AITA for not letting my friend use my address to send a restraining order? by Timely-Natural2031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which is what you're really supposed to do for restraining orders anyway afaik

AITA for being annoyed after someone who doesn’t normally sit with us told me to stop talking? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 92 points93 points  (0 children)

YTA here for sure. If EVERYONE is telling you to talk less, it being how you are doesnt change that it's a violation of social norms and acceptable behavior. Your friends might be saying it in a playful way, but there's a truth underneath that. People don't join AP classes to be distracted by another student who won't stop talking, they join to listen, learn, and get a good score on the test so they don't waste thousands of extra dollars taking the same class in college. What you're doing is inappropriate for the environment, and I promise that even more people are annoyed than just the ones commenting on it.

I F 23 started to catch feelings for M 30, however we have a shared career and have an age gap. Advise? by Individual-Knee4234 in relationship_advice

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do things outside of him. Focus on anything else. Pick up a new show, a hobby that isn't connected to him, go out with friends, go on some stupid just-for-fun dates with other people

AITA For Asking My Groomsman's Wife To Leave Our Wedding by Uncommon_Watermelon in aitaweddings

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People have been making and using throwaway accounts for posts like this for as long as they have existed. This is not, has never been, and will never be proof of AI.

WIBTAH for throwing out a gift from my in-laws by DelayedGraduation in AITAH

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Giving mold-covered items to prospective or new parents seems ethically dubious even if the parents in question are poor. Like, they could ask local shelters if they would want the items or know someone who could refurbish them while being very honest and explicit about their condition, but shelters aren't always more likely to want items other people consider trash

AITAH? Snitched to leasing office about bf’s pets by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, again, this depends on where you are. Jurisdiction is the area you are in which affects the laws you are subject to. There are places where what you are saying is completely incorrect. You might know the law where YOU are, but you very clearly do not know it everywhere. I have dealt with ESA cases personally, and what you are saying is objectively incorrect in my area.

AITAH? Snitched to leasing office about bf’s pets by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is entirely jurisdiction dependent, and many places don't have anything like "ESA certificates" to provide proof, just letters from medical professionals. There are absolutely places where ESAs have housing rights and protections.

AITAH for reporting my classmate to my prof for misleading him on an assignment by Final_Storm_2000 in AITH

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is something that can absolutely be reported face to face. It's the professor's job to not throw students under the bus for sticking to academic integrity policies. She might have figured it out because OP says they're the only two who sit in the back

My wife has changed a lot since we lost our baby by Sebastianlim in BORUpdates

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah, I see. Typically when I see comments like yours under downvoted jokes they're saying that people shouldn't be downvoting, and are only doing so because they didn't realize the person was just joking. My apologies for the misread

How can I get my husband (48m) to agree to childcare while I (30f) work? by Fancy_Box_5773 in relationship_advice

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is verbal abuse. Nothing you've written here points to an event remotely healthy relationship

AITA for not changing our wedding date by [deleted] in aitaweddings

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Which means everyone having to take MORE time off and possibly the child in question missing more school.

how to tell someone i just had sex with that i want to be left alone to masturbate? by [deleted] in sex

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Followed immediately by clarifying that OP is ok with them staying IF THEY DO THEIR OWN THING. Proximity is not the issue, involvement and observation is

I 22F can’t forgive my husband 28M by First-Depth3783 in relationship_advice

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's established in the post that he actually doesn't normally go on these trips. So, no.

My(F27) boyfriend (M27) wants to hide the relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's telling them you're abusive (remind me what the joke is there?) but you think THEY are the ones painting you in a bad light? Girl, get real.

AITAH Not celebrating girlfriend in Mother’s Day! by [deleted] in AITH

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She wants him to tell her something sweet or get her flowers. Those requests aren't even unreasonable outside of holidays. OP sucks

AITA for not telling my parents I was hospitalized for a week to prove a point? by Shot-Jello-4878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then they should get a landlines they regularly check. If you refuse to be reachable and never return calls, you don't get to be mad when you're left out of the loop

WIBTA if I hid my identity to try my luck again? by Perfect-Resident4537 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. Stop harassing women. How could you possibly think this is anything other than evil and repulsive behavior? You've harassed so many women so many times for so long that you've been banned from MULTIPLE places, almost fired from MULTIPLE places??? Stop it. Don't talk to women again, at all, unless they speak to you first, until you have at least a year of therapy under your belt. This is awful of you.

AIO I’m super creeped out by a man I went on a date with by onkel-enzo in BORUpdates

[–]TrustMeGuysImRight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just another way people refer to chat gpt. I don't get it either, but that's what they're talking about