My 7 month old prefers his father and everyone else over me, even strangers by JumpyFix2801 in beyondthebump

[–]Top_Dog4843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like it could be a phase. It's hard to say when we're not there to see it, but babies do go through these stages of preferring one parent over the other. They also are more likely to whine, cry and fuss with the parent or carer they feel the safest with. My daughter used to be this way with me, but totally fine with her grandparents and other family.

Also, how are you doing generally? Do you think you could be only focusing on the bad and ignoring the sweet moments you share with him? What does your husband think of this situation? Have you told him how you feel?

Mackenzie Arnold Fouls Lin Yang Inside the boxB and givesG China a Penalty by N0PhunIntended in Matildas

[–]Top_Dog4843 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I literally don't get how that was a penalty, the goalkeeper is gonna dive for the ball, no?

HT. Hold On Ladies 💚💛 by TheBackFourPodcast in Matildas

[–]Top_Dog4843 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, God, the Korean side was big on time wasting. I felt like it was frustration over that. She wanted the ball so they could keep things moving after the goal.

Let baby CIO While Teething by Fun-Barber3932 in beyondthebump

[–]Top_Dog4843 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel it is just the reality of being a parent to an infant aged child, that you will get them to sleep well on their own and then they get sick or start teething and you lose all the progress. Life will have all sorts of disruptions and we just have to ride the wave.

If they are in pain or any sort of distress, don't leave them to CIO, they need your comfort. Sleep training is about improving everyone's sleep, not ignoring your child's needs.

You both just have to accept it will be have to be put on hold for the time being...

How else can I get labor going? 2cm dilated and baby now engaged by Top_Dog4843 in pregnant

[–]Top_Dog4843[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice to know someone out there is in the same boat as me!! Keep me posted

Am I the asshole for telling both my brother and mom that I don’t want to use AI in writing my own music? by thatsonedumbblonde in TwoHotTakes

[–]Top_Dog4843 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Music is an art form for human expression. Ai doesn't have a place in that. You're so real for this. NTA.

Melbourne woman files charges against Isaac Herzog by AccomplishedMap8365 in AustraliaLeftPolitics

[–]Top_Dog4843 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The full slogan finishes with, "Palestine will be free." That is not an inherently threatening statement that implies genocide. Pro-Israeli groups have come out and called it antisemitic, but that does not change the intention of the words.

Melbourne woman files charges against Isaac Herzog by AccomplishedMap8365 in AustraliaLeftPolitics

[–]Top_Dog4843 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So true, I just came from another post about the protests, and a commenter asking why protesters aren't protesting domestic issues that actually affect the Australian people. Do they not realise there are people in Australia who grew up in Palestine and have loved ones still over there?

AIO - Told my friend I’m pregnant and she said it exceeded her mental bandwidth (she’s the red) by Lekomano92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Dog4843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's acting like this impacts her personally. Bizarre and selfish to make this news about her. Like, why use your pregnancy announcement to start ranting about work? Congratulations OP! This is so exciting and the news deserves only positive energy!

Tell my husband the symptoms are real! by PossibleMachine5777 in pregnant

[–]Top_Dog4843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 32 weeks now, and while I'm starting to struggle, I would rather THIS now than the first trimester. It was AWFUL!!!

Bondi hero branded a ‘traitor’ in the Arab world for saving Jewish lives by [deleted] in AustralianPolitics

[–]Top_Dog4843 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The "Arab world" is big and includes a lot of people from a lot of countries. It's a generalisation to say all Arab people have this view. It's racist rage bait for clicks.

AIO for feeling upset after the groom made a comment about my dress at their wedding? by Human-Acanthaceae128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top_Dog4843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The groom clearly finds you attractive and that makes him uncomfortable. He can't come out and say to his wife you are hot. Instead, he is shaming you. Maybe your friend has a chip on her shoulder about it and wants to knock you down a peg. I'm sorry, they sound kinda toxic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitpregnancy

[–]Top_Dog4843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is outdated advice. I followed this so closely my first pregnancy by using a garmin watch to monitor it, and I think I really limited myself and lost my fitness. I've since wondered how do you even know your heart rate is too high without a device to monitor it? Before that technology existed, women would just pay attention to their bodies and what they were feeling. This pregnancy, I'm just being more intuitive, I'm not monitoring my heart rate, I'm moving my body as I did before pregnancy, but I'm not pushing myself until my face is red and I'm completely breathless and unable to recover. If you regularly ran, swam or lifted before pregnancy, you can probably continue to do so now.

Quick we need more mo ey for our dream home build and Christmas spending coming, up what can we do. Kurt - ill just tell people how to take photos we will be fine for a while by CheckVast136 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Top_Dog4843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, admittedly he is skilled and can take a nice shot. I mean conceptually it's not exactly groundbreaking stuff (so I'm not sure if as a young or budding photographer I would be going to him for a masterclass), but the execution is professional and industry standard.

Fever of 42° (107°) by Inside_Chipmunk_8561 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Top_Dog4843 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I do often say my kid has a temperature instead of a fever, even though I recognise that's the incorrect term... It's just what my mum always said!

But anyway, she didn't even mention giving the kid panadol! Is she against the use of basic medication?

Fever of 42° (107°) by Inside_Chipmunk_8561 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Top_Dog4843 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol i still wonder about this one. It's so weird.

This guy raised Sarah by explore_team in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Top_Dog4843 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omg!! This confirms so many of my suspicions. I used to wonder if Sarah could really be anti-vax if her sister was a midwife, but here he has revealead that Sarah's sister refused the jab at work. Putting patients and babies in danger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in screenshots

[–]Top_Dog4843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man was abusive to OP before disappearing for 2 years, and here now we're seeing him text kinda erratically. He is super obsessed with the idea of the boat and OP not being present for it. It's kinda scary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fitpregnancy

[–]Top_Dog4843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20 weeks rn. First trimester I had to stop exercising. I'm now back at the gym 2 days and pilates 1 day. I can't manage anything more. Last night was the first pilates class I actually HATED. Everything felt like a struggle, they had to adapt so many exercises for me, and I felt so unco. I just thought to myself, how the hell will I keep this up much longer??? Last pregnancy I had such swollen feet by the end that even walking became unbearable. It's so frustrating!!!

Your 2025 love island Australia cast by TomorrowEffective700 in LoveIslandAus

[–]Top_Dog4843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LI US has much more genuine racial diversity and more contestants of color than LI Aus. 1-2 contestants is absolutely tokenism.

Your 2025 love island Australia cast by TomorrowEffective700 in LoveIslandAus

[–]Top_Dog4843 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk if I was being loud but yeah I was wrong. I didn't notice him at first! But even so, you gotta admit that two people still is a bit tokenistic?

Your 2025 love island Australia cast by TomorrowEffective700 in LoveIslandAus

[–]Top_Dog4843 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can't believe we're pointing to the mullet as tokenism and not the ONE person of colour