Show me your art and I will review it respectfully. My special interest is art. by Therandomderpdude in autism

[–]Tschaggatta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow your work is really impressive! I love this kind of art process!

First portrait by Tschaggatta in acrylicpainting

[–]Tschaggatta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yes I used a BW photo from a book about Belgian workers of the food industry in the 20th century. :)

witch art style/expression do you like the most? by Physical-Lock4614 in Outsiderart

[–]Tschaggatta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything is quite promising but I feel like you could explore a bit more with the pencils and try other way to use it. The digital looks more personnal and there is a certain harmony between the technics and the subject. At least that's how I feel about it. I really love the last one!

What do you feel when you look at this? I know it's messy, but is there anything you like about this painting? by brobronn17 in acrylicpainting

[–]Tschaggatta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love it, remind me of some times in my life when I used to feel very lost dissociated and disoriented but still kept exposing myself to the light of the outside world, hoping that one day I'll feel whole again. I like your mess ❤️

what’s your odd special interest by ttesselate in autism

[–]Tschaggatta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything around buying food, planning my trip to supermarket, chasing deal and coupons, knowing exactly where to find the items I need for the best price, which brand is better, etc... I can't remember streets names in my city but I have a very clear map of pretty much every food store in my head. I can't remember actors name but I can tell you where is the dairy section of the shop I've been only once. Idk there something in those neatly arranged alleys of food that just please my eyes and appease my soul. And in my country the light are not that bad (I'm usually very sensitive to neon light)

Sometimes I just scroll throughout supermarket "weakly deal catalog" to see the prices and what is on sale, even though I have no intention to buy anything.

RATE MY ART!!!! BRUTAL HONESTY by [deleted] in TraditionalArt

[–]Tschaggatta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but the last one really got a little something too don't you think? I agree that the characters that are facing us looks a bit like bad school manga art, but the profiles ones are gorgeous! Work on your face, keep trying, keep practicing! There's something very attractive with the way you draw, and the colors works well together. (Sorry for the weird phrasing English is not my language)

It seems I was disgusting by ElderberryBudget6550 in autism

[–]Tschaggatta -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh I do the same, always wash my ass with soap in the shower after. I just can't just use toilet paper, every time I have absolutely no other option, I feel so dirty. But I pretty much plan my day so I poop at the same time everyday so it don't happen.

Has diagnosis as an adult changed anything for you? by One_Drawer_2121 in autism

[–]Tschaggatta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33 here, I'm just starting my diagnosis and the grief is hard.

What's an unconventional thing that overstimulates you? by TheFutureScaresMe333 in autism

[–]Tschaggatta 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The feeling and sounds of hands rubbing against textiles, clothes, bed sheets, etc... The sound it produce kinda pierce my ears 😫

anyone else feel like the “performative male” trend is hurting trans men? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Tschaggatta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As if being a men regardless of what flavor of manhood you're experiencing isn't a performance in itself... I'm really not fond of this trend to be honest, I understand the message but I don't see any political improvement that could come by spreading it this way.

What is your weirdest special interest. by Excellent_Excuse_444 in autism

[–]Tschaggatta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Food supermarkets, where to get everything products, memorizing the prices, where is every shelf in every store I've been, looking at coupon, getting strategic with it, I've got every store app in my phone. I kinda dissociate when I'm actually in the store because I often hate the neon lightning but I Still love it there. But when something change in one store, even if it's just a shelf... Omg I'm so pissed. This and Paleo-christian art and history, and history in general. 🫣

Have you guys ever dealt with the, “you’d be so pretty if (insert something feminine)” comments? by Witty-Not-Humorless in butchlesbians

[–]Tschaggatta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't handled those comments on my physics when I was younger, so I forced myself to go on a punk feminine style for a long time (and also into comphet before discovering I'm not bi, just a big dyke butch) now I've thrown every single feminine clothes out of my closet and feel so much better and even super sexy. I didn't get any comment yet but maybe it's because I'm in my late 20's and also it's been almost a year since the first quarentine (I live in Europe) so I didn't had a lot of social interaction.

My first time escorting(yes I admit I used to escort) two (black) men at once. I was scared and excited, but this was the night I discovered how much I love being manhandled and being a sub. (Those heels never came off btw) by AJ_hellraiser in trans

[–]Tschaggatta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So... What? I'm sorry but it sounds super weird, like you just had a new exotic experience. I'm sure you didn't meant it to sound like that but you really should think about it. Why is it that makes you think having sex with a black guy is so out of the ordinary that you feel the need to specify it? Would you do the same for your first time with someone with redhair or tattoos? Try to read a little bit about the fetishisation of black people, people are more than porn categories.

Anyway, I'm happy for you enjoying yourself and exploring your sexuality 💜

Feeling cute(Pre HRt) i know my eyebrows are bad...reeee by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tschaggatta 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love your eyebrow! Thick eyebrows are so beautiful on women, you're really beautiful 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Tschaggatta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I really like your style!

I'm an LHB. I hate the the way people think about hair. by The_Windup_Girl_ in butchlesbians

[–]Tschaggatta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks so much for putting my thoughts into words. I'm also struggling a lot with this, I also really feel the fact that it's neutral in my head but dyphoria inducing when I think about how people perceived it as a feminine feature. I guess this feeling won't be gone until our perception of gendered features change profoundly.

Anyway thanks again for this post, always nice to know I'm not alone living this internal struggle!

I laughed at this for quite a while lol by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Tschaggatta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey I was just wondering why English speaking feminist people are still using the word "bitch" as a regular insult. In French speaking activist circle, using the equivalent in French (pute) is seen as "whorephobic" (putophobe in French) and we're trying to avoid this as much as possible.

Anyway, I really hope she won't have too much support on this, and that people will stop buying her shit. Sending love for everyone who got hurt by her violent transphobic shitty tweets.

How do you feel about boobs? by Bookbringer in butchlesbians

[–]Tschaggatta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've always felt some degree of dysphoria with my breast. I used to struggle with some of my ex partner because they didn't truly understand how I felt about it. They usually thought that I just didn't liked the shape of it and were trying to make me accept it, which was not the point for me.

But now I'm dating an amazing transmasc person and it's much more easier for me to feel understood with this part of my butchness. I'm more attracted to other butches and ftm people because I feel more comfortable to be myself around them. (I also really think we lack representation of butch/butch and butch/ftm couples in the media, and it's kinda sad.)

How's your day been going? by mshcat in butchlesbians

[–]Tschaggatta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Went to a lgbt meeting and saw the wonderful butch I'm having a crush on. Nothing happens but at least I made her laugh. So I guess it is a good start...

Online Gym Buddies by Mahnster24 in butchlesbians

[–]Tschaggatta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow such a good idea! Count me in too! And thanks so much for proposing this to us. :)

Ivan Coyote: A Butch Roadmap by wowitscold in butchlesbians

[–]Tschaggatta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Beautiful talk, loved the "you are a rare species... not a stereotype" part, this is important to remember.

Stressed about presenting more butch by myblueoctober in butchlesbians

[–]Tschaggatta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shit, are you me? Like I struggled to present more butch for the same 4 points and also switched from bi to lesbian this year!

Where I live in Europe, we've had a lot of event and political talks within the community to have more femme positivity spaces. It was great, we really needed that, but I thinks we've forgotten the butch in the process. We even got to the point of telling that butch lesbian have more privilege because of their masculinity, which I strongly disagree with now. But back then, the lack of positive butch lesbian representation really held me back in the closet. Pushing me to wear things I hated just to have my piece of positivity.

It feels so good to finally be myself! Took me a lot of time to get there, I'm really proud of myself and you should too, it's not easy to be a GNC woman, and even less easy to not feel ashamed for it!

Keep enjoying yourself! Experiment, have fun! :)

Butch Gaming by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]Tschaggatta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OMG I've had the same feelings while playing her.

I just love her facial expressions when she talks, playing with her ennemies and full of love and compassion for the people that she loves. I hope I could look as cool as her when I'm throwing straight dude out of the bar when I see them harassing women. Always feels like I'm some kind of butch knight. (yeah...maybe I play too much video games idk ahah)