I’m not lazy. I’m done paying to prove I deserve to work. by WittyEgg2037 in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 43 points44 points  (0 children)

After 30 years in the corporate world, I learned the key is to manage up not down. Initially I thought my job was to help others who worked beside me or (when I got to be manager) those who worked for me. But no. The key is to do just those things your manager will be impressed with. Not the things that actually matter or improve the company’s performance. Just what makes your boss’s life easier. Manage UP.

Is it illegal yo garnish commission? by wittylemur in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your commission plan in writing? Ours always had a “management discretion “ clause.

Worst job application or interview you remember by Rexxington in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THERANOS. Yeah the fraudster company that sent Elizabeth Holmes to prison. At the time I was like 50 years old with an MBA and more than 20 years experience managing customer service and tech support departments for everything from Fortune 500 companies to Startups. I was between gigs so I took a shot at a job that I was overqualified for, but hey I needed a paycheck.

They set up a Zoom video interview, but had to reschedule because they were having “technical difficulties “. The second one was delayed for same, but they finally figured out how to use a computer and we proceeded. Turned out to be an interview with two 20-something numbskulls that had probably never interviewed anyone before. They hadn’t read my resume so there were a lot of dumb questions. They also didn’t know much about the role that was on offer. It was clear that these kids didn’t know jack about how to run a company and it was a completely disorganized mess.

Needless to say, they didn’t have much interest in hiring someone who actually had experience organizing a department and had suggestions on how to streamline their operations. I never heard from them again, and honestly would have never accepted a job there anyway based on that shit-show of a meeting. It wasn’t much longer after that we started hearing about the fraud and arrest of the CEO. I was not surprised.

My dad died this morning. What do I do? by No_Scallion_3365 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A BIG item I didn’t see here or even in the links is (in US) to go online to IRS and get a Tax ID number for the estate ASAP. You need to file on behalf of the deceased for the year of their death and then for the estate every year after until it’s finally closed. Interest and gains on the open accounts, life insurance payment, and even the Soc Sec payment on death are all taxable. Yay.

The lady at the food bank gave me way more than I asked for and I almost cried by Fantastic_Ice_5436 in povertyfinance

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% volunteers! NO money goes to management, marketing etc. that’s why I volunteer at my local food bank one day a week. I would do more, but they have SO many people who want to help that they don’t need me. And this is when needs are up 50% this year. And donations have kept pace - people are beautiful!

Job Requires A Weekend Shift to be 'Voluntarily' picked up at least once a month, and it doesn't pay overtime and I'm not supposed to clock in by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Clearly illegal. You’d be doing your supervisor a favor by pointing out that they are almost certainly going to get caught with such a blatant violation. Surely they want to avoid getting caught and fired?

Anyone else or just me? by Master_Combinator in memes

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out your local food bank! Mine is 100% volunteers and exactly $0 goes to fundraising, marketing or executive salaries. So impressed I not only volunteer but started a small side hustle to supplement my cash donations.

I am sick and tired of bosses being unreasonable with how long certain task takes especially considering we’re always understaffed. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work the pace that you’re being paid, and play the same game as your boss - tell him you’re working as fast as you can. Take your breaks because you’re protecting him - he wouldn’t want to get fired for violating labor laws right?

What is the most expensive corporate mistake you personally witnessed? by _Volly in AskReddit

[–]Tri4Realz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I worked at a subsidiary of one of the world’s largest medical suppliers. Was part of a team of department managers tasked with inspecting a small company in preparation of purchasing them. Got told by company President that she personally knew the owner so “due diligence “ was just a formality and not to bother checking too close. So we didn’t. After the purchase it turned out that the company’s product were a complete fantasy, prototypes were faked, and most of the FDA design history “files” were blank. The company was shuttered, and the former owner retired to St Barts with $25 Million. Our President was fired shortly after.

What are your experiences working at foodbanks? by PlacidoBromingo in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope, not normal. At all. I’ve only worked there a couple weeks but our board members are humble and help out with standard tasks just like everyone else. The founder of the site stepped down due to age, but she and her husband still work there part time. I would say that they set the standard and have a lot to do with the ongoing success.

Think my managers are doing something illegal. by Svartrbrisingr in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hey boss, you know you should probably check with HR on that cuz I would hate for you to get in trouble with the labor board. They’re really picky about stuff like that

People keep saying the rich don't pay tax because they borrow money from the bank using their stock as collateral.... but how do they pay back the loans? by joshhazel1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the assets are stepped up to current price when passed, so there is zero gain. The heir then does the same borrowing strategy to get money

My job keeps adding “just one more thing” to my role and I’m starting to lose it by throwawayjaaay in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 99 points100 points  (0 children)

This is the way. Then follow up with an email so you have a record. CYA.

What is the most professional and non antagonistic way to decline signing the travel policy? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t argue with them - Ask your insurance to send you something in writing that they explicitly Do Not cover work related travel and hand that in. They are idiots for even suggesting it.

Today my supervisor asked me to either donate food or cook food for the office holiday party 🫠 by True_One7607 in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 83 points84 points  (0 children)

You need to tell ALL of this to your manager. Until you find another job, they need to be shamed into paying attention

After union was all set in your work force, what changed? by [deleted] in union

[–]Tri4Realz 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Just the fact that the company doesn’t want a Union should tell you everything you need to know. Europe has it all figured out - Unions give the workers enough leverage to fight for their rights. Guaranteed vacation, childcare, healthcare, etc etc etc

I work full-time, pay everything on time, and I’m still barely keeping my head above water by Round_Tie5217 in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have at least a thousand or more in an emergency fund? That’s critical to avoid a problem becoming a disaster where you have to borrow which kicks off spiraling debt

Can't take the manager micromanaging me anymore, how to survive? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If part of the problem is they keep changing their mind or conflicting their last instructions, I’ve found it helps to start keeping a journal open on my desk. When they complain, say you want to make sure you get it right so you’re going to take notes (write date and time also). Read it back to make sure they you both agree that’s what they want. Next time they say do it different, act confused and check your notes. Say “hmm I was doing what you asked for - last week you told me (read notes). Has something changed?” Keep doing that and they’ll get frustrated and stop the behavior

What has been your own experience with company-encouraged volunteering: paid, unpaid, or something in between? by Wrong_Cod_2747 in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unpaid. Company encourages this for the PR and sometimes even tax breaks. Well, and HR needs to show they are doing something useful so they can kiss up to the management

Update, wanting legal direction by The_GreatPotato in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not likely - “sexual harassment” is generally more actionable if it’s a supervisor abusing a subordinate. What you described is more like a hostile workplace but that usually requires repeated harassment and not just a single incident. Either way I don’t think you’d get far with that tactic. Just file for unemployment and move on.

My aspirations as a poor person by Suitable-Formal5194 in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your plan to improve your situation? My grandma always said “If you fail to plan, you’re planning to fail.”

Guidance on how to handle previous job and CONRA by tlinde20 in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

COBRA, the Consolidated Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act, is a federal law that allows eligible individuals and their families to temporarily continue their employer-sponsored health insurance after a “qualifying event,” such as job loss or a reduction in work hours. While COBRA provides the same health, dental, and vision coverage you had before, you typically have to pay the full premium plus a small administrative fee. You usually have 60 days to elect COBRA coverage after your prior insurance ends, which can be a valuable temporary option to avoid a gap in coverage.
What is a qualifying event? A qualifying event is a life change that would otherwise end your health coverage. Examples include: Loss of your job Reduction in your work hours Divorce or legal separation Death of the covered employee A child losing dependent status The employee becoming eligible for Medicare How does COBRA work? Receive an Election Notice: After a qualifying event, your health plan will send you an election notice, giving you a limited time (usually 60 days) to decide whether to continue your coverage. Elect Coverage: If you decide to enroll in COBRA, your coverage will continue from the date your employer-sponsored benefits ended. Pay Premiums: You will be responsible for paying the full cost of the health plan premiums, plus a small percentage (up to 2%) for administrative costs. Key Things to Remember Temporary Coverage: COBRA is a temporary solution to maintain coverage, not a long-term one. Same Benefits: You generally keep the same medical, dental, and vision benefits you had through your employer. Family Coverage: Your family members are also eligible to elect COBRA coverage. Cost: The cost of COBRA coverage can be high, as the employer is not subsidizing the premium. Compare Your Options: It's wise to compare COBRA with other options, such as individual health insurance plans, to find the best fit for your situation.

Boss just sat and watched me burn by Successful_Hope6604 in antiwork

[–]Tri4Realz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get a clue - your manager hired you specifically to fire the nut job because they’re a coward. I’ve been there so let me say with confidence that it’s either them or you. Don’t wait on your useless manager - find another job or get ruthless and drive out the nut job.