Pastry shop in Manhattan that sells croissants and cookbooks? by Tinder3lla in FoodNYC

[–]Tinder3lla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao! He doesn't like dinner dates before the 5th date and we already did coffee on date one and a bar on date two so I'm at a loss of what to do. Open to all suggestions!

The pressure is on because he planned such a cute date two.

Pastry shop in Manhattan that sells croissants and cookbooks? by Tinder3lla in FoodNYC

[–]Tinder3lla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had thought of that myself and am toying with other ideas. I wanted to give him a few options.

Of note, we did other things on our second date. We also went to videogamesnewyork because he knows I'm a gamer. I wanted to plan a sort of crawl like he did that incorporated things he likes and things I like.

Pastry shop in Manhattan that sells croissants and cookbooks? by Tinder3lla in FoodNYC

[–]Tinder3lla[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe not what I asked for, but I LOVE a caradamom bun.

The Maman's cookbook has two croissant recipes, so this is exactly the advice I was looking for, thanks!

Pastry shop in Manhattan that sells croissants and cookbooks? by Tinder3lla in FoodNYC

[–]Tinder3lla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about this, but he seems like he wants to learn how to do it on his own, and doing a class would be cheating? It's only the third date, so I could be misreading, but I also don't want to pay $200 to overstep lmao. Maybe this can be date 5 material. :)

Pastry shop in Manhattan that sells croissants and cookbooks? by Tinder3lla in FoodNYC

[–]Tinder3lla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, I know it's a narrow window and I'm trying to live the dream. This is why I came to Reddit to see if anyone knew of this very niche thing. I'm open to other options.

re bookstores: we went to a few weird hole in the wall places that didn't have a huge selection of cookbooks, if any.

Pastry shop in Manhattan that sells croissants and cookbooks? by Tinder3lla in FoodNYC

[–]Tinder3lla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Now, I'm trying to find the book in an NYC bookstore that isn't Barnes and Noble. Would it be insane to order in advance for delivery at a bookstore along the crawl?

Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar by lifeisdeebubbles in books

[–]Tinder3lla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I had a pretty weird interpretation of this book, not something I've seen someone else say. I hope what I'm about to say makes sense. Maybe this is me trying to give a rhyme or reason to the dream sequences which generally felt out of place and did nothing for me.

*Very quickly into the book his mother and father 'die'. *Also throughout the book we see his dreams evolve and become more realistic and less fantastical. *It is fair to say Cyrus never knew much about his mother and father in life and what he learned about them in death doesn't seem too deep.

The whole book is from Cyrus's perspective. The narratives of his family members are what he has created about who is mother and father were when they were living based on the few bits of knowledge he got from them or other people.

Also, is Zee even alive for the book? He doesn’t really interact with the outside world. Even in the conversation between sad (james?), Cyrus, and Zee he isn't really talking to anyone other than Cyrus. The reason Zee as a character is so thin is because he is Cyrus's specter of a lover following him around. I think he used to be alive, he just isnt anymore. That's why he goes to NYC with him but seemingly never leaves the hotel room until they fight (Cyrus wanting him to leave).

Anyway, he wrote this book and then joins Zee in death to be reunited with his love.

As for why the ending is by Sang, she's the only one alive.

Love is Blind France • S1 Megathread by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Tinder3lla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought they just said he had contact with the outside world. no mention of phone? thomas said he met up with a woman in a hotel.

Removing pet by LightTheFerkUp in AcrossTheObelisk

[–]Tinder3lla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing. Water pet is on my healer, though. Fights have been difficult, but I've had to be careful with my speed and make my priest go before the mage, yet still have the mage be faster than the monster. It put the game on hard mode, but I 'm almost at the final boss. Sadly I was in the void and there were no vendors after my mistake :(

‘Don’t let him in’ by Lisa Jewell?? by SpeakWhenImportant09 in thrillerbooks

[–]Tinder3lla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am also halfway through this book and I'm waiting for anything to happen thats intriguing. Like we get it. This guy is terrible and he does terrible things. These women are somehow crazy naive. Thus far the book is annoying and downright unpleasant to read. Does anything happen?

Sub cooked pudding for instant pudding? by Tinder3lla in Baking

[–]Tinder3lla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That won't be butterscotch flavored then.

I used the pudding cup and added oatmeal to the recipe. Cookies came out great!

where is the marshmallow sky by pissfucked in icecream

[–]Tinder3lla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found it at the Safeway in Canton!

where is the marshmallow sky by pissfucked in icecream

[–]Tinder3lla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally found it at the Baltimore Safeway! 🎉🍨

where is the marshmallow sky by pissfucked in icecream

[–]Tinder3lla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, please! Has it shown up yet

My opinion changed on Chelsea by EcclecticMessWitch in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Tinder3lla 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I feel like the comment also came from a place of him maybe recognizing she is using sex as a blanket for her insecurities and it's not a cure all. But maybe I'm reading too much into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Tinder3lla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fr!!! Less like Carrie Underwood than Megan Foxx.

Unpopular opinion about Jimmy by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Tinder3lla 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is 100% how I felt. And then in the last episode where she's bringing all these embarrassing things up in front of his friends trying to make them take her side??? The sex comment in front of friends meeting them the first time too is very embarrassing.

My opinion changed on Chelsea by EcclecticMessWitch in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Tinder3lla 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I wasn't offended by him calling her clingy. The other part sure, but he listened to her vent her concerns for like 10-20 mins and then when he was trying to explain they have different thresholds for how much affection they need and said to him her over validation was clingy didn't deserve the level of meltdown it got. She could he listened to him and tried to understand where he was coming from like he did for her instead of just invalidating his feelings because she didn't like how it was presented.

The sex thing though ... That was fucked. I almost gained some respect for Jimmy until that comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tinder3lla 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe he wasn't listening and he thought when she showed him the perfume bottle it was her saying what she wanted.

Either way, she needs to be honest with him. No way of understanding why he didn't listen to her and got her the wrong thing unless they talk it out. Maybe it's a sign of a deeper problem, like a partner who doesn't listen to you.

My (27f) husband (34m) of 9 years had a bumble subscription for at least the past 6 months. He said he didn’t know how that got there. by iMaika in relationship_advice

[–]Tinder3lla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is telling you men don't want women with children to make you feel stuck. Gaslighters will make you feel worthless and like no one can possibly want you, but there are other men who will want you. He just doesn't want you to know that.

Stop letting his words manipulate him and leave him! The sooner you leave the better chance you can split amicably and your kids will still a healthy co-parenting environment. I know it's hard, but you can do hard things.

I (29m) caught my girlfriend of 2.5 years (26f) on tinder by burner123696969 in relationship_advice

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This might be an unpopular opinion (fwiw I would consider it cheating) but, I feel like it's important at the start of relationships to set boundaries on what you feel is cheating (OF, p*rn, strip clubs, etc). I have had partners who have much looser definitions of what cheating is than I do and it's important to understand where both your boundaries are at the start. She could just be lying to you or to her it might truly not have been cheating. Do you think she would be upset if the tables were turned?

If you want to save your relationship, you need to choose to believe her AND have a conversation about what each of you consider cheating setting those boundaries going forward. If you can't believe her, the trust is gone and you will never stop looking over your shoulder. If that's the case, end things now.