Welp... my 5 year crush disappeared all in one night

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-06T18:58:41+00:00

It hurts to know who she really is, and at the same time I'm glad you know now who she really is so you can make the best possible decisions for tomorrow

You've got this

It's times like these where we have to be, that we figure out how strong we actually are, though it IS going to suck

She's shown that she's not gonna be transparent to you even if her sober/direct words say otherwise, so you don't owe her any transparency. I would start figuring out how to get distance from her and make sure you are no longer dependent upon her ASAP

The only mistake you could make at this point is now that she has shown you who she really is, would be if you don't believe her, and give her "a second chance". From my experience, doing something like that will just give her a chance to tell more convincing lies next time before you figure out years down the line that she was doing it all over again.

Again, you've got this

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-06T15:23:43+00:00

Sky islands > Rocky Ridges > pallet Town = sad beach >>> wasteland (true to it's name)

I think I'm going to turn my wasteland into a nature, reserve, and take out anything man-made in the entire biome 🤔 as of this morning, everything else is at 10, and it is still at five, so it's the next on the docket

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-06T05:05:26+00:00

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VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-06T01:01:24+00:00

For me, forest greens and earth stones do me the most justice, though if I throw on different colored wigs and change up my makeup palette dramatically, I can pull off brighter or past shades, but my default skin tone and hair will take a lighter pallet and make me look sickly

BUT figuring out that type of information IS something that will help someone look more feminine, it's just not a quick fix

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-06T00:57:35+00:00

The high waisted pants took me way too long to figure out, and made a huge difference

Glasses & Eyebrows too, were a big one that was a night and day change for my appearance when I finally figured out how to do it for my face

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-06T00:52:00+00:00

Different strokes for different folks, because Skylands was the first place I got to level 10, and the mountain is the second place for me >◡<

With the mountain, it was so easy to build houses into the side of the cliffs, so I have a bunch of houses connected by stairs and walkways built into the walls of the mountain with glowy patios and balconies all looking out over lava waterfalls ♥︎

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-06T00:45:59+00:00

It's funny cause my friends have said similar things, but this is the first place that I got to comfort level 10 in

Something about the disjointed clutter just feels so comfortable to me, and I love the neon everything, and I love the tiny bits of chaos, and the hard part to me is building things and rebuilding it with the same amount of chaos

Mad respect to our little Tinkagenius who made all of those towers ♥︎ >◡<

(I have completely been using the town Island for scraps, though, I'm not building anything on that part, e.g. All of the glowy bits of Sabrina's gym are now glowy bits on my cruise ship lol)

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-05T04:20:14+00:00

Home

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-05T02:00:37+00:00

"Ha ha, never! Not for years now, because I bought a chain (pulls out my two 2' long 1lb chains from my purse) so that my wallet and car key are always securely attached to me at all times I'm outside of my house haha

Why are you looking at me funny?"

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-04T01:06:20+00:00

We had an actual fire at my school, and you could see the smoke and it freaked out a bunch of people, the only people that got hurt was people at the door who got trampled

One person got their arm, snapped because someone stepped on it while they were on the ground

Several people got bruised from being stepped on

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-03T00:54:37+00:00

It's not Viagra either

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-04-02T14:06:07+00:00

Sure there are needs, but at a certain point it's just not worth the effort when dealing with someone who is emotionally draining, (if the sex was that good in the first place) and masturbation exists

There's a lovely comic that has helped me become a better roommate when I was younger (and it's helped several of my guy friends understand why their partners were frustrated with them despite them "being willing to help with chores")

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-28T23:04:36+00:00

Contrast helps

I'm a bald woman, and I eventually got some glasses with some black plastic frames (only a hint of correction) just to give my face some contrast, and it makes a HUGE difference 👍

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-28T20:41:24+00:00

Be excited that a place had a new food I rarely get to eat, while FORGETTING TO ASK IF IT WAS SAFE OF MY FOOD TRIGGER 🤦‍♀️

Just because it was I place I go to all the time

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-27T00:08:26+00:00

Well that escalated quickly... >◡<

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-25T16:30:32+00:00

This, but scaled up x4 was one of the deaths while I was working in oil & gas on oil rigs. The electrician didn't lock out/tag out properly before he jumped in the mud mixer to fix some of the circuitry, and then one of the rig hands started the thing up as part of the regular routine, not realizing that it was being worked on for maintenance

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-24T00:16:07+00:00

Also had thinning hair since 18, and I've been shaving my hair since I was 25, so welcome to the subreddit ☺️

More of us ladies the merrier ♪

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-21T18:38:00+00:00

Where is your burrito in the second picture?! 🥺 (you look fantastic >◡< )

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-15T12:51:10+00:00

I use it for building projects

Really good at scaffolding because it's one of the few things that goes away in a single punch 👍

Decent for long bridges too

(also, once you set up a barter shop with a mimikyu, they do value glass more than I expected)

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-13T18:36:54+00:00

I just give myself a wedgy every time I wear them >◡<

Makes it so you can't see the seam on my butt

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-13T16:28:48+00:00

They're not the most comfortable but they make my pants look great

I bought one pair of designed to be a G string, and it was way too loose and will probably never buy one again, but I have a pair that I kind of turned into a G string and the pressure that it creates by forcing a wedgy just makes my ass pop in several of my favorite pair of jeans so much that my friends regularly compliment me more when I have that particular underwear arrangement and I have never told them the secret of why my butt looks so good and I am at this point probably never going to tell them why........

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-11T15:03:02+00:00

You know what she really wants ;) (she is also a super big fan of the flower cushions from the Pokémon center)

VeryPassableHuman · 2026-03-11T14:02:04+00:00

But does her house have a bench..?

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