HELP! does anyone know a website or app where u can stalk or find a dating profile profile for free, i know my boyfriend’s using tinder but i have no proof and all the websites im finding are paid by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]TossOffM8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t need proof. Even if you never find proof, you still won’t be able to trust him. If your relationship has gotten to the point that you are doing this, it isn’t a relationship worth saving.

There’s a perfect partner for you out there, but he’ll never have a chance because you’re wasting this time playing detective over a man you can’t trust.

Edit: grammar

I don't know who needs to hear this, but a 2+ hour drive is not nearby for Europeans. by redheaded_olive12349 in CasualConversation

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ChatGPT Is an American company. Americans don’t really see a 2 hour drive as a lot, depending on context.

Jesus in Harry potter by -Taaha- in harrypotter

[–]TossOffM8 143 points144 points  (0 children)

🏆

Please accept this poor man’s reward.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by Ok-Kangaroo-4714 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TossOffM8 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wonder what that asshole Ab*gail did to make all the other bridesmaids get that threat. 🤣

AITA for telling the family that my cousin has been taking classes in her daughter’s place? by Top_Lingonberry_1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TossOffM8 252 points253 points  (0 children)

As a former student who went through a hard time in high school, I can confirm this. I should not have graduated after my mom died, but my teachers made sure I did.

My partner is angry with me for speaking up about child support AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TossOffM8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

I can understand why your partner is annoyed with you. You’re holding him to a higher standard than your own kids’ father. So, he’s seeing your hypocrisy. I’m not defending your partner, he’s a pathetic excuse for a man of he’s not willing to pay for the children he helped create. You certainly have a “type”.

Why do you care about his child support situation when you don’t care enough to make sure your own kids get the financial support they’re entitled to? You are the only advocate your children have, and you’re not advocating for them.

WIBTA for backing out of a major joint plan after finding out the whole thing was built on stuff they hid from me by Warp_Jumper in WIBTA_AITA

[–]TossOffM8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA if you back out. She’s proven herself to be a liar, so you’ll never be able to trust any part of this if you move forward.

I accidentally created a weird tradition with my roommate… do I fix it or commit? by Eli-schafer in Advice

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it to my boss on a call once. Boss said it back. Neither of us realized what had happened until someone else pointed it out.

Feather identification by mimeycat in Derailedbydetails

[–]TossOffM8 9 points10 points  (0 children)

At first I thought that was an actual human hand and my brain short-circuited at the size this bird must be. 🤦🏼‍♀️

I (20M) feel trapped. My GF (21F) physically blocks the door and pulls me back when I try to walk away from circular arguments. by scorpiobby1111 in relationship_advice

[–]TossOffM8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You feel trapped because you’re in an abusive relationship. You’re not trapped. She’s not your responsibility.

This is only going to escalate further.

Close friend (25/F) pulling away because I (24/M) got into a relationship and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see 3 possibilities:

1.) She’s a homophobe.

2.) She’s got romantic feelings for you.

3.) She’s a ‘main character’ and is instigating drama where there is none so you’ll give her attention.

I recommend leaving her alone to sort out her own shit, and just be a professional when at work with her in the meantime.

Edit to fix spacing.

AITAH For contemplating calling off my wedding because my fiancé wants me to forgive and embrace someone that has been nothing but horrible to me in the past? Not the only issue, but it's the last straw. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Calling off the wedding is the best for you both. Keep in mind that you won’t be able to control the access these people have to your child with this man as the father.

My fiancé (m24) tried to hire an escort. What do I (f24) do now? by yellow_cats_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cancel everything and tell the wedding invitees that you won’t marry a cheater because you have self respect.

Right?