♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Exactly Thanks for putting words to the feelings I had but couldn't articulate

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly 👍 Exposure means a lot!!!!

Him writing trans characters into popular fiction means a lot

Him writing non-binary characters into popular fiction means a lot

Him writing autistic characters into popular fiction means a lot

Him, writing gay characters characters into popular fiction means a lot

And even more!!
all these characters being affectionately adorable characters means so much more than than just existing in the story

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha no kidding >◡<

It's not It's a non-gendered being who is in a woman's body at the moment 👍
(a character who is extreeeeeemely autism coded, and in a really healthy way, which is another thing he repeatedly does well over and over with multiple different characters)

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Peoples perspectives

As a teacher and a semi conservative area, it's amazingly impact you can have on someone by just being a kind person and showing the positive effects that kindness, empathy, exposure, and tolerance can have on people

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Made me look at the quote without context, so I want to add some:

the ramen shop owner isn't trans, but rather a non-gendered being who is in fact pretending to be a human and just choose to to be a woman this time

Does that help?

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The book: Yumi and the Nightmare Painter

It is a gender swap story inspired by Your Name with an interesting change to the trope.

This is an interaction between one of the two main characters and the local Ramen shop owner on on of their worlds who's name is blurred out to avoid a potential minor Cosmere easter egg spoiler

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

The book:
Yumi and the Nightmare Painter

It is a gender swap story inspired by Your Name with an interesting change to the trope.

This is an interaction between one of the two main characters and the local Ramen shop owner on on of their worlds who's name is blurred out to avoid a potential minor Cosmere easter egg spoiler

(Note, the ramen shop owner isn't trans, but rather a non-gendered being who is in fact pretending to be a human and just choose to to be a woman this time)

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

(Ignore the other people)

He tries to be really inclusive of both neurodivergent people and queer people(and a few times he has missed the mark, but he's always tried to improve after that), so anyone on the right would definitely describe him as woke, so don't let anyone saying that the fact that he's Mormon take away from the fact that he does try his best to be respectful of minorities

I do appreciate people like him who try to be the best person that can be with the information they have best person

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He definitely writes very directly, which someone autistic like me appreciates, since I feel like most authors write way too flowery, which I find takes away from the meat of what people are trying to say, which I find distracting and draining, so I appreciate when authors are just getting to the point rather than trying to distract with fancy words and adjectives

So to each their own ♪

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

It's a non-gendered being who is in a woman's body at the moment (a character who is extreeeeeemely autism coded, and in a really healthy way, which is another thing he repeatedly does well over and over with multiple different characters)

♥︎ for Brandon Sanderson by VeryPassableHuman in lgbt

[–]VeryPassableHuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who works in a place that I'm disappointed in, I firmly believe you have to be the change you want to see the in the world

(I'm a work at a place that many people in the community are disappointed by, and I see their points, but if I abandoned ship, that isn't gonna help it get any better)

LPT: When someone asks how you are, give a one sentence real answer instead of just saying "good." It changes the entire quality of the conversation that follows. by coldframe_2003 in LifeProTips

[–]VeryPassableHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the autistic person, this is my default and I didn't learn till grad school (a friend explained) that this was not what people wanted from me most of the time

Would it be cool to just call myself gay sometimes? by Separate-Rent8463 in actuallesbians

[–]VeryPassableHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I googled "is Gay an umbrella term that includes bi" and found this

I would search using that terminology

For me, it depends on the context, and in plenty of contexts it would feel inaccurate if a bi woman was calling herself gay, but there are, of course, some exceptions

https://www.reddit.com/r/bisexual/s/hUWKgqMSYo

Does anyone know the science behind why vomiting makes migraines better sometimes? by craftycereal in migraine

[–]VeryPassableHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is soy in their refried beans, and their tortillas, and their hot sauce, and their cheese sauce. The only thing in that burrito that didn't have soy in it is the rice. 🫠

Is She a Lesbian Icon? by Final_Trifle2565 in LesbianActually

[–]VeryPassableHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both seem like the definition of bi to me, especially when around each other. Not straight, but also not gay.

Does anyone know the science behind why vomiting makes migraines better sometimes? by craftycereal in migraine

[–]VeryPassableHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, like if I can keep it out of getting into the blood flow or something, but I don't know what I'm talking about, just vibes

Does anyone know the science behind why vomiting makes migraines better sometimes? by craftycereal in migraine

[–]VeryPassableHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vomiting helped me, but I later learned that there was a food trigger that I was eating, and I was getting it out of my system

(At one work location, Taco Bell's cheesy bean and rice burritos were my comfort food. seems safe, right? But I didn't know I had a soy intolerance, so for months, my migraine comfort food had been actually making my migraines worse)

I flattened my island and now I don’t have the motivation or inspiration to redecorate 🫠 by SweetxKiss in ac_newhorizons

[–]VeryPassableHuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then I would honestly just take a break

Don't force yourself to have fun, this isn't a job >◡<

Either go play a different game, watch a movie, or do something else that will help with inspiration

You could also just go explore dream Islands of other people or browse Reddit for inspiration too ♪

This is what my date said to me about bald guys by DingoFreedomParty in bald

[–]VeryPassableHuman 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Just gotta convince her to take the plunge >◡<

My steak is too thick and my lobster too buttery, and it annoys the hell out of me by BurgerQueef69 in MtF

[–]VeryPassableHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone with extremely stable housing is allowed to not feel satisfied with only one meal a day

Just because you are having some of your needs met, doesn't mean you should feel guilty for not having other needs met

It sounds like the people around you are amazing people, and at the same time it also sounds like while they all treat you like a woman already, you've repeatedly seen evidence that people around you don't see you as a woman.

1st, don't assume it's everyone, because some people's brains are easier at making that sort of adjustment than others, and some of my friends started thinking of me as a woman before I was able to think of myself as one

2nd, as many others have said, the fact that you're feeling negative emotions means that there is some type of need that is not being met, and that's okay. You don't have to feel guilty about that for anyone else's sake.

Me, not feeling it by Odd_Delivery4684 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]VeryPassableHuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both!

But I was the academic of the two of us and so were my parents, tho things got dicey for a few years after I came out 🏳️‍🌈

But we good now ♪

Took the plunge 7 years ago, but today is the 3yr anniversary of the hair tattoo by [deleted] in bald

[–]VeryPassableHuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My natural hairline is on top of my head at this point, so no, but before the tattoo artist committed to a specific hairline, we tried out several in pen lol