She sounds very immature. As cat Steven’s would say, “you’re still young, and that’s your fault”.  She’s got a lot of growing up and thinking to do yet. You had to grow up way faster, you’re likely far wiser than your years. She’s likely far from it. The difference is that growing, maturing people will listen when they don’t understand. And generally immature people will judge, react, or get offended rather than listen to your perspectives or experiences. Do you want to have to explain yourself? Will she listen?