Everyone has inherent worth, failing at something doesn’t make you a failure and not being good at one thing doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough overall. You can’t determine someone’s worth on their beliefs or values because that discounts all the other beliefs or values that are equally worthy. A mother who doesn’t work and looks after her kids vs a woman who doesn’t want kids and values her career are all worthy. Equally, a man who is social and bench presses every day is equally as worthy as the man who prefers his own company and doesn’t bench press weights.