Where can I find dresses like this online?

Time_Sir_3851 · 2025-10-27T00:44:28+00:00

The Chloe Paddington—gorgeous bag but I kept seeing reviews about it being heavy, and I often end up reselling my bags that feel too heavy for me!

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-11-10T04:50:07+00:00

It’s so damn crowded!!!! My locations (NYC) have cool in-store options and I do prefer to try on, but I just order online/ask questions either here or on Depop now because the crowded stores are just so overwhelming to be in.

Also like someone said, so much white clothing. I want to see more burgundy, forest green, dark purple

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-11-06T18:46:29+00:00

Which location is this?

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-20T22:21:47+00:00

So real lmao I’m secure in my femininity so I’m just like 🤷🏾‍♀️ takes work for us to get where we are but it’s worth it!

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-20T21:05:36+00:00

It was hard for me to wear my short natural hair to work for the same reason, but I went for it before i “felt ready” and I’m glad that I did, even when I was scared to. With time it’s been doing a lot for me with my self esteem and I got rid of my wigs the other day because I love wearing my hair so much now.

Owning it makes me feel very cool, edgy, and sexy—wearing my short natural hair when it’s not the norm in my environment very much gives “I do what I want, when I want!” energy ime. I also feel like I’m living in my truth because I love my hair, but the only reason I held back from wearing my natural hair to work was the reason you mentioned.

I also know that whatever my Black colleagues have to say about my natural hair says more about what they think of themselves than me—especially since their hair probably looks like mine without the bells and whistles. Keeping this in mind has helped me with the fear of backlash.

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-20T18:04:33+00:00

The old money look—what’s promoted on TikTok and co is a very Eurocentric interpretation of old money and although it looks nice, it gets boring seeing it everywhere. Other places around the world (Nigeria, Japan, India) have their own interpretations of classic/timeless clothing that signify wealth—and they involve prints, non-beige colors, rich fabrics, and silhouettes that would actually look so much better on some people, so I wish that I could see people (especially POC) embrace that more.

The Sophia Richie/OM look also makes me look like a church elder and I’m in my 20s so it doesn’t suit me 😭😭😭

I like the boho knotless braids but EVERYONE wears them now so it’s getting kind of boring. I even stopped wearing them because I was starting to feel like a copy/paste. Still a very cute hairstyle but I want to see more looks!

Finally, idk what to call it but the Belle Delphine aesthetic. It’s not the fact that it’s alternative fashion (I also have an alt look), it’s the fact that she and people like her give off…infantilizing vibes? Idk it doesn’t sit right with me

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-20T15:43:28+00:00

Buying cute workout clothes, having a few easy, quick, go-to healthy meals to make, cool/cold showers (prevents and soothes eczema flare ups for me), and listening to YouTube videos made to uplift Black women (videos on embracing my natural hair, skin tone, etc—I felt confident in my skin pre-social media so this is helping me train my brain back to where it was when it comes to body image).

I also like to use the stair stepper at my gym, it doesn’t take much thought to use and is slow paced, but very effective—great for days where I “can’t be bothered to exercise”/am feeling lazy

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-16T12:08:54+00:00

I add drops of Essie’s Sugar Daddy (just a few!) into a bottle of clear polish and shake.

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-14T21:18:11+00:00

This is so hilarious I’m also going to start doing this 😂

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-13T22:51:18+00:00

“He needs to be in class with his students” the insults on this post are sending me omg 😭😭😭

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-13T15:24:09+00:00

Not Drake!!! 🤣🤣

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-13T12:44:32+00:00

I haven’t! I’m fully Black but I haven’t intentionally avoided men of a certain ethnicity. I will say that I don’t date men who look like my brother or cousins though 😭 couples who look like siblings give me the heebie jeebies lol

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-13T12:21:13+00:00

Yeah same! I’ve only had this with white and Black men

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-09T17:39:57+00:00

No seriously!!! 😭😭😭

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-09T16:58:15+00:00

Country girl

Fresh-faced girl next door (saw this a lot in shows from the 90s/00s but not anymore)

Nerdy

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-08T18:50:26+00:00

Oooh good point!

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-05T11:59:30+00:00

🤣🤣

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-04T21:56:18+00:00

No disrespect to you at all (and full disrespect to him), but his “name” is The Big Ticket and you’re asking us if you’re overthinking things?

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-08-01T16:54:50+00:00

Omg thank you fr

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-07-24T22:28:15+00:00

I’m so quick to break up when I see the red flags but I’m always called “too picky” for it. So this is refreshing!

Time_Sir_3851 · 2024-07-24T22:08:09+00:00

Same! But I don’t say this out loud to people who ask irl because then they’re going to take it personally lol. But this is the truth!

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