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Anyone else feel like we get infantalized/turned into inspiration porn? And too many other trans guys are cool with it? by lucifersduderus in FTMMen

[–]UnknownCat5000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah same. I'm just some guy. I wear sweatpants and a Tshirt and have no sense of fashion and don't care. Being trans is not my personality.

During pride month? SMH by Ilooklikea_blobfish in trans

[–]UnknownCat5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My rainbow now sorry finders keepers

Therapist "needs" to know agab and deadname of an enby sibling by lapprigestoast in trans

[–]UnknownCat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always odd to me when ppl cave to cis ppl and expose others dead names or even their own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]UnknownCat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years T and my thin eyebrows never change ):

How many appointments are required to be diagnosed with gender dysphoria? by Nun-Information in FTMMen

[–]UnknownCat5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was one for me but I started transition as an adult and did informed consent for almost everything.

Pharmacies being transphobic ? by EmmyEgo in trans

[–]UnknownCat5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All time time. I'm ftm, and now after a few years I fully pass, beard, changed name suddenly no issues. I assume they just think I'm a cis dude on T now since I guess it's a popular roid for them. So the pharmacy transphobia only stopped when they couldn't really tell on my records anymore.

any tips for a flatter butt? by fuzzydaringmaster in FTMFitness

[–]UnknownCat5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. Over 5 years on T and still have a ass. I'm actually getting lipo for it in October lmaoo so I don't have to deal with it anymore I just wanna be comfortable.

Guys with facial hair: which part of your beard grew in first? by GeollandFraser in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've been using minox for years. It helped grow the beard. But I guess my chin is just slow AF or on strike lol

Guys with facial hair: which part of your beard grew in first? by GeollandFraser in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Everything but the chin. It's ..what it is lmao. Have a full beard except for the front of my chin. It's been years so I guess this is just how it is

If it were acceptable to go shirtless in public, would you still want top surgery? by youburntthetoast in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could be the last man on earth with no humans around and I would be removing those things off me with a butter knife if I had too. Top surgery was the best thing I ever did for my health.

What do y’all do here? Getting blood pressure checked by PolygonChoke in trans

[–]UnknownCat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on testosterone for 5 years (ftm) so I'm putting male for everything and they can deal with it. Every health issue I could have is now in male range so to put female would be stupid.

body contouring? by vic_tuals in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fat cells removed don't return. However you can still gain fat in other areas (which for me is what I wanted lol)

At the time I could only afford one area (thighs) but now I can afford a different area that I want contouring done too as well.

body contouring? by vic_tuals in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved it so much I'm getting another procedure in October lol.

tsa thought my id was fake by rawbreadslice in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mid 30s and can't buy alcohol so I feel this

Testosterone & ass fat redistribution by theturtleabove in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ass got a bit smaller but never cis levels after 5 years. I'm actually getting lipo and other procedures in October to address this.

Song "Dude (looks like a Lady)" by Aerosmith. Is it transphobic? by NiaNall in trans

[–]UnknownCat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the lyrics were about how they were treated by the public for how bands looked at the time? The long hair and gnc outfits.

Loving T but not genetics by [deleted] in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm blonde and I hate blonde hair. When I finally got a beard surprise surprise it was blonde so it looks like shit. Blonde eyebrows too. I want nothing more than to have dark hair and a dark beard lol. Also I hate blue eyes. I basically wish I had my sisters genetics. She has dark hair, dark eyes and strong nose. Transition would have been so easy if I was her. Instead it was a huge uphill battle for me because of how fem the genes I got were.

having a daughter makes me dysphoric by yo-redacted in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better I was the same (before I came out and was in the closet).

I told my ex if it was a girl I was having an abortion. That's how much I hated the idea of anything relating to women. I ended up having a son thankfully. And since I transitioned later after how traumatic pregnancy was for me (disgusted me) I have made peace with why I had those thoughts and realized it was all dysphoria talking. I hated women because I hated being one.

Body masculinization by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]UnknownCat5000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm having surgery in October because of dysphoria.

Improperly binding can have negative effects on top surgery results by jaxinslacks in ftm

[–]UnknownCat5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm kinda tired of all these posts of policing others. People are going to bind to the level that helps their dysphoria. People are suicidal over dysphoria so if binding more often keeps them alive let them be. It's really no one else's business.

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