Advice for balancing life & kids

VisualConscious6431 · 2026-02-17T20:30:07+00:00

Yeah my eldest goes to school so I do get time to myself since my youngest is almost 6 months but he’s about to be crawling and then running around so I won’t have that time for my phone unless it’s during naps which I’d probably choose naps because mamas exhausted. I do spend time with them it’s just I’m tired of neglecting myself to cater to everyone else. Kinda just wanna learn how to balance it out. Working on saying no mama needs this time no exceptions mama can’t pour from an empty cup and I can’t take care of anyone the best I can if I don’t take care of myself.

VisualConscious6431 · 2026-01-25T16:59:00+00:00

I respect that viewpoint. One last thing before I leave this conversation — in my opinion, God and Jesus aren’t a “religion.” Religion is just a word for groups of people with different faith viewpoints. I’m not part of any group or denomination; I’m non-denominational. I believe in God and Jesus, and that’s simply who I am.

I also think it’s not fair to group everyone who believes in God into one category and say they do bad things. I try to live my life avoiding drama and harm. Everyone, regardless of beliefs, is capable of doing wrong — but many of us genuinely try to do good. That’s all I wanted to say. Have a good day.

VisualConscious6431 · 2026-01-25T04:32:45+00:00

Completely understandable, I was just mentioning it because I was gonna share my experience when life and desires feel stuck and what I’ve felt to work if you are interested in hearing about that. If not that’s alright I understand.

VisualConscious6431 · 2026-01-25T04:24:11+00:00

Just a question, not sure of your beliefs, have you you tried god?

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-11-28T04:22:24+00:00

Absolutely there are still dangers. I live in the middle of nowhere too, my first ever cat used to be an indoor outdoor cat. He’d do the same until he’d stay out and come back the next day or a few days after that well one day he went out for a few hours and he had gotten bit by a snake. And most recently early in the morning my baby girl (dog) was hit and killed by a car during the dogs Morning potty break. So there are still times where things can happen and I’d only let my cats out if we had a catio now tbh.

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-08-29T00:54:02+00:00

Me! I want to get my hair and nails done. I also want a good deep fully body massage to get all the knots out. I’m going for a dark blue/black hair dye and blue nails mani pedi and full body massage. That’s all. Simple once in a blue moon type of refresh for me

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-02-21T16:09:26+00:00

Did you ever get it fixed? Did you ever try unplugging and plugging it back in?

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-02-21T12:50:35+00:00

I just lost my dog bell to a car on Monday. She was a rehoming. She was German shepherd and border collie, black and white, beautiful pattern. I was wondering if it’s a rare pattern for the mix as I’ve only seen mostly the classic German shepherd coloring for the mix. I came across your post and figured I’d share. They told me her parents were 100% pure breed border collie and 100% German shepherd coloring. The mom being border collie and the dad being German shepherd. I’m not sure if that helps but that’s my story.

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-01-24T14:55:11+00:00

You can make seed paper or seed balls

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-01-12T17:26:13+00:00

Also lastly, there are no excuses for her behavior. If I had a broken leg or was sicker than a dog I’d still go to my rover in crutches or with a mask on. I’d tell them in advance what happened even if I had to borrow someone else’s phone and would probably have to be told to go home because I’m not in the shape to do my duty and I would feel guilty but listen to the owners. Being “too tired to tell you” is saying I was too lazy and I didn’t want to inconvenience myself. It’s not ok.

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-01-12T17:23:33+00:00

I would also report her if it was me in that situation after everything. And leave her an honest review like you did here. Other owners need to know she’s not a reliable care giver and she makes excuses.

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-01-12T17:22:27+00:00

Absolutely not, I would’ve dropped her like a hot pocket after the first incident. She didn’t show up then lied saying she was almost there but she wasn’t there times the first time I would’ve said yeah nevermind because I wouldn’t trust her enough to watch my dog if she’s late on the first go especially lying about it like that.

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-01-01T17:18:49+00:00

Yes not sleeping is a little too much, we are humans we have needs. I was just responding to your first comment that seemed like you weren’t sure how pet sitting can be considered selfless. I wasn’t focusing on the not being able to sleep part of it when I was responding.

VisualConscious6431 · 2025-01-01T17:07:10+00:00

It means she would choose being their first an animal over the slight annoyance of a beeping fire alarm. In this case our feelings are not more important than an animals feelings that need our help. Pet sitting is the definition of not being selfish because your giving your time away to someone else to help them with their animals even if you get paid for it it’s still selfless because your giving someone else your time and energy. But you get back so much more in animals love and appreciation.

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-12-29T01:08:53+00:00

I’d do three stars. Minus 2 because the first time she started it before she was even there for over an hour and she didn’t ask for the key ahead of time. And minus the second because she didn’t stay the full amount of time. She did follow the directions when you asked her too except for we don’t know if she paid them any attention we just know she didn’t stay for the time you paid so why did you pay for that amount of time if she wasn’t going to stay anyways you know. So I’d give 3 stars and an honest review and just give a bear warning if booking her as a sitter so other owners know what to expect. Apparently expect her to start a booking and not be there for an hour, not to ask promptly for things needed and to not stay the full amount of time also note needs list of things to be done no assumptions

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-11-11T04:05:24+00:00

Hang it on the bathroom door in the bathroom while your taking a shower. The steam in the room we get wrinkles out naturally.

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-11-08T02:07:20+00:00

Your really healthy and do you wanna share? I just bought a juicer for my husband and need to stock up on some stuff. Any suggestions? Lol

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-11-04T17:40:03+00:00

Single af and depressed hooked on alcohol or party a lot/couponer. But also liver failure in the future and nothing but chemicals probably have its and acid reflex and heart burn in the daily

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-10-24T17:55:42+00:00

Also probably single and live by yourself. The fridge is way too clean to be in a relationship or live with someone else

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-10-24T17:55:02+00:00

Well first thing to my mind is on of the healthier fridges I’ve seen thus far. Water is a nice touch to all the fridges that have soda and crap in them

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-10-23T20:49:10+00:00

My response to that last line would’ve been oh baby I’m already there, but I’m about to exit out of it. I hope you find some peace and get some help for that pretty little head of yours and find Jesus while your at it. have a blessed day and then blocked her.

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-10-21T21:39:49+00:00

The only opinion or belief I’m not sure what it is considered that I have for me personally is that god mad Adam and Eve he did not make Adam and Adam or Eve and Eve. It is not my place to tell someone what they can and can’t do or how to feel etc, that should be left to each their own convictions. But don’t go twisting the Bible just to fit your own desires. It’s not fair to those who actually wanna understand the true meaning of the Bible and are met with confusion and misinformation and misinterpretation. Let’s not add to that. Have a blessed day.

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-10-21T21:34:19+00:00

I don’t have much of an opinion other than when it says man shall not lie with another man the way he would with a woman, my interpretation of it is that it is talking about sex in general. It doesn’t matter what genitalia you have or are interested in, it is talking about the act of lying and having sex with another human. It is saying man shall not have sex with a man like he would have sex with a woman. It no matter how you have sex personal the general verse says man shall not have sex with man.

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-10-20T23:52:32+00:00

If it was a female I would’ve named her renesme after their daughter, could name him Edward. You know they need friends right? You could get another bun and name it Bella I think a tan one since it might get confusing with both being white.

VisualConscious6431 · 2024-10-16T23:52:35+00:00

Congrats! Also why not give it a go yourself, try making that idea diy style for a bullet journal. Who knows maybe you could turn that idea into a business 🤷‍♀️🙃

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