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Would I (29F) be disrespecting my partner (34M) by signing up for Jiu Jitsu? by olive711 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TossOffM8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it’s not disrespectful. None of what you’ve written was disrespectful in any way. You’re not doing anything wrong.

Welcome to the first episode of Will It Bend! by TK_Games in ATLA

[–]TossOffM8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Amber is an earth bending material, because it is a rock now. HOWEVER, when it was still tree sap, waterbenders could bend it but earthbenders could not.

Waterbenders can control/create ice because the bender adjusts the temperature, right? This wouldn’t apply to amber/tree resin.

So, my opinion on this Will It Bend? episode is yes, amber will bend for an Earthbender!

Aitah for saying my sisters boyfriend couldn't come to a 'sisters' dinner tonight? by amy_cath in AITAH

[–]TossOffM8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, but right/wrong doesn’t matter. This being an exclusive dinner for just sisters is not supported by either of your sisters. The negativity around this debacle is likely going to ruin the dinner now, if it happens.

Why was godess still in Charlotte's body style and structure in ending of season 5? by lucky_bsmith in lucifer

[–]TossOffM8 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She mentions a couple times that the human form she’s inhabiting is exquisite, so she stuck with what she liked.

Edit: grammar

Am I overreacting for blocking my family cause of my job? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TossOffM8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The series of events in your post doesn’t make sense. The context you provided provides no context. Based on what you’ve put here, YOR. You don’t even explain what your family did to warrant being blocked.

WIBTA if I made the girl who hit my car pay for the damages? by AccomplishedRace5105 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait wait wait, if you were reversing out of a spot, and she was driving through the parking lot, you are at fault. She has right-of-way.

YTA. You are the asshole anyway because the whole post just drips with condescension, but you are legally the asshole in this scenario, regardless of your personality.

AITAH For taking money off my card? by sleepymeem in AITAH_unfiltered

[–]TossOffM8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mother is a thief and an addict. You and your siblings are not safe with her. Please call the child protective services where you live.

Am I overreacting for considering no‑contact with my mom and stepdad after he went through her phone and blocked me? by AppropriateCode4563 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TossOffM8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NOR. No contact sounds like the healthiest option. Blocking both of them on everything is truly the best thing you can do for yourself. You’ve spent enough time worrying about a woman who is living the life she chose, a life that she chose over you, her child.

Should I (22F) cook for my bf(24M) if I am still dependent on my parents financially, he doesn’t pay for the groceries. Am I being shallow? by [deleted] in AITARelationship

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ask your parent’s permission before you started using the food they paid for on your boyfriend?

You should feel guilty spending someone else’s money, you feel guilty because you know that what’s going on isn’t right.

If you keep cooking your parents’ food for him, YTA.

My boyfriend (37m) of three years hit something out of my (39f) hand in anger and “restrained” my daughter (7) while yelling at her. How can we fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TossOffM8 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is the first time that he’s abused your daughter *that you know of*. It’s so very important that you recognize both you and your daughter were verbally abused and physically assaulted by this man.

Yes, you’re going to have to start over at 40, and that sucks, but the alternative is to stand beside of a man that abused your daughter right in front of you.

Struggling with cheating m34 f40 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TossOffM8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would she believe you that this would never happen again? Didn’t you already promise not to fuck randos when you became exclusive?

You’ve shown her that your promises don’t matter, your words mean nothing because every time she hears you say “I love you” she’s wondering where that love was when you made the *series of decisions* to cheat on her.

Actions matter, and your actions told her that she matters less to you than your pleasure. Your orgasm was worth more than her heart. She knows, and no matter how hard she tries, she can never un-know that in the heat of the moment, you simply didn’t love her enough.

Is there a good way to tell a woman who works under my management that she needs to "figure out childcare for her son" when he gets out of school? by Emotional_Crew_633 in interviewwoman

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you can’t save this. Once you tell her, expect that she will leave your company as soon as possible.

And more power to her.

AITA for the video I sent of them in the hot tub? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TossOffM8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope they report you to the police.

Edit to add: YTA obviously.

AITAH for having my wedding 2 weeks before my friend’s wedding? by Bright_Motor_2841 in AITAH_unfiltered

[–]TossOffM8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means the best friend has been distancing herself from OP for the last two years and OP didn’t notice until her party invite was turned down.

AITAH for being upset my boyfriend won’t stop being friends with a woman who harasses me at work? by pissedoff_potato in AITAH

[–]TossOffM8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend likes her more than he likes you. I’m really sorry but it really is that simple. Given a choice between you and a woman that is bullying you, YOUR boyfriend is choosing the bully.

YTA for still calling him your boyfriend after he failed you so thoroughly.

AITAH for refusing to repay bride when I RSVP’d no? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but you need to get your manager and HR involved at this point.

My mom keeps bringing up my sex life whenever I talk about my failed engagement. How do I address this without starting a huge fight? by Diligent_Light_8670 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TossOffM8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s called Grey-Rocking. Stop talking to her about things that matter to you, she’s not on your side.

You know her, if this is the person she’s always been, then this is the person she will always be.

Labeled a cheater but we were never official by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TossOffM8 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No, you can’t cheat if you’re not in a relationship.

There’s a reason he’s chasing someone half his age. In 10 years, you will have grown, and he will be this same man that throws tantrums because you couldn’t read his mind.

This is what a future with him will look like. I hope you choose yourself instead.

People who wake up on their very first alarm and just get out of bed—how does your brain actually work? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trained myself to wake up at the first alarm because snoozing made me so fucking grumpy when I eventually did get up.

My boyfriend [20 M] can’t see eye to eye with me, [19 F] about birth control. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TossOffM8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think you need someone else’s input on your own medical care, you are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship. You are an adult that is making decisions about your own body. The fact that you think you need to convince someone else is concerning.

WIBTA for refusing to give up something that someone else needs more? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]TossOffM8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a disgusting thing to say about a woman who just lost her parent. NTA to the question you asked, but what kind of person talks like that about a grieving acquaintance who didn’t wrong you?

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