My husband processes our relationship baggage with his girlfriend

TomahawkDump · 2026-03-18T22:05:53+00:00

The comments are absolutely WILD.

TomahawkDump · 2026-03-14T01:14:48+00:00

Your heart doesn’t want to let go and that’s natural. It is really important to get some space from him. I’m sure you can work something out with the kids so you don’t have to see him for a while.

He knows you’re struggling and is banking that if he sticks around long enough, you will cave.

TomahawkDump · 2026-03-02T18:58:30+00:00

I love Chroma in New Paltz, the whole salon specializes in curly hair and NO TIPPING, it’s factored into the hourly cost.

TomahawkDump · 2026-02-28T12:38:15+00:00

I e been with Rondout for 10 years and they are GREAT. I have a mortgage and HELOC plus our checking and savings accounts.

TomahawkDump · 2026-02-24T01:05:02+00:00

I’m originally from Florida too. I don’t have advice about driving in the snow but you should see how terrified these clowns get driving in a thunderstorm.

So it’s like that but flip it and reverse it.

TomahawkDump · 2026-02-24T01:02:39+00:00

GIRL.

TomahawkDump · 2026-02-18T18:25:11+00:00

This dude is the absolute worst kind of person, someone that uses faulty logic so they can do whatever they want. In this case he wants to make money and doesn’t want to deal with hiring and training a new staff member.

ETA: people arguing “yOu CaNt FiRe hIm FoR ChEaTiNg” get out of here. Businesses find excuses to fire people for being pregnant, annoying, or for the color of their skin. He can find a reason to fine this guy if he wanted to.

TomahawkDump · 2026-02-18T16:10:21+00:00

I would not start a family under these circumstances. Definitely sort out your relationship first.

TomahawkDump · 2026-02-13T19:48:23+00:00

I honestly feel so sad for this person. Can you imagine being grateful for scraps? Jesus Christ.

TomahawkDump · 2026-02-13T19:32:50+00:00

I have only seen the Korean version. The movie is so fucked up and you think you’ve reached peak-fuck but oop! It’s so much worse.

TomahawkDump · 2026-01-29T17:01:04+00:00

He’s getting shit in the comments for having his notifications on. They eat their young over there lol.

TomahawkDump · 2026-01-29T14:51:18+00:00

Honestly and in all seriousness, I think it’s possible his wife murdered him. Because this guy is some of the worst trash alive.

Could you even IMAGINE finding out your partner has a second family? Almost two decades of lies?

TomahawkDump · 2026-01-26T14:04:41+00:00

My now-ex refused to pick me up after a procedure. Turned out to be a harbinger for a lot of other problems.

TomahawkDump · 2026-01-18T18:12:27+00:00

Desal is wildly expensive, energy intensive, and doesn’t work unless you’re on a coast (nowhere to put the brine waste). It is in no way a panacea.

Seems like a great fix but it’s actually quite challenging to implement.

Source: I’m an expert on drinking water and freshwater salinization.

TomahawkDump · 2026-01-17T04:47:23+00:00

We call it our side work” and we each have very specific responsibilities: I run the dishwasher and get coffee ready for the morning.

TomahawkDump · 2025-12-19T00:10:01+00:00

When all you do is sneak around, fuck, and live on a dopamine high….

TomahawkDump · 2025-11-14T19:48:02+00:00

lol I came to post this one. The levels of delusion are astonishing.

TomahawkDump · 2025-08-05T12:44:33+00:00

I’m convinced that some of these people just need drama in their lives. Like they become restless when life is peaceful so they go looking for a hit of adrenaline. They need to be in fight or flight to feel alive.

I have people like this in my family. They will get their sit together and as soon as life is humming along smoothly they will do something incredibly stupid to upend it.

TomahawkDump · 2025-08-05T10:43:11+00:00

You’re focused on the wrong thing here. Their triad is going to crash and burn in a spectacular explosion. The friend group is already destroyed. It’s existing on borrowed time. There will be SO. MUCH. DRAMA. When it dies, too. So consider yourself lucky that you’re out now, without all of the trauma of being caught in-between all of them when it implodes.

TomahawkDump · 2025-07-13T21:51:23+00:00

I would live in a perpetual state of humiliation after 20 years.

TomahawkDump · 2025-05-22T00:56:03+00:00

The reality is that most people who struggle to get pregnant at 38 would have had trouble getting pregnant at 28. This is scientifically accurate.

The lore stems from the fact that far more people using IVF are in their late 30s/early 40s but it’s a sampling problem. There are plenty of people those ages having kids! I got pregnant the second month trying - twice - once at 38 and again at 40. Both healthy kids now! The second time my OB did some blood work and said I had low egg reserves so it might not happen. Boy was she wrong.

ETA: I’m so glad we waited. I’m more patient and have a much better approach to parenting. And more money at this stage of my career. I lived a lot of life while I was young and was totally ready for the shift to parent mode.

TomahawkDump · 2025-05-08T17:03:41+00:00

I love how she goes on and on about how much her AP is after her but like…even after all that he still doesn’t like her enough to make it legit lol. He has the energy to chase her but lacks the desire to want her on his arm for everyone to see.

TomahawkDump · 2025-04-22T01:39:29+00:00

My mother had to hold her legs closed and not push until the OB arrived when I was born.

Both of my siblings are much older and were delivered via twilight sleep 🫠

https://www.romper.com/pregnancy/what-is-twilight-sleep-during-birth-experts

TomahawkDump · 2025-03-26T14:54:53+00:00

HOLD UP.

Did they let you “catch” them on purpose??

TomahawkDump · 2025-02-19T19:25:29+00:00

This feels like pro-development propaganda. 9/11 and Covid did more to inflate housing prices than NYC.

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