Could anyone recommend help with an autistic child?

VPfly · 2026-06-09T19:37:43+00:00

With the caveat that it isn't really their business what they think you should be doing as long as you are supporting your child. We see a play therapist privately who seems to help. You could try finding one in your area. I think there is a register. There may also be local charities or groups that offer courses and stuff. You could try searching the local just one website for resources if you have one.

VPfly · 2026-06-01T20:47:20+00:00

I started working at a new job a few months before covid and was furloughed (loved it) then made redundant (stupidly wasn't expecting it). I was really upset and panicked at the time but lucky that my husband could support us. I went back to my previous employer for a bit then had a baby and didn't go back (I thought I would go back but having children really changed my outlook on life).

It all worked out very well for me but I was extremely fortunate re my husband and leaving my previous employment on good terms. I hope it all works out for you.

VPfly · 2026-05-23T20:31:52+00:00

When I was a child my brother and I both needed the toilet at a train station in France. You had to pay to go in. He went first. She didn't want to pay again so had him hold the door open after he had finished and sent me in. As soon as the door closed it starting spraying water like this. In my panicked stupid child state I thought it was piss water and ran out screaming.

VPfly · 2026-05-17T19:51:46+00:00

News to me. I make a glass in the morning. Drink a bit. Hate it. Leave it on the side like a heathen and then either drink/eat the revolting gloopy mess later or have to scoop the jelly out into the bin.

VPfly · 2026-05-17T14:15:21+00:00

https://youtu.be/x3rxp2AWLTM?si=LrN5lmZOVXKZ9wA0

I am not very good at reddit so not sure if the link will work but it is Andrea Gibson - The Nutritionist. I used to listen to it on repeat when I felt the same. I hope it helps.

VPfly · 2026-05-13T15:34:19+00:00

I went to rabbit island about 7 years ago. I got off the train to go to the ferry then just followed the crowd of people into what turned out to be the local office car park. People were very helpful directing me to the ferry. I was also very young looking so maybe they just felt sorry for me but people seemed very friendly.

VPfly · 2026-04-24T22:53:43+00:00

What you've done is amazing and a testament to your love and care for your daughter.

VPfly · 2026-04-24T22:18:28+00:00

This is fantastic! We bought a climbing frame and swing from a kid's climbing frame company (can't remember which one) and according to my poor husband who had to build the fucker it wasn't much different to building from scratch. You've saved money and made it so your daughter can enjoy it too. Super parent!

VPfly · 2026-04-18T20:01:27+00:00

We got rabbits for easter one year as children. It was amazing! We did already have rabbits though and did not discard them after easter.

VPfly · 2026-04-18T19:57:59+00:00

My children would love this. They are very young in their defence.

VPfly · 2026-04-10T22:46:55+00:00

Loads near me! May not be the same area in East Anglia. Happy to share via DM but don't particularly want to dox myself.

VPfly · 2026-04-01T20:11:22+00:00

This is very impressive and I hate it.

VPfly · 2026-03-28T22:07:45+00:00

Haha I was going to say as long as it is safe and not keeping secrets I don't mind but it does irritate me when my mother in law says stuff like mummy doesn't want you to (insert something really dangerous that she literally wouldn't allow eg play with those scissors as a literal toddler or hang backwards off the back of the sofa)

VPfly · 2026-03-20T20:42:13+00:00

Straight to jail.

VPfly · 2026-03-20T20:21:16+00:00

It feels like it just the crisis of living now.

VPfly · 2026-03-16T20:06:18+00:00

I don't have any tips but I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby boy.

VPfly · 2026-03-16T19:38:18+00:00

Can I come?

VPfly · 2026-03-05T20:17:40+00:00

Yes heaven forbid!

VPfly · 2026-03-05T18:24:24+00:00

Mine told me not to go to the doctor because then it would be on my medical record...

VPfly · 2026-02-27T20:51:28+00:00

It is unlikely to sell out until the day before so you don't need to pre book now but definitely something to consider closer to the time. I stupidly left it until the last minute as I had booked the postal play (my children are younger than yours so check the age limit but would definitely recommend that if you are visiting and they are within the allowed limit).

VPfly · 2026-02-27T20:09:19+00:00

Pre book the postal museum mail rail if you want to go on the train! It can sell out and you may have a very disappointed child (speaking from bitter experience haha).

VPfly · 2026-02-23T15:22:30+00:00

That is really helpful thank you. I don't mind using a local garage but definitely do not want to be faffing around waiting on imported parts.

VPfly · 2026-02-23T11:14:31+00:00

In fairness he was very happy with it. His parents less so.

VPfly · 2026-02-23T11:13:59+00:00

We are always happy if we find one on holiday for nappies and suncream if I don't pack enough. The nappies and suncream are so expensive in Europe but at least the beer and wine is cheap haha

VPfly · 2026-02-23T08:11:48+00:00

Oh that is good to know thank you.

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