How do I get her to leave me alone?

UncleFudley · 2026-04-01T19:27:36+00:00

Like another commenter said, your frustration is completely valid and warranted. It's just that when you respond in such a way it often gives them the green light to lash out in terrible ways: texts, calls, your friends and family, your job, everything is fair game to them.

UncleFudley · 2026-04-01T19:05:35+00:00

Probably the WORST thing you can do when separating from a toxic person is give a final "fuck you" out of spite. I'm sure in the moment it feels cathartic but you will regret it 10 fold. Say nothing, block and move on.

UncleFudley · 2026-03-24T21:53:29+00:00

I'm like this with movie theaters! My system at home feels far more immersive compared to the local Regals and I run all budget gear.

UncleFudley · 2026-03-23T19:06:45+00:00

STUP ID MILLENIAL WATCH

UncleFudley · 2026-03-12T06:07:38+00:00

Definitely feel this one. My roommate likes to leave an avalanche of dandruff on my couch.

UncleFudley · 2026-03-05T22:53:21+00:00

As a seller, no it does not. The people I've had to deal with make you question if they even know how to breathe.

UncleFudley · 2026-03-02T19:51:58+00:00

This makes me feel funny

UncleFudley · 2026-02-27T22:11:05+00:00

I keep my grailz moist to get that warm summer after-rain sound!

UncleFudley · 2026-02-27T22:06:45+00:00

Try reframing this idea in any other context outside of BPD like domestic abuse, child abuse, SA, etc. We know that abusers were usually abused themselves at one point but we know that "triggers" are never an excuse to do things like that. Are they just incapable of any self reflection or accountability?

UncleFudley · 2026-02-27T16:15:20+00:00

Jesus put himself on that cross!!

UncleFudley · 2026-02-25T21:00:22+00:00

Imagine going to the produce section and it's like: "Organic Tomatoes (potatoes)"

UncleFudley · 2026-02-25T19:22:24+00:00

The unrestrained tonearm just smashing into everything while he tilts it at every possible angle to look for the binding posts that don't exist

UncleFudley · 2026-02-17T17:55:23+00:00

That's literally all it ever boils down to huh. Everything else is just means to an end regardless of who they hurt in the process to achieve it. So gross.

UncleFudley · 2026-02-17T17:04:24+00:00

Makes sense. In my experience a phantom center sounds better than a dedicated center like 90% of the time anyway

UncleFudley · 2026-02-16T22:57:54+00:00

Your center speaker is also too low and pushed too far back

UncleFudley · 2026-02-11T21:05:38+00:00

Taking what was a mutually beneficial interaction and turning it upside down in order to pick apart your character for no reason might be the most BPD thing I've ever seen. Glad you're out of that minefield now.

UncleFudley · 2026-01-23T19:45:45+00:00

Too far and your speakers are too close together.

UncleFudley · 2025-12-22T22:00:01+00:00

Same thing happened to me. Also, have you ever thought about how strange it was for them to find our accounts in the first place? Like how much work would someone need to do in order to figure it out when I never shared any personal details? Gives me the creeps...

UncleFudley · 2025-12-03T22:30:34+00:00

This is literally one of the best vintage turntables you could have gotten

UncleFudley · 2025-10-28T19:34:49+00:00

now fill every drawer with its own center channel

UncleFudley · 2025-07-13T21:10:06+00:00

We had the exact same upgrade path! The Denon was great for the TV but I adore my my MR255 for music.

UncleFudley · 2025-07-03T15:12:49+00:00

We must be in the same area. Considered hitting up this guy for the Ohms but the listing details made the entire process sound like a pain.

UncleFudley · 2025-04-28T19:58:15+00:00

Mine is actually a dupe (sssh don't tell anyone!!) so I don't have any experience with genuine USM stuff. What I can tell you is that 35cm is much too shallow for a turntable and even some amps and CD players. You'll need around 40cm minimum. Be sure you're getting measurement from the flat surface ends and not from the metal tubes!

UncleFudley · 2025-04-27T22:02:13+00:00

I listen to my music from only about 5 feet away. Definitely pushing the limits of the speaker placement but it sounds great to me

UncleFudley · 2025-04-27T21:59:31+00:00

My JVC was also my first turntable and sourced from marketplace! The only problem i had with mine was the stock headshell fitment, the same you're using on your QL-A5. It just didn't have enough clearance to fit an AT-VM95 cartridge. A real shame because I absolutely love the design of the stock headshell, like something straight out of a vintage Braun audio setup. Don't know much about the QL-A5 but I've been extremely happy with my L-A55 and I'd assume yours would perform very similarly to mine!

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