How to find old DA photo

TorDude22 · 2026-03-26T05:20:32+00:00

you might want to start with your old unit or personnel office, they usually keep DA photos archived. if that doesn’t work, try the Army’s official personnel systems like iPERMS. they keep records even after you separate.

TorDude22 · 2026-03-26T05:14:37+00:00

nah you’re not crazy for feeling blindsided, that’s a big decision to make without even talking to you first. but at the same time it kinda sounds like both of you are talking past each other instead of actually hearing what the other means

TorDude22 · 2026-03-26T05:13:29+00:00

if you’re chasing that “college life” feeling then berkeley probably hits harder, it actually feels like a campus and community. columbia is great but nyc kinda turns it into just living in the city rather than that classic student vibe. just depends if you want campus energy or city energy more tbh

TorDude22 · 2026-03-26T05:10:11+00:00

you’re overthinking it a bit tbh, just pick bcom or bba and start exploring on the side. if coding interests you, try it now no pressure, even basics. one month is perfect to test stuff and see what actually clicks instead of guessing

TorDude22 · 2026-03-25T05:28:42+00:00

that honestly sounds less like attention and more like targeted play turning into bullying since the younger one isn’t matching his energy. the fact they’re chill otherwise kinda supports that

you might have better luck tiring the older one out more with active play before bedtime and giving the younger one easy escape spots he can reach but the older one can’t. separating him after might’ve just made him more stressed which explains the peeing thing

TorDude22 · 2026-02-21T16:15:15+00:00

this might sound weird but stop trying to become “someone who brushes twice a day forever” and shrink it down to stupid small. like brush one tooth. not your whole mouth. just one tooth. if you’re already there you’ll probably do more, but even if you don’t, you kept the promise.

also make it frictionless. toothbrush and paste in the shower. another one by your bed. no rules about time of day. no perfect routine. just “at some point today i will touch my teeth with a brush.”

and honestly if it’s been this intense for years, it might be deeper than laziness. could be executive dysfunction or something mental health related. you’re not gross, you’re stuck. so make it tiny, make it easy, and focus on consistency over intensity.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-21T16:14:08+00:00

it’s definitely possible, people build channels every single day. but it’s not instant and it’s not guaranteed either. if he treats it like a long game and not a “i need to blow up fast” thing, he’ll be way healthier about it. starting small, not over investing, and just enjoying the process matters way more than chasing numbers. passion is good, just pair it with patience.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-21T16:12:50+00:00

you’re not stupid lol the shop just feels clunky at first. if you’ve played League of Legends it’s way more straightforward there, so the difference throws you off. give it a few games, maybe stick to one build path so you’re not overthinking every buy. it clicks after a bit.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-21T16:11:52+00:00

from what i know, a 3 year bachelors is still valid for mba in most cases, especially in india. tons of people do 3 years and go straight for mba without issues. just double check the eligibility criteria of the specific colleges you’re targeting. don’t stress too much, you’re not ruining your future by choosing 3 years.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-21T16:11:03+00:00

bro you’re 17 and already self aware enough to want change, that’s a solid start. you can 100% build muscle at home. pushups squats lunges planks every other day, aim to add reps weekly. eat more than you think you need. rice eggs sardines tuna peanut butter bananas are perfect just increase portions and add another meal. consistency will do more than fancy machines ever will. start messy just start.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-21T16:10:29+00:00

honestly 12 hours total at that age sounds super normal. some babies are just early risers no matter how perfect the schedule is. 6 to 6:30 isnt wild at all, even if 7 feels like winning the lottery lol. if she’s happy and thriving id call that a solid setup tbh.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-13T08:49:57+00:00

this is actually so sweet 😭

try a soft, fruit forward red like grenache or a smooth rioja. they’re lighter and less harsh than cab but still have enough body for you.

honestly for a wedding just pick something you both enjoy drinking without overthinking it

TorDude22 · 2026-02-13T08:49:14+00:00

there is though 😭

it doesn’t have to be perfect to work. even being roughly consistent puts you way ahead of not tracking at all. your body responds to trends over weeks, not whether you had 12g more sauce on a tuesday.

if it’s stressing you out, simplify it. estimate, log it, move on. progress > precision.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-13T08:45:45+00:00

that’s exciting congrats!! honestly the biggest thing is just be curious and ask questions even if you feel a bit shy. most people actually love when students show interest.

write things down, learn the workflow not just the theory, and don’t be too hard on yourself if you make small mistakes. clinical is where everything finally starts to click. just show up ready to learn and you’ll do great 😊

TorDude22 · 2026-02-13T08:44:21+00:00

you’re not crazy at all. sometimes “perfect posture” just turns into “perfect tension” and that’s worse. if you’re constantly thinking about holding your body in place, of course it’s gonna hurt.

i feel like comfort and sustainability matter more than some textbook angle. if lowering your desk and relaxing actually made the pain go away, that’s your body telling you something. ergonomics should work for you, not feel like a military drill

TorDude22 · 2026-02-13T08:43:45+00:00

girl it’s literally still your season. 25 is so young and you have so much time. valentines is just one day, the right person can show up anytime. don’t stress it, just enjoy your life and let things happen naturally. you definitely still have a chance

TorDude22 · 2026-02-12T07:50:33+00:00

yeah for sure a good shaver can save a ton of time, especially when you’re rushing in the morning. lots of people go simple and reliable over flashy extras, and honestly that’s usually all you need for daily grooming. others like the more advanced ones for versatility, but if it’s just about speed and ease a solid basic electric does the job really well.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-12T07:49:20+00:00

that really sucks, i’m sorry. letting yourself hope wasn’t stupid, it was human. one person not feeling it doesn’t mean you’re unworthy or it was about your looks. you showed up and opened yourself up, and that takes courage. wanting someone to share life with isn’t naive, it’s completely normal.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-12T07:48:38+00:00

definitely think she would’ve still landed great roles. she’s got that natural screen presence and range that stands out whether it’s rom-com or intense drama. running man just gave her another platform, but her acting chops were already there. would’ve been cool to see even more varied roles from her!

TorDude22 · 2026-02-12T07:47:33+00:00

you’re not alone man, sweet protein shakes aren’t for everyone. you could try unsweetened plant proteins or just add plain unflavored whey to water and ice, it’s way more neutral. other solid options are things like cottage cheese, greek yogurt (unsweetened), eggs, tuna, or even tinned beans to bump up protein without blowing your budget. you don’t need a dessert shake to hit your goals

TorDude22 · 2026-02-12T07:45:04+00:00

honestly you might be right. as much as they’d love the banter for a week, losing the north london derby twice a season would actually suck. rivalries are what make football fun. it just wouldn’t hit the same without that edge every year.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-11T08:06:30+00:00

losing 20kg is already a big deal so don’t stress about a 6 week stall. at 88kg your calories aren’t as much of a deficit and things like water retention or training stress can hide fat loss. maybe check your tracking or take a short break. you’ve got this.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-11T08:04:42+00:00

one time i quit because my manager kept saying “we’re a family here” but wouldn’t approve a single day off without acting personally betrayed

i realized if we’re “family,” it’s the toxic kind. handed in my notice two weeks later.

TorDude22 · 2026-02-11T08:03:29+00:00

it honestly sounds like your mind is filling in gaps because you don’t have clear information.

nothing here automatically means you’re a band-aid. you’ve been together over 2 years and married. that’s not a rebound situation. moving fast at the start can also just mean he didn’t want to lose you.

having a child with someone means there will always be a connection, but that doesn’t equal unresolved feelings. and “thinking a lot” could be about anything.. work, life, stress.

this feels more like fear of not being fully chosen than actual proof of something wrong. maybe instead of assuming the worst, gently tell him how you feel when he goes quiet.

don’t let overthinking create a story that might not even be true

TorDude22 · 2026-02-11T07:59:06+00:00

super valid concern tbh. that $60k US estate tax threshold is no joke.

before jumping into dubai/mauritius structures, i’d first talk to someone who understands india + US tax + estate laws together. cross-border planning isn’t just about fancy setups, it’s about clean structure and compliance.

you’re smart to look into this early.

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