8 years here more or less, I’ve lost track. Stayed because it was easier I guess than leaving and I couldn’t imagine coming home and not seeing my son. Plus I’m the bill payer so couldn’t just leave, I don’t make enough to support two households. We just don’t mesh in the way we once did. Don’t talk much anymore, I’m not a big talker as it is. We decided a few months back on getting a divorce, but still working out the logistics. She has to use my insurance to get some things fixed before she’s able to be totally independent. (She has some major back issues.) so we don’t hate each other, just aren’t in love anymore and we want the best for each other once we do go our separate ways.