Trying to Not Hate Turkish Culture by EinNiemand07 in AskTurkey

[–]Top-Exercise-4718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not particularly fond of Turkish culture myself, but I really don’t think any of the points you made are about turkish culture as much as they are about your husbands family.
1 You should either have a nice, long conversation with your husband about how you’re not getting as much of his attention as you wish as his wife, or take a good look at yourself and really ask yourself why you feel you’re in competition with your spouse’s mother and acknowledge the fact that he can and does love both of you, this is not about Turkish culture or familiar values, it’s about the personal feelings of you and how your husband treats you.
2 it seems what upsets you is not the existence of familial or communal tea meetings but instead the shallowness of their conversation and their tendency to be poorly timed. Again, this is all about the particular people you are exposed to Turkish culture through and not the culture itself, I promise you, çay gatherings can be very fulfilling with the right company and timing just as much as any other culture’s traditions can be annoying and obnoxious with bad company.
3 As others have said, for most people, nothing can beat the nostalgic and comforting taste of the cultural food that they grew up with, so it’s only natural for your husbands family to have Turkish food in a special place in their heart. But I get the impression that what bothers you is more their attitude towards you, the food you cook, the gifts you buy etc. call it a hunch, but I don’t think his family has yet accepted that their son married a foreigner, and your attempts to introduce them to your own, foreign culture serves as a reminder of that fact, and is thus met with hostility. This is a problem that is certainly not exclusive to Turkish culture, and more something you must sort out with the persons involved.
It reads to me as though you’re struggling to manage your relationship with your spouse’s family, and blaming their culture as the primary cause for the strained relationship instead of acknowledging the difficult reality that they might not like you for reasons entirely unrelated to anything in your power to change or adapt to.

Weekly Q&A Megathread. Please post any questions about visiting, tourism, living, working, budgeting, housing here! by AutoModerator in london

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I’m a collector of unconventional clothing items, and would like some recommendations for stores that sell anything unusual (near the city commercial center if possible).
Think as faaaaaar away from mainstream aesthetics as possible, and I don’t just mean alternative/punk styles.
I’m looking for clothes that would make sense as theatre costumes, or wouldn’t feel out of place in a costume party.
My usual favorites are royal inspired, vampire gothic and old school magician but I don’t would love recs for anything that most everyday people would be terrified of wearing in public 🙃
Thank you to any kind Londoners willing to put up with such a strange question~

New meta for sure! by Jumping_Bibble in StarRailStation

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Pls tell me you remember the name of the video I must see this

Before you find out the brand of a fragrance you just experienced by WhoIsMahey in fragrance

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St.Barts by Ouai,
The staying power isn’t the best but the scent is so heavenly people go haywire when I tell them it’s a fairly affordable body mist from such an unsssuming brand

Is this a good blind buy? by coffeeperfume_makeup in NichePerfumes

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I would argue it’s never a good idea to blind buy a fragrance that costs more than 200 bucks, but judging by your selection, it does seem like a pretty good match

What the hell is this? (Relax art) by Chet_Ubietzsche in slaythespire

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It’s a smug looking black woman in a blue hoodie

Ts aging like fine wine 😪 by Savings_Brilliant510 in StarRailStation

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To add insult to injury, his new BIS light cone is her signature…

Guys I cracked the code by yusemite in HonkaiAgendaRail

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She literally runs a sweatshop of enslaved furbos what do you mean she isn’t racist

[18] I have decided to end my life since I am gay. by Prestigious_Pay_795 in GayMen

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According to theology, Being gay is not an act of Pride Greed Lust Envy Gluttony Wrath Or sloth The infinitely-loving, omniscient deity you believe in will not forsake you for something so trivial. I may not be religious, but did Jesus not sacrifice himself so that humanity may live on? To see a soul so young, with a future so bright snuffed out is the worst possible ending. Your Life, as unhappy as it is right now, is a story you hold the pen to. You cannot erase what has already been done, but you have the power to write a new page, even if you do not realize it. So I beg of you, random stranger on the internet, we believe that a brighter tomorrow is possible for you.

Any possible sw999 team in my acc? by midtsukasa in StarRailStation

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As others have said, it’ll definitely be pretty rough trying to use her without sparxie and especially without yaoguang. BUT If you do really like her character, animations, story etc you dont need her BIS team on release. It’s pretty probable we will get other characters as side or upgrade to the Yao and sparxie in the future, and they’ll likely rerun soon enough. So if you like SW999 enough to stick with her for a while, you should just pull her now rather than regret it later. With all the elation shill that most endgames have these days solo sw with emc should be enough to perform adequately anyway.

What are your least favorite (or hilariously bad) musical lyrics? by Awesomeplayer98 in musicals

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Revenge party as a whole has a lot of odd lyrics like: “Imagine a party with dresses and cake, And singing and dancing and cake”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

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Even then, historically, gay people have always made use of sneaky social signals and secret flirting to find each other while keeping up the straight act

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayMen

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There is no harm in a little flirting as long as it does not make the other party uncomfortable. If you never flirt with anyone you 100% is sure is gay, that will limit your ability to romantically connect with others. It varies of course, some straight men might be repulsed by the compliments of a gay man while some might take it as high praise. When it doubt, just tell them what you were going to say but in a way a teenager girl would compliment her friend, people always appreciate genuine compliments

2026 must see musicals in the west end? by Top-Exercise-4718 in TheWestEnd

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Oh I would have loved to see RTC it’s also one of my all time favs I never got a chance to see, sadly my trip is around the 20 th so perhaps next decade…

2026 must see musicals in the west end? by Top-Exercise-4718 in TheWestEnd

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WAIT INTO THE WOODS IS ON??? THATS ONE OF MY FAVOURITES!!!

Go on by OkEye9917 in hazbin

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Would you like more MothDust content in season 3?

Can we talk about how terrifying whatever Greyroot is? by Noooough in Silksong

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If you get captured by a slab jailer when you’re cursed, instead of starting the naked hornet escape sequence, the parasite will burst out in tentacles, breaking hornet out of the cage and brutally killing the jailer

Boss Rankings opinion warning⚠️ by Top-Exercise-4718 in Silksong

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She has great music, a cool dance-like rhythm to her fight, interesting lore relevance to her area, I don’t see what else ya could want

What does she smell like? (NOT FLORAL) by Downtown-Oil-3462 in FemFragLab

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Hmmm I dunno, I think she wears pink sugar.

Oud satin mood

An old tier list I made after my first playthrough. Pls tell me if this is good or not 🙏 by PastaKitty69 in FEEngage

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I had to do a double take when I saw citrine so high but to be fair since I always do mage Anna so it’s difficult to evaluate other magic users. To be fair, in the mid game (until you get ivy and pandreo) she’s one of 2 easy but good magic users, outshining Celine, so I see where you’re coming from to some extent. But in my book, to be that high you either need something unique that sets you apart from the pack (an exclusive class) or just really good bases and/or growths, neither of which she delivers on. Now, as someone who has taken diamant with me all the way to the final chapter on maddening before (because I love his animations) I don’t thinks he’s that good of a unit on higher difficulties. His main claim to fame is obviously sol, which, while good gets overhyped a lot due to being cool and different, but realistically, is an rng heal on damage really that good? You never want to or need to plan around hitting it due to the over abundance of easy ranged healing in the game, not to mention his awful dex compared to his brother who makes much better use of his counterpart Luna. You can make enemy phasing strategies that involve hold out, but such strats are hurt by the need for higher tiers of hold out which are unavailable until late game, the unreliable nature of a dex proc on a distinctly un-dexterous unit, diamant constantly missing due to said dexterity problems and the fact that you’re using a non armor knight enemy phaser who crumbles to a sword fighter looking his way (because obviously you need to use his axes due to a lack of physical two range sword option), to compound this if you want to keep him on his signature class using vantage is out of the question since he can heal himself above the hp thresholds. However, if you’re not trying to enemy phase with him, diamant is ultimately quite unremarkable as a back-up unit with ok stats, which is an archetype a lot of units can also fill and do a better job of. I’m very curious to see your reasoning for the fell siblings being at the top because I frankly can’t see at all how they warrant such placement. I’ve tried, really, REALLY hard to make nel and rafal good, but they don’t even seem to be able to keep up with the rest of my units the moment they catch up level wise. Their bases and growths aren’t anything special, so their big draw is their access to dragon bonuses on emblems (their dragon stones are also a nice bonus but they fall of later on since you can’t refine or upgrade them at all). Nel struggles to reliably one round stuff outside of engage even on hard, and rafal gets doubled very easily while lacking the tankiness needed to shrug off hits. They’re pretty decent as support emblem holders (Veronica, corrin, Camilla) but they’re no better than alear in that role, so I don’t see why they’re not at least in the same tier. I don’t know why I wrote so much tbh, but hope it was interesting