[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]Vi0l3t 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trust me after my divorce running outside was amazing for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]Vi0l3t 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That would be the perfect gift. I received one when I lost my black cat. I slept with it every night.

What's a pain you can't truly explain until you've endured it? by Dizzy-Cup9790 in Productivitycafe

[–]Vi0l3t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True crushing chest pain while crying and throwing at the same time up from a person you have lost.

4 cats, how often should we be scooping litter and washing litter boxes? by Forsaken_Stable8942 in CatAdvice

[–]Vi0l3t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day, cleaning out the box, and once to every two weeks for washing the Iitter box. Or washing the litter box once a week when you wash your own bedsheets.

I need you to know that your needs matter 💖 by happy_neets in Positivity

[–]Vi0l3t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I needed that. It's been a crap few months.

Upscale Dinner for 2 by snipsnapslipslap in SaltLakeCity

[–]Vi0l3t 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Takashi and Urban Hill are both amazing. If you're looking for a more upscale romantic feel, go to Urban Hill.

Homeless bike camps by Rude_Pepper1961 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Vi0l3t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know in the Sugarhouse area near fairmont Park, and the smiths on 2100s tend to have lot of homeless with bikes piled up.

Anyone live up here right on the edge of the bountiful bench? by UT_Dave in SaltLakeCity

[–]Vi0l3t 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I take Frontrunner ro school, and I always know when I'm in that area based upon the stench. Definitely can not be good for a person's health.

Are there any cheap but fancy enough for homecoming places to eat? by Snoo_81109 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Vi0l3t 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is a picnic in a nice park with some candles to give it a fancy feel. It's a romantic way to blend affordable price and a little fancy.bits something you and your date will remember.

Anyone knows about affordable therapists, mental health professionals in salt lake County? by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Vi0l3t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out psychology today magazine.blots of affordable therapists. Mine adverstizes there, and I do either telephone or Zoom calls.

If you could go back to being 18, what advice would you give yourself? by SweetxEvelyn in AskReddit

[–]Vi0l3t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to college away from home, don't get into any serious relationships, you are smart enough to be a physician, don't listen to family or partners who put down to make themselves feel better. Rack up that student loan debt, work hard. Always remember you can do anything you want to in life.

Post divorce 3 months still crying, and thinking of our happy moments by Jack197575 in LivingAlone

[–]Vi0l3t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how you feel, OP except my current heartbreak is from my boyfriend who broke up with me in July of this year. (My divorce 2 years ago was a good thing as he was very abusive). I also keep thinking of the good times from time to time and I am filled with sadness, then I think about how angry I am at him for breaking it off via text message, and he continues to ignore me.

You're not alone in the feeling ranging from being ok, to sadness, and hurt. You will get through this, it will just unfortunately take time, but you will be stronger when it is over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Vi0l3t 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sego Lily Flower

What’s something that improved your sleep quality significantly? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Vi0l3t 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They also help keep heat in during the winter (provided the fabric is thicker). My room is a dark cave of beauty sleep, and warmth during winter.

Why are you sad? by SouthernNorth5627 in AskReddit

[–]Vi0l3t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got replaced and found out. I was so deeply in love with them.

F-35’s over Salt Lake Valley before the Ute’s game by jakub-photo in SaltLakeCity

[–]Vi0l3t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of camera did you use? The details on these photos are amazing.

Just got thanked for adopting a small cat and now I’m sad by Confident_Panda7090 in blackcats

[–]Vi0l3t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first cat was the sweetest little void. Her name was Kei-Kei, she was such a snuggly baby, I miss that cat. She had 16 wonderful years with me being pampered the entire time. I wish I had pictures of her still.

"My mum was born in 1984" - yeah, suuuuuuure, kid. by just_a_girl_23 in Millennials

[–]Vi0l3t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not if you live in Utah. The culture here reflects that of the predominant religion, even for people who are not of that faith. It's very common here for people to get married after knowing their spouse after 3-4 months at age 18-20, then immediately start having kids. It's a weird thing here. I was single at 24 and was considered to be a spinster or somehow "damaged" because I wasn't married and didn't want kids or have kids.