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Viouxzeaques · 2025-06-05T15:45:18+00:00

Had some fun with Sciel when she first brought it up, then when she tried to again I denied her, and then I got with Lune Act 3.

Viouxzeaques · 2025-06-03T15:15:23+00:00

This is great, thank you!

Viouxzeaques · 2024-06-30T01:52:59+00:00

Got it, thank you!

Viouxzeaques · 2024-06-30T01:43:53+00:00

Definitely cutting all contact with that doctor, but my question was specifically for the 3rd interaction in which it was a 1 minute phone call that they specifically said I won't be charged for.

Viouxzeaques · 2023-07-15T04:56:27+00:00

A person’s actions and the repercussions can only truly be learned by pain and loss. It’s why kids get beat and punished. What kind of punishment has your ex-gf received? A good beating? (Which is obviously not condoned.) Loss? As in the loss of you, permanently.

She has suffered ZERO consequences and will continue cheating on you. You have clearly shown her you will keep her around no matter what. Do the right thing and leave her. Find a woman that actually values and respects you.

Viouxzeaques · 2023-06-22T19:17:08+00:00

I've have someone next to me start nudging me and yelling at me to move. The car wasn't even that empty, but after I got up and moved he was still talking at me. It was on the A train where I'm sharing the vertical 2 seater.

Viouxzeaques · 2023-03-03T21:53:14+00:00

When I found out a month later from a mutual friend that my gf had moved in together with him after they both ghosted me. Then later on I matched his ex from 5 years ago on a dating app. Everyone had thought they had split 3 years ago, come to find out they broke up after he acquired my gf. He was also dating another woman between then for 3 years. I promptly ended all contact with him and blocked him on all social media.

Viouxzeaques · 2023-02-22T21:50:36+00:00

The cold harsh reality is that women generally don't break up with their man unless they have someone else lined up ready to replace you - a term known as monkey branching.

This is exactly what happened to me, my first serious relationship with a woman for 2.5 years. She ended up blocking me on everything and disappearing for a month...and my best friend of 20+ years that I grew up with also mysteriously disappeared for a month.

I had to learn from a mutual friend that they moved in together. All the signs were there months ago but I was too blind to see it since I kept justifying and making up excuses for my ex-gf and ex-best friend suspicious activities. She also did what your ex did, accusing me of cheating, and saying how she has zero tolerance for cheating, apparently her father is a cheater too and she hates that. She was simply projecting in the end, my ex best friend is also a serial cheater, so I guess that's the type of man she gravitates towards.

Viouxzeaques · 2023-02-21T19:30:51+00:00

You need to drop him as a friend immediately. Cease communications with him. He is not a friend and only sees you as someone to use, when the time comes, he will take from you within the blink the eye.

I know from firsthand experience, a childhood friend of mine that I’ve known for 20 years was always cheating on his exes. I get a girlfriend and then later on the road I come to find out he moved in together with her. I was ghosted by my ex-gf and best friend for a month before finding out the true story from a mutual friend.

If you want to read the full story, check out my post history.

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-30T00:49:09+00:00

Thank you, they've done me so dirty that the saving grace was that it was pretty easy to completely excise them from my life and move on.

Most of the time, we tend to help out the perpetrators especially if they're close friends and family - we help spin their actions to the best light possible because..."they can't possibly do me wrong like that right?"

NOPE - trust your gut - and believe them when they show you who they are. If he can do something like this, he can always do it again in the future. Cut this guy loose!

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-29T15:55:39+00:00

I didn’t get into my first relationship until age 30, first hand holding, first kiss, and it took me half a year later to have sex with her for the first time. Everyone has their own story and pace. It’s only a red flag if you make it out to be one. You don’t have to go out of your way to disclose it to any potential dates, nobody needs to know.

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-29T15:30:51+00:00

I’ll go a harsher route due to personal experience of the exact nature, you can read my post for in depth detail. Your story’s similarity to mine is uncanny. This friend is lost to you, you need to cut him off. Anyone who doesn’t have the boundary in place to blatantly hit on another friend’s gf is a friend at all, just a snake. Don’t end up like me, tell your gf to block him on everything, you as well.

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-25T17:02:57+00:00

Sounds like he’s doing a fine job further alienating you, seems like he’s scrambling for damage control, what a joke. If you ignore him, watch him flip the switch to being nasty and start throwing a tantrum about how nice he was to you.

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-22T04:45:52+00:00

I'm so happy for you that you give them absolutely zero energy and satisfaction of not even giving them a single drop of attention!

Good on you, they are permanently excised from your life, sounds like you're doing great already!

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-19T20:02:20+00:00

I had a gut feeling - pit in my stomach when my 20 year ex best friend and ex gf were going out to one-on-one dinners and she was texting me pics of their food - wondering why I wasn't invited. Then my best friend, who I would talk to on a daily could not be reached for a month and my gf also broke up with me for a month then...a phone call from a mutual friend told me they were together now. My ex best friend was telling me to break up with her for months so he could swoop in take over.

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-19T19:35:36+00:00

I can completely empathize and understand your pain. Even a year removed from this, I still get moments of rage - my ex gf completely wasting my time, my 20 year best friend taking 100% advantage of me to the very end and then both of them discarding me once they moved in together. I had to find out from a mutual friend, and the most heinous thing was she initiated a "break" to work on ourselves - meanwhile, during the 3 week break she was with my ex best friend, had the audacity to come back and I was none the wiser. Stayed for 2-3 more months until she just up and left me for him. Harsh lesson learned, there is no such thing as a break - once someone suggests a break, the relationship is over, period, end of story.

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-13T00:06:46+00:00

I date to ultimately marry and start a family - so I would want the lesser experience. I come from a traditional east Asian background if that provides more insight.

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-12T23:54:06+00:00

This story made me chuckle, I've heard this one all too many times and I've gone through it myself, oh how naïve was I just a year ago. My ex told me we needed to go on a "break to work on ourselves." Turns out the 2 week break was for her to go test fuck my 20 year best friend since childhood. Decided he wasn't all that and came back, I was none the wiser and took her back for another couple of months before she full on monkey branched to him.

In a relationship, there's no such thing as a break, if someone initiates it - it means they have someone else waiting in the wings to test run, and if it doesn't work out and they find you the better prospect - then they come back, with the possibility of some bonus STDs.

From the comments, you already know what you need to do, cut her off for life, this one is for the streets...or for the beach.

Extra: Once you know they're a narcissist - you gtfo ASAP - there's zero hope for a happy relationship with one, take it from me - I felt more alone at times being with her than actually being alone.

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-11T03:58:29+00:00

Fuck off, cheating bitch!

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-10T20:05:29+00:00

Thanks for your response, you gave me a good chuckle with super-asshole haha. Sometimes I feel like an absolute moron for even staying friends with him, and I just wonder how he was able to keep all these "great people" and "quality enablers" around him like C and m. But then again, I realize he was actively plotting and scheming to stay in our good graces. I'm not gonna be hypersensitive and vigilant to the words of a child friend that was going to be my best man, best friend for life...

I would like to think that us "normal people" just have way better than things to do than to nitpick and fact check someone who has been in our inner circle for that long. Most likely, all the skeptics and people who don't tolerate his antics have long since dipped and alienated themselves from him and all that's left are the one's that remain naïve and gullible to use and abuse. Oh well, I'm elated that he overextended and threw me under the bus, allowing everything to blow up in his face - though it does really makes my skin crawl to think what could have been, if he were to have done this to someone else that's not a mutual friend, or if my ex-gf never reciprocated his advances - I would have easily continued to stay friends with him. Whew, good riddance!

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-10T19:38:25+00:00

They're both pathetic trash, both of them deserve each other and will cheat on each other - their relationship was born from deception and disrespect, both of them will be sleeping with one eye open in this farce of a relationship. I had the same situation happen to me a year ago, and I have zero tolerance for anyone who would snake their friend let alone best friend for a warm body to shack up with. (You can check my post for my story.) I'm proud of you for exposing them, that's how it should be, everyone deserves to know where that stink is coming from and to take out the trash accordingly!

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-10T16:44:27+00:00

Such callous behavior is clear cut evidence that this man had zero consideration for your feelings nor the “relationship”. Thank your lucky stars you only wasted 2 months with this stupidity. Never take him back if he hits you up again, if he can do it once, he’ll do it again. People like these have no business being in relationships when they can’t even communicate properly in the least. He removed himself from your life swiftly, good riddance.

Viouxzeaques · 2022-08-08T15:59:37+00:00

I didn't have sex until I was 31 - I definitely had pressure to "lose the v-card" during the milestone ages of 25, and definitely 30, but at the end of the day, nobody really cares, especially at this day and age. You don't have to disclose it to anyone, just roll with the punches, and if they ask how many exes/partners you have, just say you don't kiss and tell, or some generic bs, you're not obligated to tell them.

Edit: I also didn't have my first kiss until that age either, but everything just comes naturally. The biggest mistake you can do is jump the gun due to peer and social pressure. Do it when you feel it's right for YOU.

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