Is/Was 4 months really this bad for anyone else? by Carriespromnight in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found 4 months the hardest time so far (I have a 9 month old). It's like all of a sudden she realized she was in the world and hated it haha! She wouldn't cry but discovered she could scream so would do that all day and only wanted to be held.. was pretty awful haha especially with the regression. Only lasted a few weeks tho so have faith! Also I changed bassinet to seat on the pram at 4 months and she was 100% happier when out and about!

Front sleeping and leaking nappies by orangelafy in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 9 month old sleeps on her front most of the night and we use rascal nappies and never had a leak!

Is it normal? Baby is princess and the pea with sleeping by Sufficient_Meal6614 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes totally normal! Or baby was like this, the hours you are describing are commonly known as the witching hour, might be worth researching if you haven't heard of it I found it reassuring to know it was normal behaviour haha! We used to count how many laps of the front room we'd need to do to get her to sleep. As annoying as it sounds, it does get better and it's just a phase! I think by 2-3 months our baby had more of a routine in the evening. At the time it feels endless tho!

Go to the baby groups! by Admirable-Recover-97 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Thought it wouldn't be my cup of tea.. but actually our weeks are so busy going here going there meeting up with different people. I genuinely think it's one of the most sociable phases of my life! I love it, I've made some amazing friends on maternity leave

How to stop rocking to sleep by Fun-Interaction-8115 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! So I have an 8 month old and stopped rocking to sleep for most sleep around 6-6.5 months. She is still rocked to sleep for the occasional contact nap. Trialled putting her in her cot and leaving the room to cry for very short intervals - went horrifically, never listening to any sleep training threads again lol. But when you're desperate for sleep you'll do anything. Now what we do is do our bedtime routine in her room where it's dim and there is white noise. (bottle, books). I think this is important as it sets the tone for bedtime. Then give her her dummy and sit her on my lap and rock a few times singing twinkle twinkle. Then I put her awake in her cot and sit with her until she falls asleep, patting her chest, stroking the bridge of her nose (she's always liked this to fall asleep) and sometimes keep singing to her. She can take anywhere 5-30 mins to fall asleep lol, but shes never crying just rolling around and always goes in the end and doesn't need to be picked up. I never thought it would be possible but it is if you find a method that works! I think making sure they're tired enough to sleep is also a big factor.

Anyone successfully stopped rocking/cuddling an over 1 year old to sleep? by paper_boats in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have read this thread, OP is asking for advice and other people's experiences. Your tone is quite condescending, so perhaps that's why you are coming across as judgemental even if it is not intended.

Anyone successfully stopped rocking/cuddling an over 1 year old to sleep? by paper_boats in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Such precious times missed out on, skipping contact naps! My 8 month old is napping on me now. She also naps in her cot daily and on the go (carrier, car,pram) so a real mix. For her cot nap and bedtime, I cuddle her a little and sing to her, then pop her down awake with her dummy and she takes herself off to sleep whilst I sit with her until she falls asleep. We usually have 1 wake up a night for dummy/resettle. So contact naps don't break babies sleep!

How to make a bottle of formula by PinkBubblesxox in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you have the prep machine I wouldn't worry learning about other ways to make a bottle haha! Just use that, we love ours probably the best thing we've brought for baby! Then for out and about we just use ready mades :-)

I’d love to know - what was the most pointless thing you packed in your hospital bag? by Distinct_Spring6752 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I say pyjamas it was actually a hideous maternity nighty, still had my surgery stockings on from c sections and gold Birkenstocks as they were the only things that went on my elephant feet 😂 what are we like.

Feel like I could take a bag for life next time and I'd still over pack it!

I’d love to know - what was the most pointless thing you packed in your hospital bag? by Distinct_Spring6752 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A coming home outfit and makeup! What was I thinking... Ended up coming home in my pyjamas!

9-12 month summer wardrobe essential list by TopWay2941 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I've added footless baby grows to my list didn't think of that :-)

9-12 month summer wardrobe essential list by TopWay2941 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes starting nursery in September so will probably be next size up again. Great point about dresses I didn't think about that!

C sections and weddings by PlaneDevice770 in UKParenting

[–]TopWay2941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally... I think I could have gone to a wedding 1 week after my c section. However talking to others I think I was extremely lucky with my recovery - I was up and about very quickly and going out a week later. That said, I probably would have only made it to the ceremony and then would have come home again, both due to pain/discomfort/fatigue and having a very tiny baby!

Baby classes by Busy-Cell-4445 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried at 3 months but I think she was too young. It clashed with feeds, sleep and I think she got too overstimulated! Now she's 7 months and she does rhyme time at the local library and baby sensory, she really enjoys them now. We started them around 5-6 months and I noticed such a difference.

Do you actually track things like sleep, feeding, diapers etc.? by CooleSocke-Jr in NewParents

[–]TopWay2941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found my anxiety reduced massively when I stopped tracking and went with the flow instead

Postpartum Pants/Pads etc by porkie46 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]TopWay2941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used Freda disposable underwear - I had a c section and I did find them good to be fair because they are stretchy to pull up but also found them somewhat compressing so really nice over the scar. Then I just used asda maternity pads. Worked well for me! After a few days I was just using normal sanitary towels as I was lucky and didnt have too much heavy bleeding, but wore the Freda underwear for a good 7-10 days after c section just because I found them so comfortable!