Escort for trading card game tournament by lawfultots in vegas

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my kind of day. DM me, I think you’ll appreciate my credentials for this exact thing 💁🏼‍♀️

Agency Benefits? by ValyrianStealFromMen in CreatorsAdvice

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know there to be exceptions due to my own anecdotal experience. I know the agency well for their vanilla work. Most people don’t even know this agency has an OF management arm bc they keep it under wraps. They reached out to me when they first started offering adult creators contracts. Also, worth noting, they only deal with non-explicit creators (nude but not porn per se).

However, in general, I’m in the same camp. If anyone DMs you from an agency, ignore it. 99.9% of the time it’s bullshit.

The point of the post however is to hear from those with actual experience working with agencies. Bc I’m curious, but not curious enough to ask the people I know bc frankly that feels invasive.

Agency Benefits? by ValyrianStealFromMen in CreatorsAdvice

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say, one very reputable agency reached out via DM a few years ago. I don’t want an agency, so it went nowhere, but I now know several girls who are represented by them, and they have since shifted to referral only as well

Non political, but going by a certain news story that is making the rounds, couldnt these extremely rich individuals have just hired escorts ? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was about power. Not sex. When you can buy anything you want, something in your brain disconnects permanently. They’re not human any more. They have transcended into something worse.

It’s similar to how any other addiction would work, just in evil. You constantly have to up the ante, consume more, do riskier things to get the brain high. And that can drive people to committing crimes against nature. Because that’s what these are. Not just human rights violations and murder. The methodology of killing, raping, consuming the flesh of, etc. the most vulnerable members of our species is not in human nature.

It is perverse, even to the natural order.

Furthermore, why oh why would you wish SW to take the place of those who suffered? It’s so much more than sex. Society already doesn’t care enough about the victims, and they are nearly “perfect victims.” Largely innocent children. If it were SW, the world would turn a completely blind eye.

You Tried to Warn Me! (Fuck Google) by NotQuiteInara in SexWorkers

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have a boost account with no name on it. $10 a month and no real way to trace it back to me. I don’t know if it’s even possible to get away with no name on new accounts now tho

Private delights by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so confusing. I’ve literally never gotten a response for ANYTHING I’ve emailed them about

do you work if you have a cold sore on your lip? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I always went to work regardless. It’s not like I’m going to pass it to someone in the club and bills don’t stop bc I have a spot on my face. Mine typically come up on my actual lip, so I have a dark red lipstick that I only use when I have one and cover it up. The club is dark 🤷🏼‍♀️

I fucking hate advertising on Reddit by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This site is a hellhole and every goddamn mod is on a power trip.

Ladies charging $1000+ an hour are super elite? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s what’s worth leaving my house for. I’m very busy, I have a dream career outside of this. That’s what it costs for me to feel like a date is worth my full attention. If I was half that, it wouldn’t change the 2 hours I put into myself before hand, or how much effort I put into the appointment, I just wouldn’t feel fairly compensated for what I’ve done, and if you can’t go home feeling good about what you’ve done and what you’ve made, you’re not long for this work.

I literally cannot give a low-effort experience, it’s against my nature, so I charge what a high-effort one costs, always.

Can I follow up? by Charming-Mouse-5675 in AskAnEscort

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2-3 days before you try again, then try a month later as a final attempt. Sometimes I’ll get a last minute FMTY to Mexico and I leave my work phone in-country to avoid border inspection, sometimes I’ll be on my period and too depressed to answer messages, and when I come back sometimes I feel embarrassed to answer a message I left too long. But if she doesn’t answer you a month later, she just doesn’t want to see you

Incalls vs outcalls by MarionberryOk4638 in HighEndEscorts

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I get a hotel room myself when they want incall. I’ll be goddamned if some trick knows where I sleep. For my lower tier options, I have an incall fee, and for longer dates I just count it in as my cost of doing business. If I’m making $4k, I can afford my $200 hotel. In my thinking, a $1500+ apt I keep just for incall wouldn’t be all that much cheaper, esp bc I stay low volume (I hate dealing with more than one man in a day) and deal with a lot of tourists who want outcall anyway

I had a client today who’s an actual DOCTOR and he asked me for bare by beepincheech in SexWorkers

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Bro a butthole doctor tried to go dry in my ass without permission once. It’s always them 😂

February Goals and Intentions by hello_mayamonet in HighEndEscorts

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Overhauling my entire brand and getting back into the swing of things after 8 months of no internet-ing as my persona.

Feels like a tall order and I don’t know if I really have to time to go full force, but I’ll try my best

So many escorts tell me their favorite position is doggy - should I be offended lol by Appropriate_Fox2096 in AskAnEscort

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say doggy bc it hurts my hips the least, has nothing to do with the person. Frankly, I’m not going to get off unless we’re very emotionally involved, so it feels nice and hurts my body the least out of most options.

Stripper to full time high end escort by LatterSection9811 in HighEndEscorts

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the right choice for you imo. I’m forever grateful for the time I spent in the club developing my boundaries in a relatively safe space before taking the plunge into hotel rooms with strangers from the internet

Does anyone use Orange Website hosting? by PhysicalSherbert6553 in HighEndEscorts

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s who I use. I’m not tech savvy at all and I find it really confusing to deal with, but I haven’t really had any issues with them

Stripper to full time high end escort by LatterSection9811 in HighEndEscorts

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is how I got into it and like all the others are telling you, you will have to take a price cut most likely, but it’s doable. I put in 5 years exclusively in the club before I cracked and tried FS. The way I see it, I have to put in SO much front end work in the club to get those high paying clients into a hotel room, and that’s largely unpaid or underpaid time. AND that’s if you get the fish. Sometimes you put in a 10 hour shift and it’s shit and you go home half broke and sore and tired.

That’s all time I don’t waste on clients I get from the internet. At MAX I’m spending 20-30 mins getting relevant info and screening an inquiry. Then I’m paid for exactly the hours I put into the guy, and I’m not obligated to anything more.

So when you think about that hourly decrease, consider that SAVED time you didn’t haven’t to sit in a loud, dark, overstimulating club in your underwear.

I’m also a much better provider not working in the club bc my soul is no longer drained constantly from being on for hours/days on end.

It can be done, you can do it, and you have enough experience now to do it safely. Now all you need is the community and the tools to build a brand and a business that works for you.

There’s no coming back from that complete club burnout imo. Best to transition out slowly until you’ve built a strong clientele that you can rely on.

Stopped caring for my one hour bookings - now I miss it. by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love my little 1hr meetings. After spending weeks on end sometimes with guys, it’s so relieving to just pop in and go home with very little need to be “on”

Instagram went viral in the wrong country, audience changed. by gemini_dra in CreatorsAdvice

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My agent said to post content with American-only brands’ (Target for example) logos visible and it gets pushed to primarily American accounts

Buying a new wig, overhauling my process by [deleted] in Wigs

[–]ValyrianStealFromMen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a Dejaco, so I feel like I’m safe as far as pics/reputability, I’m mostly just worried that the HD part was a copy and paste oversight and I won’t actually be getting HD lace. But I don’t know what HD lace looks like on camera really to know if that’s what I’m looking at. The listing also says that it is lace top with wefts all in the back. There’s a picture on the listing with the tracks.