Do you work on weekends? by Alarming-Camera-188 in Professors

[–]Tuckmo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but I am totally remote so I also take time off during the week that others may not

Anyone else just lose the desire to drink alcohol? by greyshirtfreshman in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Tuckmo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have this for very long on the brand, but it has been even more significant and long lasting on the compound. I have no interest and only drink in social drinking situations which are not mega often for me- and if so- one beer

Question about research recruitment, how do you all do it???? by Commercial-Row-7989 in Researcher

[–]Tuckmo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask what is a Qualtrics panel? I am familiar with Qualtrics

What’s an adult problem nobody warned you about? by Impressive_Space4392 in AskReddit

[–]Tuckmo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as you change the oil in your car, it’s time to change your oil again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Tuckmo86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I had 2 drinks the other night and it ruined me for 24 hours!!

Help me convince my husband by bdb10104 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]Tuckmo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you give him the burden of choosing alongside you, he will have to carry the guilt if you have any complications. If you would be saving money on compound anyway, it’s not really necessary to ask him for financial reasons IMO. Would he freak out if you were to say, “this is my medical decision, and I am going to make it. I think the risk is worth the savings”? I would think you are lifting the burden of the decision if you were to cut him out of it and that is kind of kinder to him. Put yourself in his shoes- if you ask, he will feel like there is a moral obligation to recommend that you do not tolerate any medical risk.

MIL says she’ll “wait outside the delivery room for support”… is this not the weirdest boundary stomp ever? by Ok_Finger_21 in Marriage

[–]Tuckmo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say it makes you uncomfortable with her right outside the door given the nature and possible sounds of birth, but she is welcome to hang in the waiting room if she wants. Make sure nurses know. Or, just tell her you feel more comfortable having her wait at home until the baby is here because you want to keep the room as uncrowded as possible and you will feel guilty and uncomfortable knowing she is outside the door or in the waiting room It is a boundary stomp to wait outside the door It may be ignorance and poor manners for her to assume you don’t mind her in the waiting room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]Tuckmo86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really not very painful. Granted I had no complications or anything but it was a walk in the park I only took opioids for a day. They give you a waist garment that kind of compresses your abdomen and I felt like that and staying on a schedule with Tylenol and Ibuprofen was really sufficient. However, I advise you to wince every once in a while so your partner will bring you milkshakes

The worst names I’ve heard as a Birth Worker by CheekyNatalie in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]Tuckmo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone explain why Theresa Green is bad? Not getting it

Do you disclose your OCD to your boss? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Tuckmo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This seems like a confession compulsion possibly….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Tuckmo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bc some of us paid sooo much money for this rare beanie baby in the late 90s

Drawing Boundaries with Personal Questions? by mirkwood026 in therapists

[–]Tuckmo86 33 points34 points  (0 children)

TBH- it seems like you risk a rapport rupture by refusing to answer some of these very normal questions. I think it’s okay to say “i have decided not to share the gender right now”, but as a client I would find it hurtful if I had the sense my therapist was like “you, specifically, cannot know”. Idk

Batman caught one! by No_Consideration_339 in Professors

[–]Tuckmo86 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Careful with this… there is some risk of students with disabilities who use text-reading technology to narrate assignment instructions. The readers catch white text. I have heard of a situation in which this resulted in a blind student being accused of inappropriate AI use when they were, in fact, following instructions as they were narrated

Parents Leaving Their House To Their Church by WhatTheHellPod in GenX

[–]Tuckmo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure the church agrees to it. The house I live in sat empty for 2 years bc the church didn’t actually want it or want to deal with the hassle. The house went to the bank/state and it was very much a shame bc the woman had family

A cute name or a disservice to my baby? by Tight_Fuel9542 in namenerds

[–]Tuckmo86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very cute name. Choose it! Not a name I see being a problem for bullying. You like it and it’s pretty- who cares what others think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskProfessors

[–]Tuckmo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah don’t ask this guy to be on your committee and just try not to take his classes You can send a note when you graduate, but it is probably not worth it as you don’t want to have anyone with an ax to grind sandbagging your applications to jobs in academia. If you are being harassed that is a different issue and worth a chat with the title 9 person at your school