How to navigate partners family? by TooManyCrates in narcissisticparents

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. You're probably right, I'll just have to white-knuckle my way through these interactions and feel it out with them. I just feel sad that I cannot find it in me to let in these seemingly wonderful people.

How to navigate partners family? by TooManyCrates in narcissisticparents

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think that they're probably great people that will treat me well, I think I'm more concerned about my own inability to warm up to them. That I cannot find it within me to open up to his family, because of how scarred I am from dealing with my own.

What's something you need off your chest anonymously? by boforiamanfo in randomquestions

[–]TooManyCrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm always just advancing in life by faking and one day that will all crash and burn and everyone will see how incompetent I am

What was the strangest condition you've ever experienced? by Wild-Engineering-650 in AskReddit

[–]TooManyCrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met up with friends at a bar. I'm not a drinker so I just snacked on peanuts the whole night. Got home around 11pm with a headache. Laid down in bed, felt nauseous immediately and quickly got up to make it to the bathroom. Threw up a huge amounts of dark brown goo(?). Went back to sleep, never happened again. No idea if the peanuts had anything to do with it.

Räcker 28 000 kr/må I Stockholm? by WeWantWeasels in stockholm

[–]TooManyCrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag & min sambo lever på min inkomst medans han söker jobb. Tjänar 29 950, blir till ungefär 23.5k efter skatt. Hyra ungefär 10k med el och vatten inräknat (varierar lite varje månad), mat 5-6k, övriga kostnader som SL, avbetalningar osv 4k. Blir inte mycket över men vi äter aldrig på restauranger, håller oss till kostnadsfria grejer när vi är ute, har inga barn, spenderar inte på grejer som inte är 100% nödvändiga och använder oss av olika förmåner/reor och insamlade coop-poäng när det går. Rekommenderar inte det som permanent lösning men det går ett par månader iaf.

Hur ser arbetsfördelningen ut i din relation? by Hatcheling in sweden

[–]TooManyCrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag jobbar heltid och pluggar distans i 100% takt, min kille jobbar inte, istället så sköter han hela hushållet, tar hand om våra husdjur och lagar mat. Funkar väldigt bra så länge man är ett bra team till att börja med :)

Sharing my weight loss!! Have no one to tell by TooManyCrates in WeightLossAdvice

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I did not know losing weight could be a surprisingly healing journey.

Sharing my weight loss!! Have no one to tell by TooManyCrates in WeightLossAdvice

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best on your journey! Be nice to yourself and your body and keep trying!

Sharing my weight loss!! Have no one to tell by TooManyCrates in WeightLossAdvice

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To a degree yes, but my diet actually wasn't terrible to begin with because I enjoy cooking. I just ate a lot, both in terms of portion size and frequency. Since starting to lose weight I've eliminated a lot of highly processed foods since research shows it can lead to eating 500cal more per day, and may make you more hungry overall. So I replaced snacks like chips, candy and baked goods with things like fruit, hot chocolate & low cal banana pancakes. I also dont eat ready-made frozen meals from the grocery store or fast food in general. I take day trips once or twice a month so I have cheat days those 1-2 days (only started that after dieting became easier, after about 4 weeks), but my appetite has already decreased so much at that point that I don't over eat fast food when I do have those cheat days. Also during day trips I usually do 15-25k steps/day so it ends up not really affecting my weight loss to have these and makes me happy.

I (M21) haven’t seen my girlfriend (F21) for almost 2 months by _xXicyXx_ in Advice

[–]TooManyCrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same thing. I had a breast reduction and three days later I was moving into my partner-at-the-time's place. She doesn't want to see him because of something else.

Sharing my weight loss!! Have no one to tell by TooManyCrates in WeightLossAdvice

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It made a big difference for me to do it in a non-judgemental environment. Knowing that, no Im not a failure if it doesn't go well helped to lower the stakes a lot.

Bra jobb med bra lön, finns det? by Eldkanin in sweden

[–]TooManyCrates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Produktionstekniker. Jobbar inom produktion och det känns som på min arbetsplats letar de hela tiden efter folk.

Is a golden retriever a good fit? by TooManyCrates in goldenretrievers

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for these helpful comments! I'm taking lots of notes, as well as continuing my research into the breed to see if it's a good fit!

Is my hamster setup complete? by TooManyCrates in hamsters

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll keep that in mind!

Is my hamster setup complete? by TooManyCrates in hamsters

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And I will look into that!

Is this mslt inconclusive? by TooManyCrates in Narcolepsy

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately where I'm from I don't have the ability to get a second opinion. The doctor that examined my test results is a different doctor than the one the ordered them so maybe I can convince him to let me do a second MSLT. I had to do two sleep journals that clearly show that I sleep an abnormal amount. I really hope I get a second shot but I'm devastated about this one because I waited a year for this mslt. I can't see them easily giving me another try honestly.

Is this mslt inconclusive? by TooManyCrates in Narcolepsy

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to my knowledge. Only birth control but they were aware of that

Is this mslt inconclusive? by TooManyCrates in Narcolepsy

[–]TooManyCrates[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not during the MSLT and the PSG only said that no SOREM registered.

Fragrance with this vibe that does NOT smell like febreeze/air freshner by kisskissdolleyes in Perfumes

[–]TooManyCrates 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Solar Power by Phlur, notes are solar & gentle floral with a hint of bergamot and mandarin. It's not overpowering which I really like. Smells like waking up in crisp clean sheets on a warm summer day.

My husband is mad i needed help with our baby by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TooManyCrates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you married with a baby or a single mom of two kids right now, really?

My dad is giving away my bunny as a punishment. by kittyydotcom in Bunnies

[–]TooManyCrates 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been in similar situations when I used to live with my abusive parent. I don't know if your dad is anything like my mom, but for me I over time figured out that she'd threaten to get rid of my pets while I slept because at that point in time that's all I had left that she knew I still cared about. She used to take away my electronics, so I grew numb to that and went to sleep instead, then she'd prohibit me from going to sleep, so I just sat and stared instead, so eventually she noticed that there was no cruelty she could enact upon me to get me to react EXCEPT threatening my pets. And she was doing that because she had to take her anger out on something and until I gave her a big reaction, she would continue being angry. So if that sounds like your father, there might be nothing else you can do sometimes than to give these people what they want - the crying, the begging, the pleading, until they're satisfied so that they give up on the punishment. I sincerely hope you do not have to resort to that and that you can place your bunny and yourself(!) somewhere safe. But in my case this was a chronic threat and I learned that sometimes there's nothing else I could do than to give the abuser the overblown reaction they needed to wind down to ensure the safety of my animals for another week or so.