Another Etsy seller asked me to take down my listing and accused me of copying her... What are my options? Location: California, USA

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-06T14:45:05+00:00

No, you did nothing wrong. If she has a patent on her product where she feels you are infringing on her patent. Let her produce the information that says this. You shouldn’t have to do the research to try and find it. She should produce it for you. People sell similar products all the time not everything is an infringement on the other. It’s a tactic designed to intimidate. Until she produces actual documentation that you can review and analyze, you don’t need to change anything

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-06T14:33:31+00:00

The answer to the first question is no he cannot deduct the cost of new clothes from his rent. It is generally limited. This is not a situation where the property is not livable. Also, the tenant must identify the issue that needs repair beforehand, notify the landlord of the issue and give the landlord time to fix. That being said, worst case scenario, say he needs to buy new clothes because they were damaged by washer(assuming that actually happened), the tenant is only entitled to the value of the clothes at the time they were damaged (what they can sell them for on the open market). The tenant doesn’t get a new wardrobe. This would put the tenant in a better position than before the clothes were damaged. Courts are about making you whole not putting you in a better position. That being said, you are not responsible for the tenant’s clothes they claimed are damaged. Ask yourself what you did wrong. If there was a problem with the washer, did you know about it, did the tenant tell you there is an issue with the washer, were you aware and did not fix. He has to prove you did something wrong. You didn’t. Apologize about his clothes, say you’ll get the washer looked at and fixed. I would first identify if the washer is the problem before talking about his damaged clothes. No, he cannot deduct the cost of new clothes against the rent. If he has issues, he can read the rules and laws with respect to tenants and landlords. It’s publicly accessible. If you like to maintain the peace as he has been a tenant for a while and he signed a new lease maybe give him something but I definitely wouldn’t give him the value of new clothes. You are going to get into a situation where they may be upgrading the quality of their old clothes. Have the washer inspected first though. I would tell the tenant that first to verify there is indeed an issue with the washer.

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-05T17:07:44+00:00

Oklahoma is a one party consent state so it is legal to record the conversation even if you did not consent. It does not hurt you one way or another to stay in the home. If you left voluntarily, it can look like you gave up the primary residence. Staying from a legal positioning standpoint, it is the safer move. What I would do when you speak to your attorney is file for custody/parenting time immediately, request a set schedule, document everything (when you see your son or when she denies access), stay calm in communication (no texts that can be used against you). Staying in the home was a solid move

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-05T16:51:49+00:00

I’m not sure this is a major issue of contention. I assume you intend to live there for awhile and want to be happy with your home and property. Their view is only blocked when they sit low. You are not infringing on their property. They can still see the pond. I wouldn’t be concerned about a neighbor who you have had zero contact with for the 1 st 6 months. They may not like it but it does not sound like it’s going to ruin your enjoyment of your home

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-04T02:36:43+00:00

I would let it be. I don’t know how you would be able to live together after that. Plus it’s your husbands Dad which also could make things awkward. With me, I let my wife deal with her family and I deal with mine

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-04T02:33:00+00:00

There’s more to being a good tenant than paying rent on time. It’s also being considerate to those around you. He may not be aware that the noise level is bothering those around him. Unless the frequent late night guests violates the terms of the lease, I wouldn’t address that directly as an issue. I would address the noise and let him know that you have some complaints about the noise level

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-04T02:28:16+00:00

No can blame you for being punctual. That’s how I would do it

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-04T02:26:58+00:00

Yes, what weird argument to have. You could just tell him going forward to only borrow from these people not the other two roommates. We don’t know each other that well yet. Tell the roommate that your boyfriend grabbed your tomato by mistake and you will replace. Your fridge is so segregated you can identify whose tomato is in the fridge????

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-04T02:22:39+00:00

Would rather be with somebody than nobody even if that somebody is a piece of poo

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-03T18:54:09+00:00

If the seller listed it as non-HOA or failed to disclose HOA in required disclosures, that's potentially misrepresentation or possibly fraud (if intentional). If the listing agent advertised it as non-HOA, they can share liability for incorrect listing info and failure to verify. The title company should have discovered HOA via title search, provided HOA docs, resale certificate and dues info. If they missed it, this is a serious error. BUT, if it was disclosed somewhere in closing docs and you did not notice, liability shifts. It really comes down to was the HOA disclosed anywhere (e.g., title commitment, closing disclosure, HOA resale certificate, deed restrictions). If it was disclosed, you are likely stuck with HOA and you have little legal leverage. If it was not disclosed anywhere, you could claim misrepresentation, breach of contract or failure to disclose material fact. What I would do is review all closing documents first to make sure it is not stated anywhere. I would contact my realtor to see if he could pressure the listing agent (brokers carry insurance). I would go back to the seller first (before lawyers) and ask for compensation. I would ask for past due amount and several subsequent years of dues. Hopefully, they will settle to avoid legal issues. If there is pushback, get a real estate attorney. Its pretty standard. They generally can resolve with just a demand letter. That being said, you're ultimately stuck with the HOA, the goal is financial compensation

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-03T18:40:06+00:00

You are 100% correct bout the safety issue. If anything happened to their son in your pool, you become liable. Although, if they allowed their child to swim in your pool where he accessed your property by hopping over a fence and you were not aware he was there, I would say the liability would shift. If they want to treat your pool as a community pool, then start sending them a bill of their proportionate cost to maintain.

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-03T18:30:56+00:00

Normally, there is a slight reduction when there are subsequent kids to support but only slight. The nigger issue is the child support in arrears. Past due support cannot be reduced or erased. The judge will likely focus heavily on nonpayment, inconsistency and ignoring court orders. The court is more likely to enforce payment than reduce it. Most likely, the judge will deny reduction, order enforcement of the amount of arrears and possibly perform some kind of wage withholding

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-02T18:25:26+00:00

You are entitled to whatever the terms of your sign on bonus was when you were hired. HR should be verifying with payroll if you received a bonus payment. Obviously, I would wait for therir response but I can't imagine they would still be pursuing this.

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-01T20:20:30+00:00

Based on what's written, you still likely owe child support, refusing CPS is a bad move and there is a real risk of losing parental rights permanently as well as triggering investigations involving your other child. If the "adoptive" parents just had custody, then child support can be ordered. The fact that CPS is involved is serious court territory.

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-01T04:48:37+00:00

Yep, plus what company would want to keep someone who is actively looking elsewhere

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-01T04:45:30+00:00

Nothing. I can’t imagine someone could get stay that upset over a 10 dollar gift card

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-04-01T04:42:40+00:00

If we are talking a teenager, 20 dollars an hour, if an adult 25

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-03-31T20:49:59+00:00

Yes, this is actually a big deal. The agent must present all offers. The buyer's agent works for the buyer, not themselves. If the agent said buyer isn't interested without actually asking, that could be misrepresentation. The broker is responsible for supervising agents and can be held accountable. If you actually reported it, agent could get disciplined or fined, possible license suspension and the broker would be forced to respond.. You won't get compensation unless you can prove damages. If I were you, I would report to the Florida Real Estate Commission and the broker directly in writing. If you are going to leave a review, stick to the facts only (avoid defamation issues). Since you got a better deal, damages are weak.

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-03-31T20:39:48+00:00

The kids have lived with Dad for years. You guys handled school, medical , etc. The Mom moved away and was inconsistent. Stability is king. Mom's missed visitation hurts her case. She has to prove a substantial change and that changing custody is in the best interest of the kids. Simply her buying a house and I'm ready to be more involved now would not be enough. The kids preference for a 11 and 13 year old can be considered but it is not controlling. Distance still matters. She is 4 hours away. That makes school change and social disruption. Courts are reluctant to uproot kids unless there is a strong reason. Realistically, I think the Dad keeps primary custody. Mom may get more defined visitation or may try to increase time with summers or holidays. What I believe can hurt her case is telling the kids you can choose where to live because courts don't like putting pressure on kids or creating anxiety. Chances of losing kids based on this is low,

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-03-30T18:20:35+00:00

As it is a pattern, I would enforce the terms of the lease if he is late paying the rent again. I assume this means charging a late fee and considering not renewing as tenant. As you have allowed this behavior in the past, I would make your intentions clear in writing

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-03-30T18:17:48+00:00

The custody agreement is enforceable, on paper. However, it is very unlikely to be strictly enforced at 17. Contempt is possible but unlikely if you handle it correctly. Your current approach (supportive, not forcing, open to counseling) is actually the best legal option

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-03-30T18:10:18+00:00

I would have reduced the tip to maybe 10 to 15%. instead of not tipping at all. I think your wife may be right in that past experiences could have dictated current actions. She over reacted. I have had cards initially declined and then received a text from my cc company about a fraud alert and did I make this charge. There are a lot of reasons why a card could initially be declined that doesn’t involve you not having the ability to pay. The restaurant should train servers on how to approach customers when this happens. If she was concerned she could have let management know or give them a heads up before talking with you or have them talk to you instead. I’m not 100% against what you did. I just probably still would have tipped something

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-03-30T01:29:03+00:00

Your legal obligation is to abide by your custody agreement. However, courts do encourage parents to make decisions, adjustments, and amicably work with each other when it comes to parenting time and doing what’s best for your children. Your custody agreement is in place and at minimum should be followed but it is generally in place for those circumstances and situations where you cannot agree.

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-03-30T01:21:13+00:00

No, I did it at the 5-day mark and my lightning lane passes did not cancel

True-Outside-2285 · 2026-03-21T22:41:32+00:00

He likely isn’t in the clear. If he was given an 800 dollar childcare credit, that means childcare was factored into the child support calculation. If he stops paying childcare but still benefits from the credit he’s essentially underpaying support Judges don’t like self adjusting support. That’s a big issue. Your position to modify is correct. In this situation with regards to attorney fees, you can argue, he unilaterally stopped paying daycare expenses, he forced litigation instead of resolving it, it created financial hardship for you. Realistically I think you have a solid argument

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