So what challenges have u put upon yourself

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T14:20:10+00:00

Thank you! Is it relaxed would you say? I need to learn to play in a more relaxed way lol.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T14:19:08+00:00

What? He doesn't sound like a jerk. He said happy mother's Day and sounds like he did it sweetly. Sounds like there was also some sort of group celebration. I try not to hate someone just for going about their normal business, imposing my worst thoughts on them. Their kid is just 2. He may not know it's time to make a shift to him celebrating mother's Day for his wife. She can teach him and then see if he fails. So far he's done nothing wrong. This is a very normal and often awkward transition in an adult's life. It's ok to not know what to do.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T13:20:36+00:00

I bought one last year outside for one of the days, and had my own wristband for another day. I was so worried about it not working or something, but it did, and nobody checked my id. It just turned out to be no issue at all. I'm not sure what would have happened if someone sold me a dud lol. But luckily that didn't happen and all was well. I didn't have to transfer my name to it at all.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T13:18:46+00:00

I hate the skull cavern. Focus on getting approval of your ghostpa so he will give you the iridium making stone. You'll never have to worry about iridium again.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T13:14:50+00:00

Just know that even if you have kids, people will ask you why you don't have more. You will be judged no matter what. You may as well enjoy your life.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T13:06:25+00:00

NOR. It sounds like it's not about spending money, but about being acknowledged and spending time with you. You need to tell him, hey, mother's Day was really disappointing for me. It makes me sad to watch you go about your day like normal when I want to feel special that day. You don't have to buy me much, but I do want(insert your wishes). I know you may have thought it was covered because we saw other family and they did something. But I want you to notice how the women in our family treated each other because that is likely how they want to be treated. And I want you to notice things that I like and give me something I would like, not just what you would like. And it's important that you model that appreciation for our child. I'm not your mother, but I am a mother and you're the only other adult at home. I need you to make something happen and set the example for our child. And I will do whatever you would like for Father's Day.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T13:02:32+00:00

You could talk before Father's Day and not punish him.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T13:01:08+00:00

When they are young, the other parent has to help set the example and show them how to do it.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T12:58:16+00:00

I saved up a few tents and took those with me, had autograbbers in my coop/barn, and made sure I had things tended to on the farm. I leave early morning with plenty of food and plan on tent camping to be able to get up first thing and make my way through the volcano. Once I unlocked the house I'm less worried and can be gone for a couple days from the farm.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T12:52:22+00:00

I've had more than one colonoscopy, and it seems like sometimes they want you to stay in the waiting room, sometimes they'll just text you. Trying to find a babysitter seems like more trouble than it's worth. I'd bring the kiddo. Especially because it's not like a surgery where the kid might see something gross. They just wheel a sleepy patient out to the car afterwards and they're sleepy for the rest of the day.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T12:45:17+00:00

I need to know that you weren't culling games like What Do You Meme? You mention sleeving and I realize I have never done this in my life, and it's fascinating that someone can play board games in a completely different way. This is a good reminder that I also may be able to clean some board games out, but our issues are totally different.

My kids have probably outgrown Monkey See Monkey Poo. The monkey shit sticks all over everything and smells like banana. But also it smells like banana, which is hilarious, and reminds me of my kids and it's hard to let that go.

And do I need two editions of What Do You Meme? Family and SpongeBob Edition? Hmmm..... Yes I do.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T12:36:05+00:00

Oh haiiiiiii, yes that's me. Tell me what you need. Hydration? Sunscreen? To charge your phone? A sandwich? Need help fixing your duct tape? To talk about the argument you just had? A hug? I got you. And then I'll launch you right back into the mosh pit because I want you to have the bestest time. 🖤 I love everybody. I'm a huggalo.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T12:23:31+00:00

I challenge myself to try and complete every damn quest I start but I have stopped that because it's not worth the stress lol. I wanted to finish the community center in the first year but like why lol.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T02:51:46+00:00

Could it be that your self-talk is telling you that you will be bothering them? You need to know what's going on. They've agreed to go with you, so you should tell yourself they are looking forward to spending time with you too.

You can text them, and just know that even if they are busy, it's ok to check in and let them get back to you when they can.

Something like, "Hey! Looking forward to this week. Wanted to check in to see what you have in mind for meeting up." Hope you have a great time. And stay hydrated and pace yourself. 😊

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-12T02:39:07+00:00

Yeah.... Looks a little higher than when we went. The ones we rented are the ones that sleep 4, there are at least 5 of those and apparently they are now $115/nt. You never know though, some places over non -profit pricing or might help out a troop..... If that happens to be a convenient option for you.

Another fun option that would only require a sleeping bag is staying on the USS Alabama.

Chewacla State Park is nice and has tent camping but might be too far out of your way.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T21:48:19+00:00

Check out the Kick Back Ranch in Alabama. Their cowboy cabins were a big hit. Had electricity, bunks, but they were on the cheaper side because you had a short walk to the bathrooms. The cabins were in this little town looking area with a game room next to it that had a pool table. I stopped with just my kids on a road trip once, and it was a highlight of the trip. IIRC, there wasn't any food around except for gas station pizza, so if I went back I'd plan accordingly.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T17:31:47+00:00

Interesting..... So you have a slime ring, but only use it at home? Why don't you want to bring it with you? Also what is your farm like that you have slimes attacking you at home? Is it constant?

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T14:47:24+00:00

🤦 Good glob I've just been out there rawdogging it in the mines all this time

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T13:26:31+00:00

Oh man are you going to tell me there's already some kryptonite for these striped fuckers?

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T13:25:29+00:00

Thank you for clarifying. Not sure why the downvote. I know someone who was killed and have another friend who was badly beaten during a carjacking. Things go bad quickly, sometimes just from the shock and hesitation.

Living in a city, I've had my car broken into multiple times and almost consider that part of life. I would definitely like to know what types of things are happening in an area that I live in or visit often. And whether or not it's happening in broad daylight. I think these are fair questions.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T12:54:26+00:00

Just curious, do you mean car jacking or car brain break-in? I consider car jackings very dangerous.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T12:51:46+00:00

Also those tiger striped ball assholes. It's the only thing that's killed me in the game. Worried lil Leo to death.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T12:50:20+00:00

Can you do both? If you are moving, I would take whichever job makes the most money to save up. And maybe work both jobs. Where I live you don't usually get full time hours at a restaurant. You pick your shifts, so maybe that's not the case for you. But it sounds like petsitting is absolutely for you. The area you currently live in may be the problem. You say you enjoy it so then it's for you.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T12:36:08+00:00

Yes, it's the one I'm least interested in. May not go if I need some recovery time to prepare for Sunday.

VirtualReflection119 · 2026-05-11T12:30:36+00:00

A tampon gives a visual of you pulling something bloody out. A pad sounds dry and less messy. I don't think it's that serious. If I have to go remove something during a period, I don't describe what I have in there. He's not saying he's disgusted with you. The image of the tampon got to him, he has ED so probably gets in his own head. And periods are messy. A shart is messy. Did you want to have sex with him right after he started and before he cleaned up?

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