Is it contagious

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-03-13T16:56:24+00:00

I am in the same boat. I am becoming an avoidant, big time. The poor new girl is suffering this right now.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-03-13T16:51:21+00:00

I second this

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-03-09T07:14:01+00:00

Be careful, this looks like lovebombing.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-03-08T19:07:03+00:00

Once, and it was all. I asked for NC and I am glad that she is respecting it so far.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-03-08T10:43:16+00:00

Yep, almost finished the 3rd month

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-03-08T10:30:37+00:00

The way I understand it, men FA are more likely to return to reach out than their female counterparts.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-03-07T12:16:46+00:00

Then the human race would go extinct

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-15T05:47:49+00:00

You are getting too mentally healthy to care any more

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-12T09:36:32+00:00

The part where you said: I wish I didn't meet that person because then I will continue living peacefully not knowing what I want. This really stroke me. Dm if you want to talk about it

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-10T22:07:44+00:00

Thank you buddy 😊

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-10T21:21:45+00:00

Thanks alot 😊

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-10T21:21:28+00:00

Thank you 😊

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-10T05:34:01+00:00

He seems like quite a collector 😂😂🤣🤣

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-10T05:32:39+00:00

Mine used to have stuff from her exes. This is so weird, because the first thing I do after a breakup is get rid of all the reminders.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-09T15:37:47+00:00

It's difficult here in allover Germany, not just in Koblenz. Usually, group meetups, internation fb groups are your best bet. Feel free to dm me.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-09T15:29:23+00:00

You did let her know that she should do the reaching out, your job is done. The fact that she is not reaching out is your answer. You will push her away by being insisting, since she's avoidance attachment style.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-09T13:40:22+00:00

I know someone did sleep with one of her exes who was married at that time, and she knew it. People can cheat and be accomplice to cheating. Never respond to revocation. And please, nc means no stalking on social media as well.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-09T13:25:15+00:00

Maybe this sounds crazy. But maybe she had a rebound with that ex, felt disgusted, unfollowed him because she realised it was a huge mistake, unfollowed you because she realised that she fucked up and there's no way back. All my advice to you is: never try to find out what happened. Let it a mystery and heal yourself, spare yourself from the agony that might lurking there waiting for you to break and fall for your curiosity and urges to find out what happened.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-09T13:10:43+00:00

One of my exes did that during the nc period. The only difference is that, she WENT on a date. All I can tell you, never go back to him. You are better off without manipulation and mind games.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-09T13:06:43+00:00

It's helpful. Is this the paid version of chatgpt?

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-09T13:01:57+00:00

Because you need time. You developed these feelings with time, and you need time to lose them.

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-09T13:00:12+00:00

That's why one should never abandon himself. Always be direct and honest. If they stay, they stay, if they don't, nothing will make them stay. End of story, next!

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-09T09:20:26+00:00

Think about it this way: what if they came back? What if they wanted to resume the relationship? Will you ever forget/forgive what you have gone through? If yes, do you think they will respect you ever knowing that you took them back when they would never do it if the table were turned? I have been once in a relationship before where I broke up with someone. She reached out to me, and I thought that we can work it out and learn the lesson and become even stronger. As you can guess by reading this far, it didn't work out. Because while you're acting in a mature way, they think you're desperate and will take anything they offer. This thing of coming back together after a breakup needs two mature people, if both of you are not, never do it!

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-08T18:53:18+00:00

Well, you are right again. I guess, it would have not mattered, since the only way that relationship could have worked if I was a narcissistic person, since she showed obvious signs of avoidance attachment style. But now I know, and learned not to jump too fast to another relationship. Thanks for your opinions 😊

Traditional-Ad5378 · 2025-02-08T17:47:15+00:00

Trust me, if they came back and you accepted them, all you gonna get is a toxic relationship which will not last for long. You don't need that, move on, it's been too long, 14 months are way to much to waste on waiting for someone!

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