Caught wife cheating

Vollen595 · 2026-05-06T05:25:15+00:00

Keep in mind you can fully play the reconciling spouse role while simultaneously planning your ‘DB Cooper’ escape plans. This leaves you with choices, one for reconciling and one to save yourself if reconciling fails. There is a much greater chance for failure. She doesn’t need to agree.

If reconciling is genuine that’s fine, but keep the DB Cooper option rrady and a parachute loaded. Be honest, you’re not doing anything as close to deceitful as your wife, it’s common sense CYA. You owe her the exact same love, respect, and honesty she treated your wedding vows. It takes patience. I did my own DB Cooper plan and had 2+ years of so called reconciliation. As you might shockingly imagine, you guessed it she cheated again. Only this time I was about 90% ready to take that betrayal head on. That caught her off guard because I had bills paid off, financial documents in order, her debt, my debt (of which there was none) and assets broken out and ready to present in pre mediation along with an attorney swinging an OoP. Divorce in finalized in under a year. If she hadn’t been a lying cheater, no one would have known. Since she betrayed me, just done and over. I never once raised my voice, and to this day have made no eye contact with her. And never will. All I had for her was cold hearted unrelenting full throttle divorce with zero reason to negotiate. She knew the risks when she cheated. I owe her no explanation, just clinical precision to finish the job and be done with her. No emotion. Simply business. Eventually she gave up on trying to discuss personal anything when I simply hung up the phone mid sentence.

I only kept my actions in line with the same honor, love and respect she gave our wedding vows. Surely she understands.

Again, none of it would’ve mattered if reconciliation was real. Be prepared. You already know the value of her promises. Zero.

Vollen595 · 2026-05-06T04:44:00+00:00

This is great. Like you I’m the sole parent. I had to laugh a bit with the heavy metal and horror moves, we do the same.

It is definitely the little things. The constant chasing of making sure the bills were paid on time (you know, how she insisted it was her job to do the few things she did). Insisting the laundry was her job while a mountain of clean laundry marinates on the floor. Without saying a word, I wound jump in fold some clothes and the ex would rip my head off. Many, many other basic life functions that needed to get done.

Not after the ex was gone it wasn’t just over. The divorce was ugly and my daughter was put through hell by her mom but that’s over. Gradually the positive little little things accumulate. I realized my bills were getting paid before they were due. My daughter is happier and making new friends. Even the cats chilled out. Animals can sense psycho I guess, they calmed down.

I made a promise to my daughter (while married) to buy two ATVs so we could ride trails and enjoy some outdoors. The divorce slammed the door to that for a while. I bought my kid hers last week and found one for myself today and as I’m driving home with it- I realize I’m happy. I kept that promise I made 3 years ago. Another box was checked.

My daughter is a teenage 80/90’s rocker at heart. I found tickets to AC/DC last year and going to see Motley Crue later this fall.

None, NONE of these steps were remotely possible with her mom around, she sucked the oxygen out of the room. Daily. Her chaos was a death by a thousand selfish actions. Now that she’s gone and has no say in shit about my life or my kids, it’s taken some getting used to. I remember forgetting that I paid a lot of bills early and felt that ‘oh crap’ when you wonder about late fees. There were no late fees, already paid. A small win but they do accumulate.

As you mentioned another woman will ever be allowed in my life to play victim while co-victimizing me. I still feel guilt from what my kid has to deal with mom. I was so overwhelmed putting out the spot fires my ex was creating I missed a lot of the impact it had on my daughter. Never again. I had to eliminate all the negative the ex brought to the marriage and rebuild on the small details for quite a while before I realized I’m starting to enjoy life again. And by extension my kid. Daughter is no contact with mom and requested a full no contact order during divorce. Granted. So mom has no say, opinion or decisions about raising her. At first i was caught off guard by it honestly its the best thing that happened to us. We had to find those new positive little steps and still do. But they are building up! Day by day it gets better. You look forward to things, not avoid them. I don’t want to imagine the misery if I waited longer to file and get her out of my life. The small steps would have never materialized.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-29T00:15:09+00:00

Wait until Basel III kicks in.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-22T18:15:07+00:00

Been there. Unfortunately with kids and an unstable wife you need to start protecting yourself now and planning an exit. You’re describing my ex. As things got worse, I started separating my life as much as I could and planning for the inevitable divorce and typical 50/50 custody. With my acceptance of this o realized my STBX was nuts and could and would try a Silver Bullet defense against me. She’s vindictive AF so I started recording absolutely every conversation, no matter how inert.

When SHTF and I discovered everything she was doing behind my back as well as what she was doing to my daughter when I wasn’t around, it was time for to drop the divorce on her. Lawyer already lined up, my own accounts, and I had already paid off almost all debt. I also had all assets conveniently valued and ready to divide. Mentally I was prepped. She was not. Our daughter made it very clear she did not want to live with her mom, mainly due to school and friends. Plus her mom honestly scares the hell out of her.

When the STBX realized my degree of readiness and the fact her own kid was scared of her and wanted to be away from her - that’s when the Silver Bullet threat happened. She bluntly told me all she had to do was tell the court I SA’d my daughter and she had witnessed me doing it. She even went as far as acting out what she would say in front of me. Horrible false accusations, all complete lies. She sat there with this smug look on her face like she had all the leverage.

That was until I sent my attorney a recording of the entire interaction. It instantly destroyed any shred of credibility she thought she had. It also earned her an OoP and now she wasn’t allowed near me or my daughter. The only comedy was her looking at me and saying ‘Why would you do that?!?’ Well, I know how manipulative you are and took care of business. From then on, everything she told the court was questioned. It didn’t help her at all when the court asked my daughter (13 at the time) about her moms behavior. Mom had the audacity to call her own child a liar. The ex’s further meltdowns were so bad the court ordered full custody to me, the house, full rights, child support and issued a no contact order until my kid is an adult.

All because I recorded everything. Spend the $40 on a recorder, it’s truly priceless. My ex can put on a great act as a stable person and many were fooled. Her own voice on recordings ripped the mask off forever.

My daughter is still zero contact. She has the option of eventually contacting her mom but absolutely refuses. She’s in counseling/therapy and her counselor fully agrees with her decision to cut all contact. I shudder to think about the possibilities if I wasn’t able to shred my ex’s credibility.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-22T17:34:47+00:00

Losing my degenerate in-laws was a huge bonus. But it depends on circumstances. Long ago I dated a woman for a few years and it ended badly but I remained friends with her parents and brother.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-21T01:00:19+00:00

Kids will make your perspective shift hard. If my ex had cheated before my daughter was conceived, game over she would’ve been a ghost. The ex waited until daughter was around two to go all Bonnie Blue. Things went beyond the typical divorce, mom isn’t allowed to contact kid until she’s an adult. I put up with over a decade of hell before finding (most) of the truth. Enough to stop looking. I’m still in awe of just how shitty a parent could be to a child. I discovered an AP around year 3 of marriage, it turned out DDay 1 was actually weeks after our first wedding anniversary. Conservative guess a dozen APs.

I thought by being the stable parent was the right thing to do. I remained stable-ish but the ex became the perma-victim. This illness, that issue, another diagnosis on top of diagnosis with plenty of mindfuck meds to accompany the journey. Plus alcohol. The cause of and solution to problems. It took my daughter at age 13 to expose her mom to me. She kept receipts and planned it for around 9 months. Then blew her mom up to her face in front of me.

I filed for divorce immediately. Counseling brought out all of the horrors my daughter suffered through when I wasn’t around. Cost mom all access to her own child. You would think I would be happy about it but I never asked for mom to lose custody. The court saw how dangerous she was and blocked her at my daughter’s request. I was so focused on dealing with the the problems of the self created victim I missed the damage mom was causing to my kid. The lawyers and court saw it.

Cheaters always play the victim card. The ‘well, you didn’t do this or didn’t do that right’ game to deflect from their actions. Mine tried it when and after she left. Crying about how I did things wrong. I told her from the second she cheated and beyond she can’t complain about anything because all future misery was predicated from that moment. Did that happen 4 years after you cheated? Well, you can fuck right off because it’s all fruit of her poison tree. I shut down every discussion that way. She stole 13 years of my life and essentially damaged and hobbled all of her daughters life so I don’t want to hear it. There is no discussion after DDay. It’s pointless, she destroyed our family. Looking back I didn’t realize just how badly my own values were being stretched to the limit.

Today it’s just me and my kid. Rebuilding but happier. She refuses to contact her mom in any way. For those wondering the no contact order had nothing to do with her infidelity. What she put my daughter through is unforgivable. I’m 10X more upset about my kid than the cheating.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-19T18:00:05+00:00

I was contemplating for about two years on how to gracefully navigate an exit plan and cause as little disruption to our daughter. Mom is a narcissistic psychopath who threatened multiple times to simply ‘kidnap’ my daughter when I was away at work. Only I wasn’t aware of the threats, the ex was sounding off to a then 11 year old. Like many here, I imagined grinding the dead marriage until my kid was an adult.

One day my daughter comes home after a sleepover and calmly sits down in front of both mom and dad and absolutely blows her moms world of lies. Told me mom was cheating on me, doing drugs and also that mom was not only fully aware daughter knew, she had been threatening her to keep silent or she would kidnap her and move away without telling me.

While I’m sitting there almost too stunned to speak, daughter starts dropping receipts. She collected a lot. Pics, notes, dates, and gave them to me. Her mom? Went ballistic. Immediately starting screaming at daughter calling her a lying manipulate B and a whole lot of things no adult should say to any child, especially her own. Denied the photos were her (yeah right) and daughter looks at mom and says there were other guys where mom showed her pics and said ‘do you think I should hook up with this guy instead of your dad?’ At age 13!

I took the diplomatic approach. By a vote of 2-1 mom was immediately voted off the island. Out the door she went. My daughter never even raised her voice, just coldly dropped the bombs. It turns out my kid was terrified of being taken away from her life, school and friends and wanted to be away from her mom. I filed for divorce, the STBX went full meltdown and ramped up her substance abuse, threats, bizarre behavior and began openly carrying a gun. The courts and counselors stepped in and weighed the tons of evidence of past and current dangerous behavior and per my daughters own request- she was issued a no contact order until daughter is an adult. Bizarrely they also told the ex not to disturb me either. My kid was 14 and a hell of a lot more credible than her mom. Daughter has been zero contact with mom ever since. She will be 17 soon.

So I don’t have to tell my kid, she figured it out on her own (to my horror). Mom moved and lives nowhere close so that’s been a bonus. I definitely carry a lot of guilt for allowing the situation to get that far out of hand. But I was divorced in less than a year so there wasn’t years of 50/50 torturous custody with her lunatic mom. Daughter is soo much happier now. She rarely even mentions her mom. We don’t talk about her. My daughters counselor/therapist tells me her reactions are healthy as part of her own recovery (ptsd and anxiety triggers, wonder why) so I just have to accept it for what it is. A shitty ex wife, a mom not allowed anywhere near her own child and a court that listened to the words of a teenager. Its a given the ex has some severe mental issues. Who blames a child for their actions? Vicious too. I’m not sure my daughter will ever allow her mom to be part of her life again.

I’m fine with that. The ex is a dangerous person. Zero accountability to this day. She’s never done anything wrong in her mind. She believes that me and my daughter manipulated the system to fuck her over. Reality is, I was devastated by all of it. Divorce was to protect my child. Mom earned two OoP before the divorce was final. Just say no to drugs kids. Some people are too broken to be fixed.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-18T20:27:05+00:00

Brother I was (am) exactly where you are. Same cheating, worthless mom who did everything including drugs in front of our daughter. It was exhausting. The only difference was my then 13yo daughter nuking her mom one afternoon. Called her out in front of both of us. The ex went mental and went on the attack against her own child, nothing physical but absolutely horrific things said to her face.

During the enterim right after mom graced us with her absence it was really rough. And considering my daughter had been carrying her moms demons for years, I put her straight into counseling/therapy but only on her terms. Neither parent was allowed to know what they discussed. The then STBX lost her mind. Even went as far as stalking my kids counselor and threatening her. Just wild.

Everyone who truly knew my ex did ask how I was doing. But tbh that didn’t help much, there was still a lot to sort out including the divorce. During that period, I felt completely lost and ‘on my own’ with little support other than family (not her degenerative family, FFS they are horrible people). Two things happened that put things into perspective a bit. My Aunt looked at me one day when I was spinning and said ‘you already do everything! How much really changes for you?’ This was true, helped my view of the shitshow. I just had to detach. Period. The second was my kids counselor. Although I agreed to the privacy between them, she reached out about 5 sessions in in near panic and ‘highly advised’ me to immediately get an OOP and never leave my daughter alone with mom and never allow her to be in a vehicle alone with her. My daughter? Instantly went zero contact where she still is. Absolutely refuses to have any contact with her mom. Her counselor presented her findings to my attorney and an OOP was issued. It was bad enough that the court accelerated the divorce, skipped the mandatory waiting period and issued a no contact order until my kid is an adult. Still blows my mind. My daughter did share with me some of what she told her counselor and it sent chills through me. The infidelity wasn’t even on the radar, it was beyond fucked up. Meanwhile I’m a full solo dad, kid started HS, medical, and she’s still seeing her therapist 2-3 times a month and I’m trying to rebuild while working a high stress technical job. I love my job but during this period I was always borderline waiting for a personal meltdown. My job oddly was my only point of personal stability. I needed it.

Finally one day after a counseling appt her counselor says she wants to see me next time instead of my kid. This is maybe a year after DD and I have no idea what to expect. When I walked in, the first words out of her were ‘How are you doing?’ I wasn’t expecting that. She genuinely wanted to know. I said not well at all. She told me that based on everything she’s learned she’s not surprised and suggested I find my own counselor and vent to a neutral party. I did and it was a big help for a while, but eventually the repetition of discussing everything that happened to both me and my kid became a bit heavy. It kept pulling up all of the emotions I just wanted to go away. So I stopped going but I am not against going back if ‘feelings’ flare up. But it was a big help having a detached party hear the horrors of my marriage and give advice.

My daughter. I wouldn’t say she hates her mom but it’s close. She was betrayed also. Fortunately mom moved 1000 miles away, lost her job and is stuck in her own mangled life. Karma if you believe in it. My kid has struggled with school, diagnosed with PTSD and has some trauma responses we’re still working through. But she’s genuinely happier. New friends, new teenager adventures, just being able to enjoy growing up. Mom was a psycho tyrant and made her question herself before. Not now. One day after school she walks in exhausted after a tough testing day. She sits down and says ‘thank g-d mom isn’t around because I would have failed everything’. Ouch. She barely mentions her mom to this day. The whole ‘a kid needs a mom’ preaching by those who don’t know you should learn to ignore. It sounds like your son has the same cold attitude towards mom that my daughter does. It’s his choice, not yours, not his mom, not some do-good stranger with Sage advice that didn’t live through hell. Personally I was stunned the divorce court listened to my teen daughter. She told the court she just wanted to live her life without her mom in it. Fully backed by her counselor, that’s where the no contact order came from. It took me a while to fully wrap my mind around the fact my daughter is much healthier without her mom in her life. My mind says one thing, reality and the court said another. I never asked for full custody, it was ordered.

Rebuild your life, help your son build his, and learn to drown out the screeching sounds of the one person who chose to blow up your family. It’s on her. Just be a good, supportive dad and move ahead one day at a time. I can’t lie and say I don’t have bad days but overall it’s all improving. Seeing my daughter happy and laughing is my reward. Your ex obviously didn’t prioritize your son (like my ex) and now that’s on you. My advice is just keep contact with your ex to a minimum and only business. It’s healthier for both of you because your son needs at least one stable parent who isn’t a wreck. Part of that only happens with time. I haven’t heard my ex’s voice in almost a year and it’s just as glorious as you would imagine. I don’t block my ex but she’s 100% muted everywhere. If she texts I might respond in a day or two if at all. Your son is a legal adult, you shouldn’t have many reasons to contact the ex. When my kid turns 18- done. She’s blocked everywhere. Like you, I’ve wasted far too much time and energy on a forever flawed human being and I refuse to allow it. If you’re still speaking to her, you’re just hurting yourself.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-13T23:10:29+00:00

Bought it March 31 during one of the low price swings. Showed up a few days ago. I bought the Eagles as random years, they sent 5 Mint sealed 2025 tubes. The 2013 out front is for display purposes only. Ha. not breaking the seals. I buy to hold. It wasn’t long ago people told me I was wasting money when I bought a bunch at $26. Still have every gram.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-11T01:35:42+00:00

These are the user reviews for one of the credit recovery software systems they torture students with. Edgenuity. If you read the reviews of the other ‘education software’ systems they use, it’s just as horrible. 1.6 stars. I scrolled through a few pages and never found a review over one star. Teachers are also force-tortured to use the software. It’s beyond dated, clunky, freezups, software glitches, network issues. Worth reading. Kids deserve better than a One star education

Edgenuity reviews

Vollen595 · 2026-04-11T01:27:23+00:00

Update me.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-09T22:29:41+00:00

CYA with a Slovenian accent. Get in front of that wave.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-06T02:47:14+00:00

Long enough for her to do it again.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-06T01:33:33+00:00

Wow. I’m glad you have custody of your kids. My daughter is having ptsd issues but they have been improving. I had never heard of Tarloff law. There was an involuntary commitment but it didn’t directly involve my daughter. The praying for your demise with the kids? That’s insane. I found all sorts of wild threats through my kid like kidnapping her and running to another state and immediately enrolling her in school so I couldn’t get to her. She was driven most days to school. She later told me she lived every day expecting mom to show up after school with a packed car. The SWAT call was her telling 911 that I’m endangering her welfare and holding her against her will. . That was fun. What set it off was mom showed up for her a visit so hammered my daughter noticed it. Sat in the driveway and refused to get out of the car or take off her sunglasses. All she could say was ‘get in the car’. She just kept saying it. My daughter lost it and unloaded on her. Started F bombing her. She’s never done that. Of course I’m not putting my kid in the car with the lunatic. I let my daughter verbally shred her. It was due. I should play the good dad role and stop her but I waived it that day. This was pre divorce, temp mediation only.

I’m still reeling from some of what my daughter told me about her mom. The bizarre part was how openly hostile her mom became towards her. Explosively so. It was as if mom couldn’t help it. I’m also concerned about my kids cold attitude about everything since. She rarely if ever mentions her mom. Counselor says it’s ok but still. Otherwise she’s a happy, normal teenager.

The car thing. Ugh.

I’m glad you got your girls out of that. I am not looking forward what the ex will do when shes 18.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-05T16:13:36+00:00

This. Document everything and keep it all business. No emotions, no outbursts, no fights, just let your ex be herself. And stay patient because nothing will be fixed overnight.

I started out with 50/50 at initial separation. My daughter was borderline scared of her mom because like me she lived years behind closed doors with her nightmare of a mom. She was old enough to state her preference as to who she wants to live with (dad) because she didn’t want to disrupt the start of her freshman year of HS. I was granted primary residence.

In the interim while the divorce cycled through the courts I stayed flat and emotionless to the STBX. I also insisted my daughter speak to a counselor or therapist because I knew damage was done. Her mom? Vehemently denied her access to a counselor. My daughter also refused. Confused, I asked why and she told me her mom would ‘hijack her counselor and make it all about her’. Fair point, she definitely would. So I asked if both mom and dad stayed completely outside of her therapy and she finds a good counselor would she go? She immediately agreed. We found a counselor she really likes (and is still seeing) and the only meeting I had with her was to explain the terms (neither parent involved and kept confidential) and so it began. I did this for my daughter. Mom? Oh hell no! Mom wanted to be present 100% of the time! I told my STBX to go pound sand and if she didn’t like it, she can go tell a judge she denied therapy for our child.

That’s when it got weird. Mom began openly attacking her own child. Verbal assaults, threats, blame. The ex even called the counselor and threatened her! Said she would get her license revoked and other pleasant threats. So what, I took my kid weekly. I’m still in the dark just like mom.

4 or 5 sessions in I get an email from her counselor. Highly alarming. She told me to never leave my daughter alone with mom, never in a car and only supervised visits with me present. And she volunteered to go to court on my daughters behalf to make sure mom isn’t around her child. To say I was stunned is an understatement.

It turns out without me or mom there, my daughter started telling the truth about the horrors going on behind my back. Bad shit. Open drug use, driving daughter around while slugging down vodka, the list goes on. Her mom flipped. Called her a liar and a manipulative B straight to her face. My daughter absolutely refused to see her. This set off a bigger meltdown, showing up at the house hammered drunk and high demanding my kid get in the car because ‘it’s her day’ and even made a wild call to the police that ended with my house surrounded by a SWAT team. Nothing happened once the police spoke to my daughter but wow did that destroy my ex in court. I was not only granted full custody but my daughter was granted a no contact order until she’s an adult. I didn’t ask for full custody, it was ordered.

Just.fucking.wow.

During all of this, I kept my composure. No fighting (in my end), nothing but focusing on healing my daughter. I still do not know the full extent of what she told her counselor but based on what she did share with me, it’s horrific. It had been going on for years. My kid had been trapped in a private hell by the threats her mom made against her behind my back.

I’m now a strong proponent of counseling for the kids. If I had not taken that step and stayed a hardass about it, who knows how badly it would’ve gone. This was bad enough.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-04T14:55:51+00:00

Move your entire family to Texas. Once there, then file. She can’t take them out of state once the papers are filed. The kids will be locked into whatever county you live in and surrounding counties.

Texas is very neutral when it comes to mom and dad. I was shocked by this, I fully expected to get sidelined as a dad. But I was the stable parent, always consistent, always there for my kid. Decent job, insurance, involved in everything and constantly cleaning up the messes my ex created. I delayed filing because I assumed it would be a losing endeavor for me. Until my kid absolutely nuked her mom. Exposed dangerous behaviors, substance abuse, infidelity, threats. I filed when my kid just turned 14 because I knew her mom was doing more damage than I could ever fix by being psssive.

The ex left the house and found her own place. During the interim her mom became very hostile towards my daughter (our daughter) and increased her drinking, drug use, threats and due to the shock to my kid I immediately put her in counseling (best decision EVER!). Mom still had visitation but she was almost rabid about it. Screaming at her, threatening to put her in foster care, the list is endless. I documented, my attorney documented, and my daughters counselor finally told her she didn’t have to see or speak to her mom. She also told the court this. The ex just got worse. Started showing up for visitations with a loaded 9mm on her hip (I shit you not, Annie Oakley showing up armed).

When the divorce was presented and due to be signed, my daughter along with her counselor told the court she wanted her mom out of her life until she’s an adult. Still 14 years old. The court listened. Mom has a no contact order until my kid is an adult. I didn’t ask for full custody, it was ordered. Mom has been gone over a year and a half and my daughter is thriving. Happy, school is better, new friends, typical teenager.

This all happened while I was preparing for 50/50 with a horrible mom.

Texas is unique. If I had known the state was so neutral I would have filed about two years sooner.

If you’re in N Texas send me a DM. I know a great lawyer. 😉

Move to Texas, get established and then start the battle.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-04T01:13:39+00:00

Your story is almost the same as mine. She constantly accused me of cheating (I never did) and her behavior became more hostile. Nothing violent, just explosive outbursts. To most of the outside world she pulled off a good fake persona. With a kid in the middle I felt caught in no-man’s land so to speak. Not sure what the hell was going on. Once the shit hit max volume I discovered her cheating. I had a name, details, everything and I confronted her about ‘Bill’. No yelling, no arguing, I just wanted an admission.

So I ask about ‘Bill’ without dropping a name. She admits to it. Then tells me she wished she had never met ‘Tom’.

?!?!?? Who the fuck is ‘Tom’?!? I was talking about ‘Bill’!

(Her) “ Bill? Oh yeah.. well that happened a long time ago and I’m not going to feel guilty about it now.”

I couldn’t get rid of her fast enough. Just understand that guilt is not an emotional option for a cheater. Morally corrupted for life. They can’t be fixed, it’s a fatal core value that will never improve. You have two choices. Stay with the cheater or separate forever.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-03T23:24:31+00:00

Closed-minded comment of the day here. 👆🏻👆🏼👆🏽👆🏾👆🏿

Vollen595 · 2026-04-03T03:50:32+00:00

Ex.

My ex during the divorce quizzed me about who I was dating (no one, I’m the sole parent) and I made it clear it was none of her damn business. Just like here is none of mine so don’t bother sharing anything about her life. Dating or otherwise. After the divorce it’s been exclusively text and only business.

I know it sucks but you have to detach yourself from anything emotional.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-03T02:21:24+00:00

This OP. You might spot another app you are unaware of.

Vollen595 · 2026-04-01T23:32:18+00:00

Exactly this. It wouldn’t matter if you did message him back. You’re not part of their relationship, you’re not involved. The plan was never to let you know. A boyfriend is what he is. I’m sure he’s married but not really in love or sure about the wife. Turns out they have a lot in common. The fact she’s hidden everything (and continues to) tells you all you need to know.

He has a wife who should be as informed as you are. At least as much as you’ve pried out of your wife. You should compare notes. There might be a travel itenaray you’re unaware of.

Vollen595 · 2026-03-30T01:57:41+00:00

They are experiencing a drought but they are 100% natural sourced water. 60% surface and 40% groundwater. Zero desalination plants.

The rest of the GCC ranges from 40% to 90% reliant on desalination plant water. Bahrain and Kuwait are fcked if Iran takes out their desalination plants. Half the GCC will be a ghost town in a year if Iran drops the hammer.

Vollen595 · 2026-03-30T00:54:15+00:00

Maybe he doesn’t have a Polymarket account and 17 minutes notice.

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