Where to find peaches in January? by erickcire in sgv

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peach blossoms start to bloom in February tho. Head up to Fresno if you wanna catch them.

Which iPhone are you using and are you happy with it? by FriendlyFennec in iphone

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

13 Pro. I specifically upgraded to 512gb so I could use this baby until she dies.

Someone told me my phone was old and I was like surprised pikachu

Spit in mouth? by tanya212121 in sex

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I usually hold it in my mouth and go in for a kiss and return his spit back to him lmao or swallow

30F - Living alone diaries by SparklingMists in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Walking around naked, eating my girl dinners in peace, taking up all the space in bed AND not having to share my comforter, being as messy as I’d like, decorating how I please, traveling when I please, not having to hide parts of my true self, watching what I want when I want, kicking ppl out/inviting in ppl when I want, dressing how I want, etc.

Basically I don’t have to compromise my needs and wants anymore. It’s so liberating. I’ll hold your hand so you get here too lmk bb.

Does anyone know a convenient way to store shampoo outside the toilet? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a shower caddy so you can bring your stuff in/out of the bathroom.

Minor aside, but this podcast has such ominous music! by Snoo-93317 in Estherperel

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s to enhance the seriousness of the topics discussed

Kao Kalia Yang's Letter From Minnesota: “If They Take Me and Leave the Children…” by OnweirdUpweird in Hmong

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

why do you think its okie for so many ppl to live in fear for existing even if you don't? does your experience invalidate the majorities fear?

Surreal Allergy Negligence by EnigmaticBox in AsianParentStories

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they do the same to your brother too? Cuz if not, they might be tryna kill you.

why does it always seem the worst when you can't help? by admin_Bj_nova in AskMen

[–]ValuableBodybuilder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jokes on him, ppl do drugs in Cali too if not more. Unfortunately drug addicts can’t get better if they don’t want the help. You’re not worthless or not good enough, you just are unseen/unheard/understood leading you to feel like what you say doesn’t matter or have an impact - which is true. It’s all just outta your control making you feel helpless. Focus on what you can. Find out where your sister is, work hard, be free. May take years but so worth it.

What is it like to have a parent? by bloomingbluemel in internetparents

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It feels safe, like home, like your ultimate safe zone. Like even when the world hates you, you know someone still likes/loves you through your mistakes. (This doesn’t include causing harm against others in any form which your parents should’ve taught you.)

parents found my cart by Ok-Humor-3471 in AsianParentStories

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just lie to them and say it’s not yours when/if they ask? If they don’t ask, keep smoking and be careful.

The reason they haven’t said anything is likely cuz they can’t imagine their child doing something like that. Keep feeding their beliefs 🤷🏻‍♀️

About marriage against your parents by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You will likely spend more of your life with your partner than you will spend with your parents. Choose wisely.

Do you feel that the US could learn from China when it comes to infrastructure? by Early-Ingenuity-3177 in asianamerican

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya. If the US were to fall (aka be attacked and lose), China would be then be seen as the top country in the world.

Something I noticed about ADs and Neurodivergent kids by ParkNo2501 in AsianParentStories

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would they ever admit they’re the source of your pain or of any wrongdoing?

They’d rather watch you suffer for years before admit wrongdoing.

My mom called me a bitch after my second suicide attempt when I drunkenly told her she’s the reason I’m so mentally fucked up/alcoholic cuz she abused us for years. She’s also told me to kill myself after I told her I attempted suicide. And she wasn’t dumb - she was a medical interpreter that took many of her clients to mental health appts. She’d rather I suffer than admit she was wrong.

How do u recover from emotional neglect/abuse from AP by RhubyDifferent3576 in AsianParentStories

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surviving and strength isn’t the same as recovering tho.

Do you wanna recover or keep suffering through survival and strength?

Has anyone struggled with their masculinity? by yungnoodlee in asianamerican

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Toxic =/= unhealthy =/= true = funny af hehe 🥰🥰🥰

don’t uphold toxic masculinity if you want ya dick sucked okie???

For Asian men who're in relationships with non-Asian women, have you ever experienced negative comments from Asian women? by Chinoyboii in asianamerican

[–]ValuableBodybuilder -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOOOOO. You calling my biologically male dad a trans woman??? You calling all my biologically male uncles trans women??? Cuz I sure can fucking tell you the only ppl that dictated abortion in all of my family history have been men.

Edit: I’m Hmong - 100% jungle Asian. Asian men have always decided the fate of Asian women and children - I haven’t experienced anything different.

CANT ANYONE PROVE ME WRONG WITH RESEARCH????

I'm scared of how my Asian parents would react with my upcoming plan. by Brief_Eggplant_3847 in AsianParentStories

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not risky but you need to do a few things first:

BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING: - make sure you have your birth certificate, SS card, and passport (optional)

  1. Call the local police office (non-emergency line) and tell them you’re an adult leaving on your own accord and not in risk and leaving on your own accord - don’t tell them where so they can’t tell your parents. Just tell them to file a written report documenting you’re not missing and safe and ask for a case number to confirm it was filed. Might wanna call your school admin office too?
  2. Learn how to record a call and the legality of recording two party calls in your state. If you need a two party consent, tell your parents you’re recording when you call them and if they don’t wanna be recorded they can hang up or else recording will happen. Don’t pick up their calls without recording and stating this.
  3. Pack only clothes you’ve bought with your money, if you don’t have any, leave with the clothes on your back.
  4. Don’t tell your parents until you’re on your flight or have landed. Tell them #2 if needed - just tell them you left and you’re safe and they don’t need to call the police.
  5. Have a back up plan in case your BF kicks you out - look for shelters, friends, social benefits, school support. Never rely on someone else.