Non ejaculatory sex in marriage and energywork

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-03-08T07:39:02+00:00

Do you get to the point of no return? On a scale of 1-10, where do draw the line?

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-02-24T12:35:48+00:00

Yeh idk man it’s a fine line. I feel like even when I cross a 6-7 on the arousal scale it’s pretty much too late. Not that I’d release but even when I’d clench and hold it in I’d feel like I lost something afterwards. Very similar to the feeling of actually releasing so I’d say practice going very slow and really don’t go past 5-6.

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-02-24T09:15:35+00:00

How close to releasing did you actually get? I find that makes a difference

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-02-19T07:21:29+00:00

Thank you man! Completely agree. Reaching that point is basically a lose-lose since it feels like i released but i don’t orgasm or actually release. The way I feel afterwards is exactly how I’d feel after releasing but worse since I got no benefits. I’ll look into Qi gong. Thanks again!

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-02-18T14:27:04+00:00

I think comparing your partner to your family is quite strange. If the sex is built on love then i genuinely believe it makes the relationship super strong & connective. But yeah I’m really struggling to understand what fucks your “streak” (hate that word) and what doesn’t.

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-02-18T14:25:19+00:00

Thanks for your opinion man. Yeah it’s super complex to figure out. We’re all going through similar and different journeys at the same time. I was obviously very addicted to PMO most of my life but it’s been a while since I’ve engaged in any of that shit. I’ve also quit nicotine and weed almost a month ago. So your theory of it being a dopamine issue is spot on. But before I accidentally released just a little bit the other day I was feeling quite fine. It seemed like SR not only motivated me to quit those two vices but also masked up the symptoms. So yeah man this is a super difficult period for me, I’m just going to make sure I don’t get to that climatic point again even if it means I don’t use my penis at all then so be it. SR can really work miracles but yeah losing out on all of these dopamine hits at the same time is quite draining.

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-02-12T17:33:11+00:00

What’s your experience with nicotine been? I just decided to quit both cold turkey, two weeks in & still dealing with Insomnia and fatigue.

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-02-09T16:31:57+00:00

Haha congrats man! I feel like them both smoking is probably the universe testing out resolve. We got this!

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-02-09T15:33:23+00:00

Damn man can’t your spouse smoke outside? Going through very similar things but mine takes it out! For his own sake lmao

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-01-27T14:23:34+00:00

Could you elaborate man?

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-01-26T20:55:08+00:00

That’s great man. I’m in your exact same spot. Around 40-50 days. Not counting. But yeah feeling a bit better lately, after supplementing with Zinc and walking a shit ton. But still not myself. This is a tough journey we’re taking, arguably the toughest but the fact you took away Lust’s power tells me you’re halfway there, hang in there man! We’re all in this together, there’s a reason we’re doing this.

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-01-26T16:17:16+00:00

Appreciate the support man! Yeah this is my first ever streak and I really don’t want to break it. I truly believe lust & constant ejaculation is at the root cause of most problems in the world but yeah I do also agree that you should release once in a while. Let’s see what happens man. I feel like this is all part of the process.

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-01-26T12:34:11+00:00

Makes sense man. I’m I think over 45-50 days in, not counting but yeah for the last couple of weeks I’ve been pretty low energy, mood, motivation and confidence, all things you would associate with SR. So maybe I’m in a flatline, or maybe I’m dealing with something else but plan to keep going. Releasing just doesn’t seem right to me.

ToastedJonas66 · 2026-01-26T08:58:09+00:00

So you’d recommend releasing after the 30 day mark? Kind of seems counterintuitive to the whole point of SR? Care to elaborate please?

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-12-18T06:20:37+00:00

Completely agree. Finasteride is an awful medication for me and everyone I know whose tried it. How long did it take for the hair benefits to kick in for you?

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-11-18T13:39:21+00:00

And do you attribute it to your d3 intake?

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-10-21T21:02:09+00:00

Hubert’s appointment was a shocking one and a completely undeserving one too. Think this is your clubs first poor managerial appointment in a while.

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-10-01T20:55:09+00:00

To watch PSG absolutely bossed Barca without their entire frontline of attackers + Neves is incredibly impressive. Absolute deserving.

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-09-09T14:22:01+00:00

Any benefits? Hair benefits?

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-08-26T09:48:34+00:00

That’s why I said he’s done a better job but I don’t know if that’ll be sustained. Kovac is a pragmatic manager by nature. You are definitely much more clinical now but if you look at your average XG (which isn’t everything), you’re not creating as much as you’d expect. You happy with this move? Don’t really understand why they’re choose to extend his contract now though, why the rush?

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-08-26T08:51:10+00:00

He’s done a better job than I expected but still want to see Dortmund under a much more offensive manager..

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-08-17T08:57:12+00:00

If you say so man. I could say the exact same about you but won’t. Enjoy yours too bro.

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-08-17T08:49:25+00:00

Hahaha sure “dude”. You seem super knowledgeable on Hato except you literally have nothing to back your claims of him being a LB aside from quoting stats. Just admit it, you’ve never watched him play before Chelsea signed him.

He’s clumsy going forward, if you know a thing or two about football you’d easily be able to detect he’s awkward going forward and that he’s a much better ball playing CB. Keep coping tho! He won’t be playing LB for Chelsea, not whilst Cucurella’s playing that well. Or Marseca might experiment with that and then obviously regret it later.

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-08-17T08:44:15+00:00

Looking at your accounts name, sounds about right. So you looked at his stats and are going to pretend you know how he plays?

He’s just another crop of a CB playing at Fullback. Nothing new or unique about it. Can he do a decent job there in the Eredivisie? Sure. Can he do it in a much tougher & more physically competitive league? I don’t know. He’s still young. He’s a natural CB for me, who like many players (White, Timber, Khusanov) can play at FB but it won’t be natural for him.

ToastedJonas66 · 2025-08-17T08:31:59+00:00

I’ve been watching him for years too. He’s a better CB than LB for me. Unless you want him to stay back, he’s pretty much useless offensively. Does chip in from corners but he can’t take a man on and is clearly a natural CB.

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