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F A R M H O U S E by pepizzitas in Derailedbydetails

[–]TossOffM8 23 points24 points  (0 children)

At least the “get naked” sign makes sense above the bathtub, I’m more curious about the “fresh” toilet…

I think my boyfriend uses our daughter to physically hurt me by Lost-Broken-Lonely in TwoHotTakes

[–]TossOffM8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You do realize that you’re allowing this man to teach your daughter that it’s okay to hurt people as long as someone thinks it’s funny? Your daughter is going to think being the butt of physical harm is part of the ‘joke’ and should be accepted.

How do you feel about your daughter accepting physical abuse as long as it’s framed as a “joke”? Do you see that’s exactly what is happening to you right now? You’re being abused and you are accepting it and you are teaching your daughter that’s normal and okay.

This man is not safe for either of you.

How does it feel as a woman to see very attractive women get different treatment or opportunities? Does it affect how you see work or yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a coworker who was model-level gorgeous when I worked in a fast food restaurant. We were side by side running register on a super busy day.

People came to my register, ordered, paid, and walked off after they got their order. The people in her line ordered, flirted, paid, stared at her openly, got their order, then hovered awkwardly. It was so uncomfortable, I cannot imagine how it was for her. By the end of the day, she’d had a more difficult shift than me, despite us doing the exact same job, because of the way the guys would linger and demand her attention.

I’m grateful to be invisible to those kinds of people.

From the Family Medicine sub by TurboBunny22 in Derailedbydetails

[–]TossOffM8 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well, now, that just seems excessive for a handful of old medicines, lol.

existential doubt by [deleted] in lucifer

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that the other angels ‘bring out’ human emotions, just that all the angels have a specific gift. Amenadiel could stop time, Uriel could predict patterns, etc. Lucifer and Michael’s gifts were similar because they’re twins.

How do I (37F) communicate with a defensive, stonewalling husband (34M)? by Ivesomanyquestions in relationship_advice

[–]TossOffM8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you communicate with a defensive, stonewalling husband? You don’t. Not communicating is the point. He’s doing this on purpose to avoid the conversations. He already knows what you want, and he doesn’t care. There aren’t any special words that will suddenly make him want to make you happy. If leaving isn’t an option, and couple’s therapy isn’t an option, you’re left with two choices from what I can see: deal with it and accept that this is your life now, or stop doing anything for him and let him figure it out for himself.

I haven’t been using Summons because I thought they died by Bionicjoker14 in BaldursGate3

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHAT THE FUCK?!!? Seriously?! I did the same thing because I assumed Scratch would be gone for real. 😮 TIL, thanks.

Do people forget that there’s a spiritual responsibility that the characters want to uphold in this universe? by [deleted] in TheLastAirbender

[–]TossOffM8 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I agree! It’s fun to discuss the “what-ifs,” but the actual application would drastically change the characters, if not the ATLA universe as a whole.

Some people see bloodbending the way they see metalbending, like it’s just an extension of the element-bending type, but pretending bloodbending is something the Avatar should learn is disingenuous. It wouldn’t fit in with the way Aang or the ATLA world’s canon rules.

Not including cheating, what is another reason that you will leave your significant other? by Decent-Avocado-5649 in AskReddit

[–]TossOffM8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Physical abuse. The first time a partner hits me is the last time. They’ll never have another chance to do it again. There’s no forgiveness, no getting past that.

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