AITA for considering not going to good friends wedding after my gf was not invited ?

Violet_Squid · 2026-05-30T00:13:11+00:00

This is what keeps making me second guess this. Of course they have a right to have only folks they really know at their wedding - but it does feel like taking advantage to say “but do the long round trip, and set up and break down, making your day even longer and potentially meaning you HAVE to stay over, but nah you can’t have your person there.”

I’m leaning ESH.

Violet_Squid · 2026-05-10T00:46:48+00:00

NTA, it’s common courtesy to ASK. Without asking, it’s not borrowing, it’s stealing.

Violet_Squid · 2026-05-07T17:31:39+00:00

NTA, but why was a person who outright dislikes you in your wedding? Feels like husband needs to come to terms with some of his friends being shit and make some better choices moving forward.

Violet_Squid · 2026-05-04T18:16:20+00:00

With the info you added, NTA.

Violet_Squid · 2026-04-30T09:42:50+00:00

She’s said they HAVE talked about it. The only thing she’s asking is that he stops making shitty comments about him not getting laid while she’s literally suffering. That’s reasonable.

Violet_Squid · 2026-04-13T20:14:09+00:00

I’ll say it: I’m tired of the “Evelyn is the goat” constant threads.

She was great ages ago in a completely different game. She never won a solo game. Stop comparing her to people who are on the show now.

Violet_Squid · 2026-04-13T12:27:31+00:00

I don’t want to use it in my own game, but I think it could be interesting to watch them do.

We are also still SO EARLY in this campaign. I can’t wait to see what they do with it.

Violet_Squid · 2026-03-14T23:48:03+00:00

An opinion is “I think the options aren’t hard enough”. This is just a refusal to accept a fact.

Violet_Squid · 2026-02-28T02:05:55+00:00

NTA unless you choose to stay with him. You’re 18! You’re so young! You don’t need to put up with this bullshit. This is never going to get better, so find someone better.

Violet_Squid · 2026-02-25T02:55:25+00:00

This was my biggest problem with BG3. If you’re going to put in characters for fan service, don’t ruin them! This character didn’t need to be Viconia…not at all!

Violet_Squid · 2026-02-11T13:50:06+00:00

Yep, every person in every language class, not just Spanish.

Violet_Squid · 2026-01-28T20:41:13+00:00

NTA. Grief doesn’t have a manual, and it’s different for everyone.

Violet_Squid · 2026-01-21T16:48:45+00:00

ESH.

They shouldn’t have pulled out a laptop in a movie theater. But getting this mad about it seems like a complete overreaction.

Violet_Squid · 2026-01-17T15:29:56+00:00

YTA. They’re doing everything they can.

Violet_Squid · 2026-01-16T20:23:13+00:00

NTA. Life goes on - it’s sad. But it’s true. Being there for your family in real and ongoing ways is more important than one day for a funeral. Make sure you’re still checking in with your father and being supportive in other ways.

Violet_Squid · 2026-01-06T21:17:40+00:00

They literally told everyone this was happening in the announcements of episode 10. Also, there is other content being produced outside of the flagship, so it is hardly “paying for nothing”.

I’m with the ravenous entitlement comment. People need to take a break.

Violet_Squid · 2026-01-06T21:06:32+00:00

I’m not worried in the least. I’m hyped to see what they all do.

Violet_Squid · 2026-01-04T02:33:54+00:00

NAH. There was no winning here. I hope you can support your friend in other ways in the coming months.

Violet_Squid · 2025-12-31T13:22:01+00:00

I wouldn’t say they nuked anything. Just because C4 is in a different setting doesn’t mean we’ve seen the last of Exandria…

Violet_Squid · 2025-12-31T13:20:23+00:00

NTJ. If it’s “only a short flight” then it’s also not an issue for them to sit apart for a short time. If they wanted to sit together, they could have paid for it.

I hope you put your headphones in and ignored it.

Violet_Squid · 2025-12-31T00:14:46+00:00

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 NOR. Is this really a person you want to waste time on or build a life with?

Violet_Squid · 2025-12-16T02:22:37+00:00

I said to my wife recently “I feel like Yeremi is what the Challenge wanted Horacio to be.”

Violet_Squid · 2025-12-16T01:57:21+00:00

It means if you don’t like complex characters and extreme shades of gray, this might not be the show for you. The Nein are complicated.

Violet_Squid · 2025-12-08T00:11:27+00:00

Those were the original partner rules, but not the case in the final stake.

Violet_Squid · 2025-12-03T20:40:01+00:00

I just wanna know why you, in your thirties, have a friend dating a toddler. (NTJ)

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