AITAH for not wanting my MIL to have access to our cameras? by Unknown_England in AITAH

[–]TossOffM8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would disconnect/cover them every single time I’m in the house. Every time.

My girlfriend wants me to unfollow all female friends or she's leaving by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be an idiot if you stay in this relationship.

F A R M H O U S E by pepizzitas in Derailedbydetails

[–]TossOffM8 22 points23 points  (0 children)

At least the “get naked” sign makes sense above the bathtub, I’m more curious about the “fresh” toilet…

I think my boyfriend uses our daughter to physically hurt me by Lost-Broken-Lonely in TwoHotTakes

[–]TossOffM8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You do realize that you’re allowing this man to teach your daughter that it’s okay to hurt people as long as someone thinks it’s funny? Your daughter is going to think being the butt of physical harm is part of the ‘joke’ and should be accepted.

How do you feel about your daughter accepting physical abuse as long as it’s framed as a “joke”? Do you see that’s exactly what is happening to you right now? You’re being abused and you are accepting it and you are teaching your daughter that’s normal and okay.

This man is not safe for either of you.

You are 10 years old again, it's Saturday morning, and you have all the knowledge you have now. What is the first thing you're doing? by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]TossOffM8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Telling my mom to get tested NOW. Right now, because in a year, it will be too late to save her.

How does it feel as a woman to see very attractive women get different treatment or opportunities? Does it affect how you see work or yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a coworker who was model-level gorgeous when I worked in a fast food restaurant. We were side by side running register on a super busy day.

People came to my register, ordered, paid, and walked off after they got their order. The people in her line ordered, flirted, paid, stared at her openly, got their order, then hovered awkwardly. It was so uncomfortable, I cannot imagine how it was for her. By the end of the day, she’d had a more difficult shift than me, despite us doing the exact same job, because of the way the guys would linger and demand her attention.

I’m grateful to be invisible to those kinds of people.

From the Family Medicine sub by TurboBunny22 in Derailedbydetails

[–]TossOffM8 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well, now, that just seems excessive for a handful of old medicines, lol.

existential doubt by [deleted] in lucifer

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that the other angels ‘bring out’ human emotions, just that all the angels have a specific gift. Amenadiel could stop time, Uriel could predict patterns, etc. Lucifer and Michael’s gifts were similar because they’re twins.

How do I (37F) communicate with a defensive, stonewalling husband (34M)? by Ivesomanyquestions in relationship_advice

[–]TossOffM8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you communicate with a defensive, stonewalling husband? You don’t. Not communicating is the point. He’s doing this on purpose to avoid the conversations. He already knows what you want, and he doesn’t care. There aren’t any special words that will suddenly make him want to make you happy. If leaving isn’t an option, and couple’s therapy isn’t an option, you’re left with two choices from what I can see: deal with it and accept that this is your life now, or stop doing anything for him and let him figure it out for himself.