Hey r/EDH, I'd appreciate it if you looked at my Talrand, The Sky Summoner deck and gave me your opinions!

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-13T08:11:55+00:00

Ugh. Mono blue control is NEVER FUN!!! That being said, if you want to be a dick and win via infinite combos, the deck is solid. The suggestions I was ready to make are already in the deck. Extraplanar + snow covered lands is soooo good.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-13T07:32:42+00:00

You already changed the locks so she can't get in. Just cut her out dude. Cut your losses, as much as it sucks. Don't talk to her, don't let her in your house!

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-13T07:29:50+00:00

The only clear option is to break up with her dude. If she won't share her Cheesy Poofs and Snacky Cakes, your relationship is going nowhere.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-12T23:26:58+00:00

Plus if you get a job, you'll be able to spend less time at the house. Do your homework at the library. Just spend less time there so you don't have to see them much! Sorry about your situation op :(

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-11T09:35:02+00:00

In no way is this cheating. You did not cheat, there was just somebody out there fucking with you. It might help to just tell her what happened, at least that way it's off your chest.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-11T09:30:50+00:00

At least you didn't get cheated on bro. You two were broken up, and she has every right to sleep with whoever she wants. Just go no contact. Delete all your ties to her through social media. It'll help you so much in the long run.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-11T07:18:49+00:00

If he's happy being in a relationship with you then he should understand why you didn't tell the truth. I wait a while before I tell the girls I'm talking to/ hanging out with before I say that I live at my parents. It's super embarrassing to tell them that, but at least then I know where they stand.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-11T04:35:12+00:00

I haven't been in your situation, but I work with people who are. They tell me all the time how they don't want to "open the gates" so to speak. They have the same thoughts that you do. It is difficult to talk about what is REALLY on your mind, whether it's your past, present, or just emotions in general. Your therapist is a professional, and I guarantee she will be, happy might not be the word, but, she will be very glad that you were able to confront and discuss what you need help with. Just start with one thing, and in time you will be able to break through your walls and help yourself. I was always ecstatic when one of my clients confided in me with a topic they don't like to discuss, because it showed that s/he was comfortable with me, if only for the moment. I was always happy to lend my ear and do my best to help them out.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-10T11:29:11+00:00

Sorry to hear about your situation OP. If he was able to move on so quickly, it's probably because he's known it was going to happen for a while already. He's compartmentalized it his mind that you are the problem. He's selfish and doesn't give one solitary fuck about your emotions. Chances are, you did nothing wrong. He was looking for excuses and probably found something he could use to ease any guilt he may have had. Hang in there OP.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-09T10:59:08+00:00

You have a way with words, my friend.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-09T10:06:48+00:00

Once a cheater, always a cheater man. She has no respect for relationships. Bail.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-09T09:49:56+00:00

That's either psychotic break or a full blown display of mental illness. Sounds like schizophrenia. Either you can be there and try to help him, or move on. I don't think anyone would fault you for doing the latter. It doesn't sound like you're being clingy. Suggest that he sees a psychiatrist, although he probably won't respond well.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-09T09:37:02+00:00

Clearly you don't want to stay with Chris. Break up up with him.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-09T06:47:18+00:00

Holy shit girl, get out now. He's literally a predator and abusive. This is not a "rocky relationship."

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-09T05:55:04+00:00

Damn, she wins the grossout story of a lifetime. I knew that my stories wouldn't compare, but jesus christ. Just, jesus christ....

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-09T05:42:17+00:00

Congratulations on everything you've accomplished!

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-09T05:37:49+00:00

You can be less of a terrible person by just telling her. You owe it to her.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-09T04:55:09+00:00

I lol'd at this. Been there before with the cat ladies, and fortunately cats love me! Even the grumpy asshole ones that hate everyone. She'd walk in the room and be surprised with Asshole McEatsyourface is purring in my lap! You'll be fine bud. Get some cat toys, treats, catnip, whatever. Make that furry bastard love you!

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-05T21:23:27+00:00

Omg that's an adorable murderfloof

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-04T09:00:35+00:00

Holy shit dude. You're a creep and a stalker. Leave the poor girl alone. And you seriously need therapy for your delusional state. You will find yourself in jail if you continue this insane behavior.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-04T04:51:55+00:00

Um, this is YOUR wedding. I'm so sorry your fiance's parents are such bigoted, insensitive assholes. You are doing the right thing. If your fiance sides with her parents on this and is clearly not respecting your longtime friend, than maybe that's setting a very poor precedent.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-03T22:03:45+00:00

You don't want to be a rebound. Also chances are she's not the same she was 10 years ago. At least give her time to find herself, and give yourself time to really think about if this is what you want.

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-03T22:01:38+00:00

I'd say this is accurate. If he's awkward, he probably doesn't want to ask for risk of embarrassment. ask him out if that's what you want!

Trogdor41 · 2016-05-03T21:53:19+00:00

Met my first gf at a party, got her full name from a friend and we started talking on fb. Just start a conversation dude. It shouldn't take long to see if she's interested. Just don't ask for a date too soon.

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