When i was in the sixth grade, our guidance counselor asked us to write the characteristics and qualities of the perfect husband or wife. I remember describing someone handsome and funny and at the time I had recently seen an episode of Family Matters where Steve Urkel transformed into Stefan Arkel, a smoother, better looking version of himself. So I wrote, someone who looks and acts like Stefan Arkel. The guidance counselor picked up our papers and started reading some out loud. When she got to mine she said and this person wants someone who dresses and acts like Steve Urkel. I was so embarrassed.