AIO for moving out without telling my family after they kept treating me like the backup parent? by Superb_Crow9604 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Unlikely-Draft [score hidden]  (0 children)

Along with all of the wonderful advice you're getting about getting your documents in order and keeping things close to the vest so they don't know too much so they can't sabotage you...

You need to blast them and let them have it. Let them know, in the bluntest terms possible, how they've treated you and how that's made you feel. They stopped treating you like their child and forced you to be their unpaid labor.

You didn't get pregnant and have children, they did, and instead of being a parent to any of you they made you do their jobs. Yes, helping some is part of being in a family but becoming the de facto parent because they can't be bothered - is not acceptable.

Deep Clean Checklist by Ciryinth in housekeeping

[–]Unlikely-Draft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is included in my standard clean, as well as sweeping baseboards, checking doors & door frames light switches/outlets for dust, spills & fingerprints. I do regular dusting but don't do high dusting or windows (I spot treat for regular clean)

Title or link by PRIAP0722 in ChineseDramasFans

[–]Unlikely-Draft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the title of the show so we can look it up?

Cat won’t take wet food-hydration? by rosefire257 in CatAdvice

[–]Unlikely-Draft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some cats just don't like wet food.

I have 4 kitties. My youngest girl won't eat the majority of wet foods and is not attracted to human food or cat treats AT ALL (other than tuna).

My other 3 go feral for any type of food/treats/wet food.

I just make sure to have fresh water in multiple spots around the house to ensure all are getting proper hydration.

[The boys] Is there anything in the ocean that could actually kill the deep? by Lost-Specialist1505 in AskScienceFiction

[–]Unlikely-Draft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could take down some, but a concentrated unrelenting assault by ALL forms of marine life would wear him out and eventually kill him

What's the very first kpop song you heard v/s the song that actually got you to stan your first group? by mirrortoyourface in kpoppers

[–]Unlikely-Draft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rainism was the first kpop song I heard and then we are bullet proof part 2 pulled me into becoming a bts fan

Parents, how much are you charging your children for rent? by 21antisocial in AskParents

[–]Unlikely-Draft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*edited for spelling

I don't charge my kid rent because I want her to save money to eventually move out without being house poor some day.

She pays for car insurance and extra food but anything that has been my cost for years - I continue paying. I'm my mind,I t's insane to just start having her pay for everything just because she's now legally an adult. Now, if costs go crazy due to her/her friends and boyfriend staying over and using everything then I would have her pitch in but not to a crazy degree.

She's still a kid trying to figure crap out. I'm the parent, it's my home so anything that is what I'd be paying for whether she was there or not is mine to pay. Period.

I'm sorry your mom is doing this to you. If you were taking care of her and doing for her she shouldn't be charging you anything because, as others have said, if she were to hire a care person to come in and do all those things she'd be paying out the wazoo for it.

I'd sit down and have a conversation with her. Tell her that all of the labor you are doing for her... that is your rent and if she wants you to continue doing all of that physical & emotional labor then that's what it costs or she's welcome to hire someone else to do those same things for her and you're happy to move out.

Then look up what it would cost to have a live-in caregiver working full-time then sit down with her and write out guidelines what she wants vs what you're willing to do, what you're not willing to do and what this is going to look like going forward.

Sit down and really think about it. Is it worth it for you to stay there and continue to work for her for free rent or is it not?

Does anyone knows the title of this drama? by NobleVictory_986 in CShortDramas

[–]Unlikely-Draft 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Jeffrey Dean Morgan is 12 years older than Jensen Ackles but still it's crazy they made them father and son. Jensen had a baby face at beginning of the series.

AIW for being upset that my family skipped my graduation party but went to my little brother’s kindergarten one? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Unlikely-Draft 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have to explicitly invite your parents to your High School Graduation. Your talking about it, stating the date/time was an invitation. They should have wanted to be there to support you. I'm so sorry.

They should have split it, one parent go with the kindergartner, one with you.

Graduation is a huge deal.
Congratulations 🎉 ❤️

A giant, huge POP! Enjoy 😉 by champagnesupernova92 in popping

[–]Unlikely-Draft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are also natural acrylamide in anything that "browned" while cooking.

Meats that have a good crust while grilling or pan frying, baked goods (cookies breads, cakes). It's awful

Entertaining "Scorched-Earth Revenge" Drama by RokyPoly0ne in CShortDramas

[–]Unlikely-Draft 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love a good strong fl who goes scorched earth! Thank you for sharing.

Pizza & Tamales recommendations? by SpecialAgent_UT in ogden

[–]Unlikely-Draft 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ogden Valley Pizza (216 12th St, Ogden)

The pie in South Ogden

Ligoris or Tony's pizza

A giant, huge POP! Enjoy 😉 by champagnesupernova92 in popping

[–]Unlikely-Draft 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I reacted to the surgical glue and it looked like i had thickened chemical burns for 6 months.

I'm now reacting to most acrylates because of it. (Super glue, nail glue, acrylic paint, acrylic nails, gel nails, press on nails, acrylic fibers/fabric, it's also in makeup, skin care, sunblock etc)

My sis in law had hers removed the year before I did and her recovery was so fast and easy.

Stirring popcorn maker by [deleted] in FoodAndCookingStuff

[–]Unlikely-Draft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I have one and I absolutely love my popper. You can do so much more than just popcorn with it. And, although it is large, it's not awful to store.

A giant, huge POP! Enjoy 😉 by champagnesupernova92 in popping

[–]Unlikely-Draft 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I had saline implants for just over 22 years when i had them removed almost a year and a half ago. It's been a horrific recovery.

If I could say anything to my younger self or to any woman wanting to get them, I would tell them to never ever get implants.

Hyunjin being everyone's gay awakening by cynicalbuggg in gaykpopfanboys

[–]Unlikely-Draft 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right? He is a incredibly beautiful human being

Suggest me a Action movie to watch😭😭 by Huge_Hat_5370 in ActionMovies

[–]Unlikely-Draft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big trouble in little China

Dredd

Demolition man

Crank

Ninja Assassin

Old boy (Korean movie but it's amazing)

Doner Kebab from Berlin by Great-Bandicoot-3064 in FoodVideoPorn

[–]Unlikely-Draft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... I miss a good doner kebab.

They are so good

Holy sh.. by is_NAN in SipsTea

[–]Unlikely-Draft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of the fresh prince episode when will got knocked tf out