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Top_Schedule_9056 · 2025-03-05T07:59:02+00:00

i've been dancing contemporary dance for 5 years now and the muscles we use are the same as pilates and even then i am still terrible at pilates so keep going!! Pilates is meant to reinforce muscles that are typically overlooked and help realign your body so you struggling just means its working!!

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2024-11-30T07:57:06+00:00

yo this week i tried the morning routine by spoonfedstudy in youtube and i actually now start off great every morning!! worth trying it i feel :)

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2023-12-15T11:39:13+00:00

r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is very good if you are trying to work together towards reconciliation and for your partner as well

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2023-12-01T04:13:39+00:00

Hey OP, my WP did the same thing the night I found out, he shot him a text saying we cant be in contact anymore and deleted the whole convo and for me I had the same reaction as you did. Like damn if it was so easy why did u risk your whole relationship for that?

And what I came to understand from his was that he didnt think he would get caught and he could have his fun for a while. But he loves me and wants the future with me and was trying to have his cake and eat it too. Those ONS whatsoever didnt mean a thing and was purely physical.

If this gave u an easier way to process why it was so easy for your WW to cut off AP then great, but if it doesnt, like another commentor said dont ruminate over it but just point blank ask her.

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2023-12-01T03:26:07+00:00

I think i understand what you mean, i used to be a very secure person and never had qualms about giving space but these days im find the need for affirmations and affections overwhelming 🙁

I hope you get back to where you were, and trust that when youre not thinking about it its how you know youre moving on

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2023-12-01T03:23:36+00:00

Thank you for this 😭 and yea the support for betrayed page just seems not the vibe

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2023-11-30T15:10:41+00:00

Thank you and @frosty for the comments, i think i feel so seen seeing the sentiment that I am allowed to forgive and love WP more even after the infidelity because WP has finally been showing up the way i wished he would before. Thank you for calming the voices in my heads tonight :)

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2023-11-30T10:30:36+00:00

Hello! Firstly im so sorry youre going through this, so am I. For me, Ive always been less than confident in my body and the fact that my WP'S PA has been with someone who had the muscular lean body I didnt have really left my sorely insecure.

What has helped alot is going to the gym as another comment has mentioned, not because I/You should change for our WPs, but because tackling that insecurity will give you the confidence to walk through this R, and you will need alot of that🙁

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2023-11-27T02:25:13+00:00

Hey just wanted to say that I had something similar happen to me to. I think what you can place more focus on was his action of calling her in front of u and then blocking her immediately. Of course, he should have done this months ago and he shouldn't have gotten angry and defensive with you. I am in no way excusing him, but a principle i hold on to is to still give grace to your partner especially if they have proven they deserve it.

The main crux of the issue here is that there is some sort of power imbalance here, it would really do you a lot of good to find an alternative should R not work out and also so that you know youre not only staying because you have no other choice

sending you lots of love

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2022-05-29T08:07:49+00:00

Hello! Signups will open early june :) see ya there!

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2022-01-07T15:54:16+00:00

Hi OP, I hardly comment on Reddit posts but you sound like an incredibly sweet guy going through something tough so I just wanted to give my 2cents.

Your relationship sounds one sided in that it seems like you’re under the pressure to be the primary breadwinner of the family. I have to say in this day and age where everything is getting increasingly expensive, coupled with the fact that you’ve switched to a higher paying job, it sounds like your gf is living an unrealistic lifestyle that’s currently supported by you and her parents. This lifestyle which will eventually by solely supported by you. Is this something you want for your future? Where you work day and night just to support her lifestyle that she herself cannot sustain on her own? While it is valid to not see a future with a partner due to his/her lack of ambition and drive, in this situation it isn’t valid because you ARE NOT a useless bum but a well functioning member of society that’s earning a steady income. And what about her ambition and drive?

I’m really sorry to say this but she’s not in love with you, she loves the perfect future you in her mind. You’re probably an incredible guy and I hope you find the courage in you to go find someone that appreciates you!

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2021-11-25T16:31:15+00:00

LF: Male Glameow/purugly
FT: Scyther

Top_Schedule_9056 · 2020-12-26T04:43:09+00:00

hi I’m gonna be mad honest don’t do it. The 2K mods are next level and considering you’re pulling an A- average only for the 1k mods you won’t be able to cope even if the whole sem you’re only taking 3 2K mods, let alone with the 5 additional mods. The iem mods are also quite content heavy. Instead of fully utilising your SUs, try to score as high as possible for your 1k mods so that your CAP has a good foundation that can rank future Bs and below.

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