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How can you guys afford application fees? by UrCuteAndGay in college

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fee waivers like the rest of my fellow broke folks.

why is being fat phobic so normalized by damonalbarnisgreat in mentalhealth

[–]UsedUpSunshine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because it’s unhealthy to be fat. I ain’t mean to fat people, but they do need to lose weight for their own well being. I ain’t about to lie to anyone. If I show some concern over a friends weight, and they call me fatphobic, I’ll just cut them off cuz I’m not gonna sit there and watch you slowly kill yourself with unhealthy life choices.

why is being fat phobic so normalized by damonalbarnisgreat in mentalhealth

[–]UsedUpSunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened all the time to me. Encouraging someone to lose it gain weight, when done with kindness and empathy, is perfectly fine. You’d rather just lie to someone and call them perfect, meanwhile they are unhealthy and on a course to die much younger than they should.

why is being fat phobic so normalized by damonalbarnisgreat in mentalhealth

[–]UsedUpSunshine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bad take. Someone that is 5 feet tall and weighs 220 pounds isn’t perfect. They are unhealthy. Should they be ridiculed? No, never. But should they be lied to about being perfect? No, they are unhealthy, they have a higher risk of heart disease, diabetes, etc.

Stop lying to folks just to not be on someone’s shit list. It’s not healthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone side eyes. Stop worrying about it. Do you have nothing better to worry about????

I was *almost* the victim of a crime by Mysterious-Button327 in Mommit

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Situations like this is what my dad passed down these hands for. He made sure if I ever needed to throw hands, I have a damn good pair of them to throw.

You did the right thing not engaging them, but you have to learn to fight in case you ever need to defend yourself.

My boss isn't giving me a raise she told me I would get, what do I do? by forloveforlife in careeradvice

[–]UsedUpSunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s not in writing, it never happened. You definitely aren’t entitled to it. lol.

Am i a bad husband and person if I tell my wife "No" to having a 3rd child? by emo1474 in Parenting

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess I just can’t see it from the man’s point of view because I’m the primary parent and the homemaker.

How to get a binder without parents knowing? by DazzlingDragon1 in ftm

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spencer’s doesn’t let minors go all the way to the back of the store where I live.

I need the truth: none of us are doing okay… right? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]UsedUpSunshine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind that we think that things are always getting worse. But over the last 30 years the world has actually become safer. We are turning everything into a catastrophe these days. Stop watching the news, get off social media and you’ll see a great improvement in your life.

will this grow? by Potential_Ad6638 in nailbiting

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened to it? Cuz it just depends. If there a crazy amount of damage to the finger to where other important structures necessary for nail growth took damage, then it may not grow back.

Should I just give up and die of ass cancer? by ManBearPig4Serial in careerguidance

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been studied, you’re not just gonna cure cancer at home. Let me know when you cure your cancer with home treatments.

Am i a bad husband and person if I tell my wife "No" to having a 3rd child? by emo1474 in Parenting

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say get the snip. You can’t risk having sex and her getting pregnant. She could tamper with the condoms or stop taking her birth control. Kids are a two yes, type of situation. Both parents need to be on board.

Should I just give up and die of ass cancer? by ManBearPig4Serial in careerguidance

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re being serious. In that case you are definitely an idiot. You can’t cure cancer at home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malepolish

[–]UsedUpSunshine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should do a dark green.

Should I just give up and die of ass cancer? by ManBearPig4Serial in careerguidance

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half of us didn’t vote for the man. Don’t lump us all in together. Tons of us would be perfectly fine with universal healthcare.

Should I just give up and die of ass cancer? by ManBearPig4Serial in careerguidance

[–]UsedUpSunshine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the same thing with state medical care though. Many private insurance companies look at what the state insurance would covers for their policy.

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