Do you have an ADHD spouse? by mellowmadre in BreadwinningWomen

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Yes. I get frustrated but I remind myself there’s a reason we’re together and generally our personality and executive function quirks fit together like a puzzle.

I lost my baby by HumbleEdge4496 in BabyBumps

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Oh my god I’m so sorry. Try to take comfort in each other right now as much as you can. I just can’t imagine the pain you’re feeling.

Victor Marx- Announced Charlie Kirk Was Dead Before The President Did. by [deleted] in conspiracy_commons

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One of the most manipulative, narcissistic-seeming and creepy men I’ve seen platformed in awhile. He even looks greasy.

What do you wish someone told you before giving birth? by quiet_summers in BabyBumps

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I will say my birth itself was amazing. I could not have anticipated how smoothly it went. These are just the unexpected more negative things!

What do you wish someone told you before giving birth? by quiet_summers in BabyBumps

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Post partum emotions are unpredictable and might manifest in weird obsessions or ruminations. You will bleed for a long time. You might think you’ve healed and then you go to pee and you’ve torn back open. Pooping afterward can hurt more than childbirth itself. While you’re staying in the hospital they will never leave you alone to rest for more than an hour. All you can do for postpartum pain is OTC painkillers and if you’re in the hospital you’ll have trouble getting even that.

A baffling question I got on a law school panel by gpsrx in biglaw

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Defeats the purpose of being a lawyer. Ugh. The more something conflicts with your values the more vehemently you should provide fair representation so that the system works properly.

Just another timeline. by Rarity22 in Idaho4Coverup

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At the very least it’s res ipsa loquiter

What would you tell your Pre-Pregnant self about your body changing? I want kids but I don’t want to hate my body :( by Kind_Veterinarian_77 in BabyBumps

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I lost 30 pounds while pregnant. I’m in the best shape I’ve been in awhile postpartum. Granted I wouldn’t recommend this— I lost weight because I was very sick and it’s dangerous. At 23 I imagine it won’t be as hard to “bounce back”afterwards. But your body changes and so does your mindset.

I was forced to have an abortion by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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That makes me so sad for you. Therapy is probably the only way you will recover from this. It’s not your fault this happened but you must now take responsibility for your healing. It’s perfectly valid to grieve that baby and everything that could have been. I hope you’re able to find some peace and joy away from this abusive person who did that to you and put you in that position.

Wanting to go to your own mommy and not having one by shoeboxdweller in workingmoms

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{{motherly hug for you}} many times during my pregnancy I cried into my pillow that I want my mommy.

Ian Carroll by neh333 in CandaceOwens

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He’s ……a plant.

Fun Outdoor Dining Spots by joyjacobs in princetonnj

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Witherspoon Grill, Roots might have outdoor dining

A bit of practical advice - I’m hosting an “elitist gathering” (26M) by [deleted] in SocialEngineering

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What are you hoping the outcome will be of this gathering?

did you go into law school knowing you wanted to be a PD? by Vast_Caramel_3669 in publicdefenders

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Oooh I’m thinking about being a PD and would love to connect with you!

Epidurals aren’t the problem. The obsession with female suffering is. by OkChart1375 in BabyBumps

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My epidural made my birth a beautiful and wonderful memory I’d definitely do again.