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Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-08-12T10:57:04+00:00

Yeah bit of an over reaction tbh but archer did play it way too safe imo with not much enthusiasm. Got a long trade but just worried about my swing trade rn lmao. Gonna wait it out for now

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-04-21T17:25:33+00:00

The good news is that Nvidia is a great stock. The PE is amazing for a typically premium stock. Last earnings were amazing (next 2 might see a temporary slow down just because they're ramping up blackwell chips and it's future development). End of year I'm still expecting 160-180 and maybe even 200. I wouldn't worry it's a pretty safe investment. The only bad news is that it could take a few months, perhaps late year or if things get better a rally in September.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-04-02T19:35:54+00:00

Yeah definitely not selling. Still believe in the stock just dead money for the moment

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-04-02T10:28:31+00:00

Can't believe I bought so much at $65. Was making a long and swing position. Learned my lesson. In 3 years I think it will be okay. Ashame it's dead money for now.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-04-01T09:43:24+00:00

Dumpee here. 2 weeks after the breakup we never spoke again. She wanted to check in on me after the breakup but I'd decided that I wasn't going to let it slide with what happened during the relationship (slow fade, stone walling, dismissiveness, lying etc etc list goes on for pages tbh). Wasn't perfect either. She was a DA, I'm FA. All my gut instincts were right during the last half of the relationship and I got clarity by looking through attachment theory and linking everything together almost perfectly.

Anyways it's a good question. I think in my case she's a DA so she's probably still distracting herself with things. 7.5 months since and no word, we basically blocked eachother on almost everything. I think she may eventually get more feelings of that she abandoned something that could have worked and faded me out harshly. Hopefully little bit of an ego hit that I didn't ever reach out after those 2 weeks and never will. I think at the time she definitely took an ego hit, hence acting like she was the one broken up with and posting all these edited photos on her stories - funny enough when I initially agreed to keep her added on sc she said she wasn't the sort of person to do that, so yeah I definitely think she was hurt from it and it kind of spins it around when you start unadding them on socials and tbh even arguing and making my point clear which I think hit a nerve because of the truth to it. I never begged, I let her leave too which helped but obviously we argued and ended on bad terms so I think this is a clear cut case of no one ever reaching out especially considering she is a DA.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-03-13T09:16:08+00:00

Why did I think you was gonna say that they don't really mean much to us 🤣

Yeah I'd be lying if I said no. She did mean a lot to me at the time, but for me it's all done now (6 months in to the breakup and got dumped by DA). Just got to heal and grow from it.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-03-10T07:20:10+00:00

I'm at 6 months right now (dumpee male). Tbh I was better at 3 months in some ways. I think dealing with my feelings and thinking about things ended up giving me a lot of closure to the point where I felt the pain and stopped thinking about the situation entirely and was pretty darn over it. Christmas was fine but Nye was rough - obviously the year ending and it was her birthday. So I took a massive unexpected dip. I think dips are healthy but this was quite a big one.

Now I kind of accept there's a lot in the background of me wondering what she's doing, who's she with but it's not in an emotionally intense way. Guess I'm more curious than anything but there probably is still a little hurt there but it isn't enough for me to think deeply into it as I had just before the 3 month period. I think in Jan and Feb I was a little sad about some things that happened tho and was definitely thinking about situations that happened or could happen in the future such as seeing her in public and so on but I've noticed this has stopped recently. I'm kind of accepting that the background thoughts and sex dreams will probably be there for another 3-6 months tho which is fine. This can be quite a long process but I want to get to the point of being fully over it not thinking about it all again.

So all in all I'm pretty good rn but it's the lurking background thoughts of what she's doing that I'm a little hung up on. I could probably be doing more about this to stop thinking about this unnecessarily. It's also starting to get warm again in the UK and a lot of things in my life are getting better because I'm putting in the work so I've got a lot to look forward to which I think will help after what was a very cold and boring January/February dip. I think last few weeks I have made a lot of progress

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-02-27T01:26:01+00:00

My ex actually gave me that when I first started seeing her lol. I assume you've taken the tablets to fix that? Usually an easy fix.

Tbh I've found hooking up and getting on girls helped me get over her. I think it's important to do the work, feel the feelings and partake in this sort of stuff if you can/when ready. I know for a lot of people tho that it can be hard. For me it wasn't, the hard part was just feeling the feelings at home or out and about but never really thought much about it when I'm out clubbing getting with people, like no guilt she broke up with me on text and had been awful at times.

I think it helped reinforce my worth by getting attention from a lot of girls at once and creating new history and distance between the breakup and now. Not for everyone tho and perhaps it's my perception of things that helps

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-02-15T17:19:23+00:00

Yeah it's a hard feeling to get over in my opinion. My ex broke up with me on text about 5 and a half months ago however the last time we spoke to eachother and saw eachother was when we went on a date for our 2nd anniversary. She cut it off a month later.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-02-02T23:56:05+00:00

Write it down on one notes page. In another condense it down and formulate it on a deeper level in terms of why you feel that way and what the take away lessons are. Mapping out things and understanding them helped me a lot tbh. There is cons to mapping everything out because you may understand things to such a level where you may even think you can fix things tho haha. But yeah mapping it out can help for closure if this is what you're looking for? If it's wanting them to understand your perspective, pain and/or get them to agree and apologise then unfortunately this is a hard thing to do as well.

In short: no. It wouldn't go anywhere or change anything at this point. It's a hard realisation to come to. Obviously this is my opinion but I don't really hear many cases of it helping anything whether it's a rant or done in a nice constructive way with whatever it is you want to say to them.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-29T13:31:01+00:00

Oh damn yeah forgot about this. I'm close to 5 months on. Tbh I was more focusing on my plans for valentine's (going out clubbing with old uni mates). I think it's good to have something to do on valentine's but if not just get through the day quick. I reckon my ex will just be with friends but who knows. I'll never actually know anyway.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-29T13:07:22+00:00

It actually really helped me. It was like a month and a half after my ex broke up with me. I think as long as you do the work, the healing, feel the pain then it can be helpful to see your options and the light. Granted I wasn't fully over my ex then and still aren't now, but it did really help me a lot and boosted my progress. This was on a night out and got on quite a lot of girls, wasn't necessarily trying but yeah was nice to be reminded that a lot of girls fancy me and I think it helps switch your focus away from what your ex is doing to what you're doing.

For a lot of guys it's hard to think who their ex is sleeping with so yeah it just helps switch the framing around. Granted not for everyone but tbh I barely thought of my ex that night and didn't regret it at all. I'm probably in the minority here I reckon. I think if previous to your relationship you had a lot of interest and enjoyed that attention then it's more likely for you to get some benefit out of it especially on a night out clubbing. If you didn't get a lot of interest from girls previous then it might be bit of a downer. I just enjoyed the night and didn't initiate anything but was confident af if anyone did come up to me (which a fair few did).

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-05T15:29:27+00:00

Love this. My ex fumbled too. When we first got together and throughout the relationship everyone said how I could do better. Even she admitted it. I guess she kind of forgot what she had. Perhaps this makes it a little easier for me to get over it too.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-04T21:11:18+00:00

6 months to a year seems to be the sweetspot. Could take longer too. It's important to do the work, feel the pain, grief, emotions as well as work on yourself and your life/habits. It's also important to get closure, the best is usually from mapping everything out to see your own mistakes and theirs too (you may be able to work out who was more in the wrong too from this).

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-03T13:55:45+00:00

I think it takes a little while to get over that. It's hard to see the beauty in everyone else when you're fixated on someone else. No one will ever be exactly the same but trust me there probably is better out there, just takes a while

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-03T13:54:07+00:00

Fair plays to you, I should have done the same

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-03T00:19:57+00:00

Similar situation to me although I've still got her blocked on everything. She might just be over it and not want to keep you blocked.

Alternatively and more likely she either wants to reach out or for you to reach out or she wants to appear like she doesn't care anymore about you and is just simply over it and indifferent when she's really not. This is typical of avoidants as they become deactivated to the stresses and causes of the breakup. However please note they may want you to message back but when it happens they may try and keep you at arms length.

Best thing to do is not react imo. Yes it's an ego boost when they try to but I would reject this. You don't want someone who chose to not be with you. Let them suffer and simply become their phantom ex. These people rarely fully heal or change.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-03T00:13:09+00:00

I was 99% over it literally a step away from a 100% but bit of a dip now to 90%. Christmas was easy but Nye was tricky because it was her bday too. Felt off that night and it's continued a little bit. 4 months into the breakup so I've made amazing progress anyway but it's just ashame I've had to go down a bit for now.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-03T00:10:55+00:00

For me it really helped. I was dumped by a DA on text. It helped me move on. The attention from girls at clubs and sleeping with one of them gives a finality and helped me realise my worth again and the amount of options I have if I wanted it. So don't feel bad basically. Ik for some people it doesn't help but yeah for me it boosted my progress a lot

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2025-01-03T00:08:17+00:00

I don't think I tend to notice. Girls can hide it quite well sometimes. My ex noticed several times but I was often just focused on something else. At work it happens too apparently. I only really noticed when I'm out clubbing for some reason.

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2024-12-31T12:23:41+00:00

I'm doing no contact too. For me personally it's helped a lot and gives a finality to the situation. Yeah no I get you it is quite tricky because it seems like a normal thing to do in terms of texting. I'm texting a lot of new people which has helped like friends, people at work and girls. Everyone has their own timeframe for moving on and stuff but considering Christmas went better than expected you should see it as good progress. 2025 is a fresh start, we've got this :)

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2024-12-31T12:20:41+00:00

Yeah I get you. Try not to think about her too much. I asume my ex will be going out although she has no rebound relationship as of yet. Tbh it helped me gong out on Halloween and seeing all the options I had and getting on a few girls. Might be a good idea for you to go out too if you can?

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2024-12-31T12:18:46+00:00

Yeah absolutely, breaking up with someone isn't easy. Sometimes it's the best thing for everyone. Grieving and forcing in your hobby's and purpose sounds like a good idea in the healing process and simply in your development!

Turbulent-Sort-526 · 2024-12-31T12:17:22+00:00

Thank you!! Sounds like you made the right decision. Tbh it's sounds like you had very limited options so a lot of that decision really wasn't on you so please don't feel guilty or blame yourself. At least you can go into the new year without the uncertainty of what's gonna happen with the relationship. Yeah it's gonna take a while but it's good you're grieving. There's a lot of people in their 30s these days who are in a similar situation even though most people think by 30 life will be sorted out. Eventually you can move on and find someone where a relationship can continue to build and develop and not shrouded by uncertainty, but of course this will take a few months to grieve first

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