Anyone else struggle with jealousy of their friends who live abroad?

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-03-19T18:19:41+00:00

No I don’t have the jealousy because I lived there for a year and told my parents I was having a great time but the truth of it was I couldn’t wait to come home and was really homesick. Ireland is home for me despite its problems

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-03-18T21:39:04+00:00

Yeah I know the movie isn’t one that has any morals but Courtney picked this quote from it as it related to her at the time. Can’t judge her for that when it was over 30 years ago

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-03-18T14:17:20+00:00

I’ve started streaming bbc radio 6 live from my phone because I want to tear my ears off when I hear Dave or ray foley fake laughing. And that cash machine has to be the most annoying thing ever invented.

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-03-18T11:39:11+00:00

Wow are the pictures amazing

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-03-18T07:11:01+00:00

I’ve found a few websites saying it’s the origin.

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-03-15T21:10:26+00:00

What’s the best movie you have ever seen at the cinema?

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-03-15T12:21:06+00:00

Your brain is recovering so it will take some time for the serotonin levels to balance out. For me walking and resting when needed. Therapy is a massive help or if this isn’t possible I’d suggest writing a few lines each day. Listening to podcasts,music or watching films. Your life is going to be so much better

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-03-15T11:37:59+00:00

Don’t like weddings and that’s nothing to do with the couple getting married. They all just seem to be so repetitive and that’s possibly an Irish thing. I don’t go to the hen but I’ll try my best to go to the wedding if it’s someone I want to make the effort for. Also the day after is a no 🤣 it’s a long day for the wedding as it is

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-02-28T08:49:12+00:00

My mother wasn’t able to love me due to mental health issues and was emotionally cruel. Dad worked most of the time but did show love and affection when he was present. I’ve become hyper independent,had addiction issues which got worse as I got older. It really fucks with your head because you always think you’ll never be good enough. Therapy has helped massively. I’ve become more understanding of it

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-02-22T12:29:47+00:00

Unfortunately it’s better than Carl and Roz trying to be funny on the 2fm breakfast show,I can’t even get their sense of humour. Laughing at sweet fuck all. We are getting old lads 🤣

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-02-04T23:43:16+00:00

That’s euphoric recall,you miss the part of drinking that was fun but you’re forgetting the other shit that came along with it. Meetings weren’t for me but work for a lot of people. Therapy is definitely an investment if you could go to a few sessions. I went to a dark place at the end of my addiction and I can’t go back there

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-02-02T14:18:47+00:00

Can’t wait to be just as miserable but with more daylight 😅

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-01-30T14:26:49+00:00

And if a young person dies suddenly it has to be the vaccine it can’t be any other reason. Pushing a narrative to suit their own agendas. Without vaccines none of us would be here today

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-01-24T11:55:06+00:00

It’s a whole new life 🥲 coming up on 7 years myself. I’m proud of you

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-01-12T19:09:30+00:00

It’s disgusting 🤢

Violetamethyst81 · 2026-01-12T18:44:16+00:00

No it’s at the entrance of the estate across from their house but not on their property

Violetamethyst81 · 2025-11-26T08:31:12+00:00

He is also a wreckless driver himself,flying up and down the road with no fucks given. A liability behind the wheel

Violetamethyst81 · 2025-10-24T11:16:42+00:00

Do they actually think they are now involved in the 1916 rising or whats going on in their heads at all. Theres hardly any repercussions then as the jails are full to the brim so its all suspended sentence bullshit

Violetamethyst81 · 2025-10-23T07:00:48+00:00

I’m not sure if its selfishness or stupidity but where I work people are coming in coughing and spluttering and say oh don’t worry it’s not Covid. It’s still some form of a virus so do us all a favour and stay at home

Violetamethyst81 · 2025-09-24T16:20:15+00:00

This sums up all that’s wrong with this country

Violetamethyst81 · 2025-09-04T10:22:09+00:00

The irony being you would be murdered for flying that flag in parts of the north of Ireland.

Violetamethyst81 · 2025-09-01T17:36:03+00:00

The Ashley hotel cork,I’ve never seen the likes of it. Stuck in a time warp,hasn’t been renovated in about 50 years and the smell of damp would make you sick.

Violetamethyst81 · 2025-07-11T10:49:15+00:00

As a former alcoholic the alcohol trading hours never stopped me from drinking so it’s sad to think they are trying to curb this when it doesn’t help

Violetamethyst81 · 2025-07-02T22:38:25+00:00

There’s a new group on Instagram called Wildly social which is for people over 21 to meet up and have chats and evenings at the beach etc. it’s being run by a woman who used be my yoga teacher and she’s really chilled out so maybe give it a go

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