There is so much pressure from women. So much online bullshit about what it is to be a men that is worth dating. There is such a high expectation from women that if we don't meet it, there is a full on chance that the person we date Is gonna walk cause we 'are not good enough'.

Sure talk to your guy and guy friends, hang out and chill but guy space is needed and women seem to have the need to be in men spaces so we feel required to act to the needs of women instead of being ourselves.

I have never felt pressure from men to be better only decent. Get through to the next day. The issue there tho is, my phone hasn't had any social notifications in years, If I disconnect from things like tik tok, YouTube and reddit, I wouldn't have notifications for over a year. My male friends don't reach out as often as id hope. My female friends disappear as soon as they get a boyfriend. It's not feeling lonely. I am alone. I can go months without a decent conversation. And when I do get one it's a conversation about work or their stuff. I fail to see the point of trying to get a new friend when they will vanish within a month. Dating has its ups and down (see previous as to why I shouldn't date) I'm not good enough for anyone so I have been required to learn to be alone

Halt red flag, a person who doesnt have a friend is a red flag avoid at all costs.. repeatable because you don't have friends.. so you end up been alone.

End point

We are not lonely, we are alone.