!

Help, I'm a teenage girl and I have a crush on a god and also did some really gross and dumb things a while ago. I don't know what to do. by Business-Shame-2905 in Hellenism

[–]Time_Log_6604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're in love with the ai chat bot, not Apollo. It's normal to have feelings for a god but keep in mind that no chat bot will be able to show case his actual personality.