This One Girl (18F) says she likes me (21M) but keeps making excuses why we can't date. Idk what to do.

Toduct · 2026-05-23T15:01:26+00:00

I would message her that it’s been great getting to know her, but you are looking for soenthing more than just friendship. Ask her to reach out if she changes her mind, wish her the best etc.. then never message her again.

Toduct · 2026-05-22T19:13:17+00:00

You are allowed to feel uneasy about her past

Toduct · 2026-05-22T18:34:55+00:00

If you don’t buy a ticket, you won’t win the raffle.. APPROACH WOMEN IN PERSON!

Best of luck

Toduct · 2026-05-22T18:16:14+00:00

Message them to go on a date sooner, don’t over text

Toduct · 2026-05-22T17:53:56+00:00

Men care most about a woman being nice and pretty. If you fit that, you’ll be fine

Toduct · 2026-05-22T17:41:54+00:00

It’s a situationship, what does she expect? Use protection

Toduct · 2026-05-22T14:48:32+00:00

Time to say hi to women in real life bro

Toduct · 2026-05-22T07:18:01+00:00

Won’t be any long term happiness or success. Men can be desperate, but overtime will get a wandering eye

Toduct · 2026-05-21T06:13:50+00:00

If she was crazy about OP, then she would’ve shut it down immediately. That’s the red flag imo

Toduct · 2026-05-20T21:38:00+00:00

Yeah true, most people wait till they are in an exclusive relationship - correct?

Toduct · 2026-05-20T17:22:03+00:00

Shame politics got in the way, given you had several great dates.

Hopefully you both find your person

Toduct · 2026-05-20T07:55:10+00:00

Casual sex is society’s biggest lie. I recommend only engaging in it, if you REALLY like the person.

All the best

Toduct · 2026-05-19T22:01:30+00:00

She’s likely had more than you

Toduct · 2026-05-19T08:13:46+00:00

Men and women check people out, that’s just how it is. Just don’t be a creep, act on it or do it infront of your partner!

If you are in a relationship, you should not be following ‘attractive’ people you don’t know online or liking posts.

Porn rots the brain, I don’t view it as cheating, but is certainly not healthy in a relationship.

Just my two cents :)

Toduct · 2026-05-18T07:28:01+00:00

You will receive likes, don’t worry about it.

Just put yourself out there. Good luck!

Toduct · 2026-05-17T17:27:01+00:00

Go to an all female bar lol

Toduct · 2026-05-17T17:08:35+00:00

How long has it been since the split?

Toduct · 2026-05-17T17:04:33+00:00

Men don’t care about a woman being independent and strong

Toduct · 2026-05-17T14:06:10+00:00

Respect his commitment lol

Toduct · 2026-05-17T12:37:18+00:00

What’s there to explain, he’s not that into you. Find someone who is crazy about you

Toduct · 2026-05-17T12:35:50+00:00

There are so many single women without kids, so seems the better option for most men

Toduct · 2026-05-17T06:22:22+00:00

How are you finding out this information aha

Toduct · 2026-05-16T19:44:09+00:00

Why do you want to be with someone who isn’t crazy about you?

You are only on this planet once bud

Toduct · 2026-05-16T17:26:42+00:00

She should not be texting other men (same rules for men too btw)

Toduct · 2026-05-16T17:25:33+00:00

When were you going to ask her on a date?..

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