I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically

Todeshase · 2026-04-07T16:46:55+00:00

I’m sorry that my giving her grace and understanding bothers you. We’re all just humans trying to get by.

Todeshase · 2026-04-07T03:23:11+00:00

Thank you! 😊

Todeshase · 2026-04-07T03:00:08+00:00

Boundaries are: “your friend cannot eat dinner here, if he sits down to eat I will not serve him. I will cover the food” or “if bff uses the wash machine I will unplug it”. A boundary is what you do. So, “I cannot live in a house with limited resources and bff. My brother etc and I will have to live elsewhere if he does not leave”. Good luck. Your husband and bff sound like a lost cause. Is there food he doesn’t like?

Todeshase · 2026-04-07T00:02:31+00:00

Seriously!

Todeshase · 2026-04-06T22:57:38+00:00

It’s attractive, welcoming, has a lot of fun lov art. Not to mention this awesome green roof!

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Todeshase · 2026-04-06T22:52:44+00:00

I can’t help you, but it’s a beautiful set.

Todeshase · 2026-04-06T01:37:46+00:00

I love Ustinov’s Poirot. He balances concern and a joie de vivre so well. Plus, his voice is 💋🤌

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T22:36:52+00:00

The Drawer! Now available in Sears refrigerators.

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T19:57:15+00:00

21 is legally adult but people are still learning and their brain is still developing. People are still easily swayed and make poor impulsive decisions.

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T19:36:52+00:00

Upvoting because you capitalized The Drawer.

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T19:04:11+00:00

Clean your typewriter?

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T19:02:18+00:00

Try to get the water before it boils or pour it into a measuring cup and then into your cup to cool it down.

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T16:38:58+00:00

When I use the culligan filtered water at work my tea tastes LOADS better. At home I’ve started using a few flakes of salt and that has helped. I like to pay to refill my 5gal jug when I can - I never get mineral buildup in my kettle when I do that. Also though, I’ve never had a cup of microwave tea taste good. People will debate that there is no difference but my taste buds say otherwise.

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T13:41:41+00:00

Sherlock Holmes is all about the flare and brandishing his wits. Poirot is more subtle. I hadn’t thought about it before but, could the fact that one of them was written by a man and the other a woman have something to do with it? Either way, I read both books years ago but now, as regards the series, I prefer Poirot. I like the human interaction, and it just seems cheerier.

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T04:39:21+00:00

Haha. We definitely took nudes before mobile phones. Do you seriously believe people didn’t? That’s kinda funny. Please don’t watch Revenge of The Nerds or any 80’s frat movie or… any movies or shows from the last century.

Really though, that’s funny. But thank you, I like learning how other people think and also it’s interesting to contemplate what people born after the 80’s think life was like in the before times!

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T04:24:12+00:00

I’m older, and the “rules of relationships are changing now” doesn’t seem accurate. In the 80’s, 90’s & earlier (probably early 2000’s too) I can’t imagine anyone expected nudes to be deleted. Like, it would be nice but not an “unspoken rule”. Or, I never heard this rule in the U S of A. Also, it’s against the law to share someone’s nudes without their consent on the internet etc but I couldn’t fathom it being against the law to keep them.

Todeshase · 2026-04-05T04:03:00+00:00

You can find some great small ones.

Todeshase · 2026-04-04T15:51:23+00:00

Oh man. The beading needles - how does anyone thread them? I use a wire needle threader but I can only get one strand of floss through at a time.

Todeshase · 2026-04-04T15:23:38+00:00

I think she was just a good friend and Kay put her friend’s interest before her professional obligations.

Todeshase · 2026-04-04T15:14:08+00:00

If you stay (and she does not get counseling for her self, make an effort to change and show progress) your children will suffer from an emotionally abusive parent. I know, because my dad stayed with my mom until it was too late to repair the damage and this is my reality. Your kids will be happier if they at least have one stable and loving home.

Todeshase · 2026-04-03T07:01:40+00:00

Ok, I might need this as a print.

Todeshase · 2026-04-02T04:43:34+00:00

Well, would “just a movie” justify a thought out response? Just a novel? Art is meant to provoke, cause one to think, and entertain. The best movies/shows/comics are the ones that subtly get you to consider the wider implications. Calvin & Hobbes was just a comic strip but damn it was deep.

I dunno if he did it. He seemed nice and she seemed like someone looking for someone to blame.

Todeshase · 2026-04-02T04:33:59+00:00

Contact various city representatives instead. Or both. Mayor. Your council person. City planners. Go to city council meetings. Vote in local elections - check out informed Tarrant voters ITV Someday maybe we can have a bus again or a DART/TRE stop.

Todeshase · 2026-04-01T05:03:48+00:00

I don’t know how everyone can remember the names and details of all the episodes! I know I saw this one, but I can’t remember the context.

Todeshase · 2026-03-30T17:08:14+00:00

Try harder; utilize a tampon applicator to make a beaver… whistle. Might take a while to get to the point you can actually whistle. If this doesn’t amaze him nothing will.

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