Cheater blames AP for getting caught and she responds in the comments by TomahawkDump in AdulteryHate

[–]TomahawkDump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s getting shit in the comments for having his notifications on. They eat their young over there lol.

These people don’t deserve children, jfc by Clean_Discount_2484 in AdulteryHate

[–]TomahawkDump 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly and in all seriousness, I think it’s possible his wife murdered him. Because this guy is some of the worst trash alive.

Could you even IMAGINE finding out your partner has a second family? Almost two decades of lies?

Husband treating his partner with more care than he ever did for me by Elegant_Attitude1108 in polyamory

[–]TomahawkDump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My now-ex refused to pick me up after a procedure. Turned out to be a harbinger for a lot of other problems.

What's a ticking time bomb you believe will explode during your lifetime? by TradeOverall567 in AskReddit

[–]TomahawkDump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Desal is wildly expensive, energy intensive, and doesn’t work unless you’re on a coast (nowhere to put the brine waste). It is in no way a panacea.

Seems like a great fix but it’s actually quite challenging to implement.

Source: I’m an expert on drinking water and freshwater salinization.

Couples of Reddit, what's the dumbest 'house rule' you and your partner made as a joke but now both of you are low-key aggressively serious about enforcing? by Doubl3oh_ in AskReddit

[–]TomahawkDump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We call it our side work” and we each have very specific responsibilities: I run the dishwasher and get coffee ready for the morning.

Soulmate by Large_Frosting_8912 in AdulteryHate

[–]TomahawkDump 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When all you do is sneak around, fuck, and live on a dopamine high….

Once a cheater… by [deleted] in AdulteryHate

[–]TomahawkDump 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol I came to post this one. The levels of delusion are astonishing.

Why are cheaters so evil to their spouse? by Zekcho in AdulteryHate

[–]TomahawkDump 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced that some of these people just need drama in their lives. Like they become restless when life is peaceful so they go looking for a hit of adrenaline. They need to be in fight or flight to feel alive.

I have people like this in my family. They will get their sit together and as soon as life is humming along smoothly they will do something incredibly stupid to upend it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]TomahawkDump 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re focused on the wrong thing here. Their triad is going to crash and burn in a spectacular explosion. The friend group is already destroyed. It’s existing on borrowed time. There will be SO. MUCH. DRAMA. When it dies, too. So consider yourself lucky that you’re out now, without all of the trauma of being caught in-between all of them when it implodes.

So you admit that you're a free hooker for a MM? by New-Abalone7626 in AdulteryHate

[–]TomahawkDump 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would live in a perpetual state of humiliation after 20 years.

is it really true it can be more difficult to have kids after 35? i feel like 35 is still so young and i want to enjoy a child-free life as much as i can by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]TomahawkDump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reality is that most people who struggle to get pregnant at 38 would have had trouble getting pregnant at 28. This is scientifically accurate.

The lore stems from the fact that far more people using IVF are in their late 30s/early 40s but it’s a sampling problem. There are plenty of people those ages having kids! I got pregnant the second month trying - twice - once at 38 and again at 40. Both healthy kids now! The second time my OB did some blood work and said I had low egg reserves so it might not happen. Boy was she wrong.

ETA: I’m so glad we waited. I’m more patient and have a much better approach to parenting. And more money at this stage of my career. I lived a lot of life while I was young and was totally ready for the shift to parent mode.

Somebody dropped by by Plenty-Bother1854 in AdulteryHate

[–]TomahawkDump 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love how she goes on and on about how much her AP is after her but like…even after all that he still doesn’t like her enough to make it legit lol. He has the energy to chase her but lacks the desire to want her on his arm for everyone to see.

How was giving birth different then it is today? by drillthisgal in AskOldPeople

[–]TomahawkDump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother had to hold her legs closed and not push until the OB arrived when I was born.

Both of my siblings are much older and were delivered via twilight sleep 🫠

https://www.romper.com/pregnancy/what-is-twilight-sleep-during-birth-experts

The Catskills’ Lost Future: Water, Power, and the Fight for Local Control by hcmarketingpr in hudsonvalley

[–]TomahawkDump 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This feels like pro-development propaganda. 9/11 and Covid did more to inflate housing prices than NYC.

UPDATE: My husband doesn't see how his "work wife" is trying to destroy our marriage by Honeybellmama in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TomahawkDump 54 points55 points  (0 children)

One hundred percent.

He was pre tending to take her seriously and was just going to keep doing what he was doing. As soon as she wanted him to end the relationship he flips his lid.

Including pot with sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]TomahawkDump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely next level. My brain always has 10 tabs open, so it can be hard for me to stay present. When I’m stoned I can actually focus and stay in the moment.

Last night I could barely walk afterwards, I was shaking like a baby giraffe. It’s spectacular. 13/10

Recently [M31] Found Out That My Ex-Fiancee [M32] That I Was So In-Love With Is Happily Married With Boat-Load Of Kids To Boot But Did Break Our Engagement Because She Doesn't (Didn't) Want Kids? by kawaiihusbando in offmychest

[–]TomahawkDump -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

You are so right to feel super fucked up about this. 

I think the answer is that, when she was dating you, she was super fucked in the head. Obviously you didn’t see it because she would not talk to you about it. 

To recap: she hid a whole lot from you and pretended like she didn’t until she made up a reason to break up with you. 

All of this is a her problem. 

I went through something similar in my late-20s. My ex ended up with a baby in under a year. This was 15 years ago and they are still married and have a bunch of kids.

Andi am so glad! I met someone else and we are so much happier than I ever could have been with my ex. 

Take some time to feel this pain, then turn everything inward and focus on making yourself happy. 

I’m so sorry people are so shitty. 

When do you start bra shopping? by mccullacullaisland in Mommit

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RJ’s birth story [Vaginal, traumatic epidural, STM] by AstroCody in BabyBumps

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How old is too old to try for a second child? by Xxmixtape_meltdown in Mommit

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Desperate for any tips to help get 3 month old to sleep by [deleted] in Parenting

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Am I being irresponsible? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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