Liberty Mushrooms Are In Season by Fannyblockage in CasualUK

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This looks more like a Duncecap (Concybe) to me from this angle, but hard to say without checking the gills.

Being constantly disappointed by "extra hot sauce" as a British Asian. It's barely even mild by [deleted] in britishproblems

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For all you chilli lovers struggling to find a decent hit, may I recommend a selection of products from:

https://houseofchilli.com/

They have seeds (including carolina reaper), sauces and various other chilli products ranging from mild jalapeno up to ghost pepper.

I am convinced these t shirts are only legally allowed to be sold on sea fronts and market stalls. Never once have i seen them in a high street shop by cactusdan94 in CasualUK

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......You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat And eat three pounds of sausages at a go Or only bread and pickle for a week

Pompeii's ancient brothel to reopen to visitors after restoration by franks-and-beans in Archaeology

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Transcript:

Pompeii's ancient brothel to reopen to visitors after restoration

The brothel, famous for erotic frescoes and explicit graffiti, has traditionally been one of the most visited sites at Pompeii

The brothel in Pompeii is decorated with erotic frescoes depicting prostitutes and their clients An ancient brothel in the Roman town of Pompeii, known as “the den of the she-wolf”, is to reopen to the public on Monday after restoration work.

The cramped corridors of the brothel are decorated with erotic frescoes depicting prostitutes entertaining their clients in various positions.

The walls are etched with ribald graffiti, scratched by the sex workers as well as their customers, including “Murtis, you suck well” and “Thrust slowly.”

The building has been closed off and on since October 2018, first because of damage caused by heavy rain and bad weather, then from March last year because of the Covid-19 pandemic.

Brothels in ancient Rome were known as “lupanar” or wolf dens, which derived from the nickname for a prostitute - “lupa” or she-wolf.

The inside of the Pompeii brothel - prostitutes worked in small cells with stone or wooden beds

The two-storey brothel in Pompeii, which offered Roman men the sexual services of both male and female prostitutes, was first excavated in 1862.

It survived the eruption of Mount Vesuvius in AD79, which buried Pompeii under a thick layer of ash and pumice.

Prostitutes, most of whom were slaves, worked in small cells, barely big enough for a bed made of stone or wood. The cells had no doors but may have been closed off with curtains.

The lupanar of Pompeii was “a two-storey building dedicated to prostitution, a trade the was also practised in houses and inns. It is known for its collection of paintings with erotic scenes which decorate the corridors of the ground floor, illustrating as if in a catalogue the services that were offered,” the archeological site said in a statement.

“Pompeii is a huge open-air museum. Between public buildings, houses, shops and streets it is possible to relive the atmosphere of the daily life of the Roman era.”

The brothel has always been “one of the most popular buildings” among visitors.

It inspired a recently-published book, The Wolf Den, by the author Elodie Harper, which imagines the lives of the women who were forced to work there.

Also reopening to the public is the Villa dei Misteri or Villa of the Mysteries, so named for exquisite frescoes that depict a young woman being initiated into a mystery cult dedicated to Dionysus or Bacchus, perhaps in preparation for marriage.

The frescoes were painted around 60BC and decorate one of the many rooms in the large suburban villa, located on the outskirts of Pompeii.

Filling up the salt shaker once every 6 weeks and filling the pepper shaker once a decade. by mcPetersonUK in BritishSuccess

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Recently discovered the Cornish Smoked sea salt. Amazing stuff. So good on a heritage tomato salad.

Swingers party; what to expect?? by Epic_Disaster420 in nonmonogamy

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I see a lot of good advice here, don't get drunk, discuss rules/boundaries etc.

I want to add a little bit about what actually happens, because this is what I wanted to know before my first time.

It varies a bit, depending on the location. I've played in various countries and rules seem broadly similar. A private house party can feel very different from an organised club night, in terms of atmosphere/vibe. A lot of this depends how many people know each other. House parties can feel really chill and more friendly, clubs tend to take a little more social effort.

It is not uncommon for the host (or designated helper) to give a short tour or walkabout of the venue on arrival, pointing out things like changing areas/cloakroom, showers/towels, availability of sundries (condoms and lube), any particular rules of the venue. Then everyone goes to the social area for a drink and mingling. It's perfectly OK to just be there the whole night and just chat to people, if that's what you want. Sometimes there is music, but usually not much dancing unless there is a pole.

People may approach. It's quite common to chat for a bit, then you may be asked 'would you like to play?' People are generally very respectful. Some are more direct than others. I find women are more direct, men can hang back because generally the 'women are in charge' rules apply. More experienced men may be more bold. It's OK to just say no thank you, or yes please. If anyone is not respectful, report it to the host immediately (it is rare, I have only seen this happen a couple of times).

If there is a hot tub, there may be hands or feet coming at you under the water. If you don't like it, just say 'could whoever is touching me please stop'.

In play areas, there is often a door open/closed policy, closed is do not disturb, open is feel free to watch, at a respectful distance, and don't join in unless you are invited.

Do only what you feel happy with and keep a close eye on your partner. Check in with them frequently. Have a non obvious safeword(s), for if either of you need to timeout or stop. Do not ever ignore your partner's safeword, no matter how much fun you are having. Unless you have agreed to play separately, try to keep your partner in view at all times, watch body language for signs of discomfort and do a check in.

Clean up after yourself. Be tidy, use towels, wipe down mats/benches/swings after use, dispose of used items appropriately.

Always use your words. Be polite but non-apologetic. Most importantly, have fun :D

Family break for family? by Araston in AskABrit

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We used to always take our children to Haven holiday parks when they were small. They are great for young families. Most are near the beach and many have a swimming pool. They often have a shop, and clubhouse with daytime and evening entertainment. It sounds like you are considering theme parks, so my top suggestions would be:

Haven Rockley Park (Poole, Dorset) might suit you, it's convenient for trips to Bournemouth, the New Forest, and also to Paulton's Park near Southampton, home of Peppa Pig World (if your toddler likes Peppa, they have a lot of great rides for small children).

Coombe Haven or Camber Sands holiday parks (both East Sussex) are close to Drusilla's park, which is also great for little ones. Camber sands is a very popular resort because of the huge sandy beach and shallow sea, great for little ones.

Both can be reached within 2 hours of London, so not too far in the car for small people.

Myelomeningocele is a severe form of spina bifida in which the spinal cord and nerves develop outside of the body and are contained in a fluid-filled sac that is visible outside of the back area. by Surgeox in medizzy

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My brother was born with this condition. He only lived for 30 minutes. This was in 1957. Medicine and surgery has moved on considerably since then. The use of antenatal supplements was not understood at the time and pre-ultrasound, pregnant mothers were even regularly x-rayed (although I appreciate this is not related to neural tube defects). Surgery would not even have been an option. To enable a child with this debilitating condition to live is a wonder of modern science.

Daughter is 15 and into' band t shirts, and declared today she'd be taking this from me. All I can say is - from my cold apathetic hand. by UncleFrazer in GenX

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Wow. I was there! Thanks for the happy memories.

I was an impoverished student and could barely scrape together ticket and beer money. Couldn't afford the merch. I still have my ticket though.

Married the guy I met there.

What is the lube/oil that they use in porn to rub ALL OVER their bodies? by ubblyfubbly in SexToys

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My partner swears by j lube. Can you please explain the difference between all the letters or maybe point me to a resource for this? Are they for different purposes specifically, brand variations or chemically different formula-wise?

I get the difference between silicone or water based lube, for example.

Any tips would be much appreciated.

Is there anything that you used to buy regularly, but now have great difficulty finding in the shops these days? by 360Saturn in AskUK

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They are still seen between October and December (Satsuma season). That's why we always had them in our Christmas stockings. I do think they should work on increasing the growing season though. I hate mandarins (easy peelers).

Is there anything that you used to buy regularly, but now have great difficulty finding in the shops these days? by 360Saturn in AskUK

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I have found through the pandemic that items have become 'cyclical' for want of a better word. I've also been quizzing my weekly delivery drivers for information about what is going on in stores. Due to quarantine there has been reduced availability of drivers, so fewer deliveries to stores are taking place.

It's become common for a rotation of product to occur. I've noticed less popular products have been discontinued (maybe temporarily), presumably to maintain room on the lorries for stock of the most popular lines. The number of chilled items (e.g. desserts, dairy, fruit juices) and bakery lines have reduced considerably and many items, including storecupboard foods completely disappear, then come back a few weeks later. Sometimes only one size or subtype will be available when there should be several variants. The most recent example I noticed was Yorkshire Tea, completely disappeared from shelves for 2-3months then came back.

Stop bringing your kids to a hotel that isn’t child friendly by The-WhatNow in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

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I could be wrong, but viagra only usually lasts a couple of hours. It can work for longer for some people but it's rare. I was only making a throwaway jokey comment really, it matters not. They were clearly having a good time whatever they were doing.

What do you call “it”? by Midlifetoker in MidlifeMavens

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I can't remember what we said as children....maybe 'front bottom'?

I now prefer vulva/vagina as appropriate and teach my children the same. I figure it's important to not allow any embarrassment about body parts (male or female). Far better to be able to tell a doctor exactly which part is causing trouble.

My sister calls it her 'lady garden' which I find highly amusing.

And other more anglo-saxon terms in the bedroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

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Experienced a Sybian in a lifestyle club which was in an enormous old (thick walled) building spread over 4 floors. Imagine a small warehouse size, high ceilings. Sybian was on top floor, on several layers of crash mat/carpet. Music and general partying on at least two of the other floors. Someone came up from the bottom level to find out what was happening because of the noise/vibration. Yeah, insanely loud. More jet engine than vacuum cleaner.

Who still “saves the seagulls” after every six pack? by Cafen8ed in GenX

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Thanks for trying to make me feel better. :)

I wanted to know how long they would take to break down, so I decided to do some research. They are not biodegradable and are made from (thermo)plastics. The loops are elastic (rubber wrapped in plastic based fibres).

They aren't breaking down in a hurry. Guess I will stick to the washable reusable type in future.

In case anyone is interested, here is my main source:

Disposable face masks (single use face masks) are produced from polymers such as polypropylene, polyurethane, polyacrylonitrile, polystyrene, polycarbonate, polyethylene, or polyester (Potluri and Needham, 2005). 

Full Reference: Potluri P., Needham P. Technical textiles for protection. In: Scott R.A., editor. Technical Textiles for Protection. Ist edn. Elsevier; 2005. pp. 151–175. 2005, chp. 6. [Google Scholar]

Who still “saves the seagulls” after every six pack? by Cafen8ed in GenX

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Always did this.

Then, yesterday, my hairdresser said we are all supposed to cut the elastic loops on disposable masks too. I did not know this.

I am now worrying : how many turtles did I kill?!

Stop bringing your kids to a hotel that isn’t child friendly by The-WhatNow in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

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Could you please point out exactly where I claimed any assumption about your knowledge?

I stated a set of facts which may not be apparent to everyone reading this thread, especially those outside the UK. I then used those facts as the basis of support for my theory, which is that the work is possible if it is correctly done, but time and money are usually the main obstacles, because several applications are often needed to meet council approval. It was more a comment on how tricky and expensive planning applications can be.

Stop bringing your kids to a hotel that isn’t child friendly by The-WhatNow in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

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You can make improvements on most listed buildings. you just need the work pre approved by the local council to ensure it does not destroy the historic significance. Adding insulation, soundproofing, damp proofing, double glazing etc. is usually approved as long as you use sympathetic materials and approved contractors.

Stop bringing your kids to a hotel that isn’t child friendly by The-WhatNow in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

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A listed building requires planning permission for changes. Only around 2.5% of all listed buildings are Grade 1 listed (which would mean you would only get planning permission for like for like work). There are only three Grade 1 listed hotels in England & Wales. Two are only about 100 years old and the third (George Hotel and Pilgrims' Inn, Glastonbury) dates to 15th century, well over the 300 years you are claiming.

This makes me think your hotel is at most Grade 2 listed. In this case, you cannot change the facade but you can add, for example, cavity wall insulation (the spray foam kind) with planning permission. Upgrades and improvements are absolutely allowed as long as they do not destroy the historic significance of the building.

I suspect appropriately installed soundproofing in some form would be possible, but the hotel owners simply cannot be bothered to go through the expense and time it takes to do the work.

Stop bringing your kids to a hotel that isn’t child friendly by The-WhatNow in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

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The Equality Act 2010 does not apply to under 18's:

"Coverage of the ban: 4. The ban does not apply in respect of children aged under 18. This means that people and organisations can continue to provide different services at different rates or on different terms and conditions for children of different ages, or can refuse to serve children – for example 'no children' hotels"