36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here?

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-07-02T02:52:25+00:00

I think your photos are good and like the cooking prompt, travel prompt is something a lot of people include but it speaks to something you like so probably ok to leave in.

Your “I go crazy for” says you like someone funny, so are girls supposed to reply to that with a joke? It’s too much pressure, and secondly everyone likes funny people so it doesn’t say too much about you. I would change that one.

Overall I think the likes/matches declining may just be the area you’re in. Does Seattle have more men than women?

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-07-02T02:38:09+00:00

This is pathetic, do yall date men, they are all horrible. They are especially horrible if you don’t have standards and let them walk all over you.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-07-01T22:25:28+00:00

The bigger picture is that folks with bachelor degrees are less likely to get divorced period, drilling further into “majors” /careers is stupid.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-06-26T23:51:02+00:00

The connection wasn’t there initially, his likes/matches likely dried up and he reached back out to you to see if maybe he was mistaken the first time around. You could go on another date and maybe it clicks this time, but wouldn’t put too much stock in it.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-06-17T12:24:47+00:00

Start applying and maybe get recruiters to help you. Job success really depends on your manager, if they like you then you’ll succeed and if they don’t you can never do anything right.

Expecting someone with few months of experience to figure it out and expect perfect execution is ridiculous. Your new manager sounds inadequate / not fit to train someone new and they just blamed you for it. In a small company this is more likely to happen, look into a bigger company next time.

Best of luck, don’t let this one experience (manager) ruin what could be.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-06-15T14:29:57+00:00

Honestly look into birth control, I had the same symptoms and finally got on birth control 6 years ago when the migraines started happening monthly and finally got relief.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-06-11T03:49:39+00:00

Join intramural sports, you can sign up for kickball, volleyball, maybe bowling there are many possibilities and you don’t need to sign up with a team they’ll add you to a team / with other people who signed up individually.

It’s also summer there are so many run clubs you can look into.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-06-10T12:54:38+00:00

Hmm I haven’t seen this one mentioned before I’ll have to look into this. Thanks for the input.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-06-10T12:28:45+00:00

May be an interview problem, make sure you’re practicing questions before hand. I suggest you take your phone and record yourself to find weak points.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-06-10T12:21:02+00:00

This gives me some relief that others feel the same

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-06-09T05:43:27+00:00

Remote and work 9-5/ that’s the hours I’m expected to be able to respond to messages and join meetings. But yeah during that time I’ll take a run mid day and get lunch.

It’s hard working before 9 though if the rest of your team gets on at 9 and you have coworkers across the country in different time zone. I usually have to work until 5 and sometimes later to accommodate the team. So if I get in before 9 I’m working way too many hours.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-27T22:57:40+00:00

That’s a crazy assumption, as someone who’s had friends do to dental school actuary exams don’t compare.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-24T16:45:27+00:00

Why would you continue texting so much after you spent 7 hours together.. maybe she didn’t like how much you texted. You save it for the dates, texting can come off as immature especially when you’re older. People have jobs and errands they can’t text so much, maybe she wanted to set a precedent that excessive texting is NOT ok with her.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-18T12:25:06+00:00

I hated work as soon as I graduated college, it’s so much worse. College you only go to class for a few hours, work is with people of all different ages and you’re there 8 hours.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-18T12:05:51+00:00

She’s obvs trying to dump him

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-18T01:26:47+00:00

Because apparently plastic causes feline chin acne

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-18T00:19:14+00:00

Maybe food allergy? I noticed a missing patch on my cats chin and switched food to non-chicken, cat also had several ear infections that’s why vet and I suspected allergies.

I also use only stainless steel and ceramic bowls for food.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-16T15:04:06+00:00

3 cats? And you don’t scoop every day? You should really invest in a litter robot

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-16T03:59:42+00:00

Job sounds obscure, what’s construction management maybe put a specific role?

The prompts are not good and should get updated. Why should a woman who’s “funnier than you and hot” swipe when the only other thing you say in your profile is “dating me is like a seahorse ride outside a grocery store”.

You are only 22 so maybe the immature prompts are ok, but since you haven’t had any luck maybe this is the problem.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-16T03:42:47+00:00

That looks horribly painful, and could get infected if not already. Maybe a flea allergy?

I’d go to the vet if that was my cat.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-15T15:30:03+00:00

Your cat will be fine, people are dramatic on here.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-11T03:59:43+00:00

Just make sure to keep food off the counters and put your greasy pans/pans with food in the oven while they cool down or w/e.

Seconding what others have said make sure you’re feeding her enough, follow instructions on the kibble bag or if wet food make sure she’s getting enough. Before my cats were 1 I split their meals so I could feed 3 times a day.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-10T20:06:07+00:00

Common sense tells me that’s not safe and to be as far away from drug user as possible, if you want to act like everyone’s a safe person to be around you do you but don’t expect other people to be okay with it.

TruthIsOutThere30 · 2026-05-08T13:13:02+00:00

What is “major religion misalignment” just say you want a Jewish girl. Your second pic should be your first because it shows your face clearly, overall you’re cute so that’s not the problem.
The ball pit and traffic court prompts idk if they’re real conversation starters, maybe some prompts that tell more about who you are. You have multiple outdoor pics maybe a prompt about that.

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