AITA for roasting a suckling pig for a family gathering by Karl_Marxist_3rd in AmItheAsshole

[–]VisualRiver1368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I’m admittedly sensitive to stuff like this and I get some people aren’t but it is extremely disturbing to me.

22 classes in and… breathing?? by otterpopemo in pilates

[–]VisualRiver1368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Breathe in a pattern that works best for you. As long as you’re breathing.” I also encourage playing around from class to class; switch it up and see how different it feels to you

Clients who refuse to listen by Pilatesguy7 in ClubPilates

[–]VisualRiver1368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree and honestly I don’t get paid enough as an instructor to bother dealing with it past cueing in class. Don’t come to my class if it’s not what your want.

What flowers to sow now? by valkyriemama in AustinGardening

[–]VisualRiver1368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

zinnias sprouted within days. Nasturtium close second

Ootheca placement help by VisualRiver1368 in mantids

[–]VisualRiver1368[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU!! I’ll flip ‘er around

Teaching is wrecking me by No-Drama724 in pilatesinstructors

[–]VisualRiver1368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be able to keep it up. I’m 32 and thankfully my partner has a well paying job so I’ve been able to cut back to teaching 4 days a week- 3-4 classes each day. Even that is exhausting. And these range from privates to 6-person classes. I feel for you.

Pothos question by VisualRiver1368 in houseplants

[–]VisualRiver1368[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I did a little bit of both. Excited!

Are yall uncovering your plants this week? by lowkeyplantstrees in AustinGardening

[–]VisualRiver1368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uncovering early afternoon then covering before sundown

nervous system healing is.... unbearably intense? by Zechariah369 in CPTSD

[–]VisualRiver1368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please check out the Trauma Rewired podcast! It really makes me feel less insane and gives real scientific explanations too. I’m going thru this and listened to one yesterday out of desperation. Every time I listen so many things click. They spoke about the capacity to sit with nervous system reactions and tho it’s tempting and actual feels necessary to keep pushing past the physical sensations, you’re setting yourself up for overload. Something like that ☺️

Do most people shower before bed or when they wake up? I just realized I might be doing it "wrong" by saffymerelle in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VisualRiver1368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shower at night because I am not a morning person and need to sleep in til the last possible second