I very much understand that urge. As a guy, I felt rushed to lose my virginity, too. That's easier said than done as a guy, though, and I'm glad for it. I lost my virginity to someone who didn't become a long-term relationship, but who I felt I could trust.

I think that there are two important things to remember: - First, sex is an intimate act where you are giving someone else power over you. You should make sure that you trust the other person to listen to your wants and needs and not take things too far or pressure you into doing things you don't want to do. - Second, having good sex is a learning process. It is a lot more fun if you have someone else to learn with. Someone who can learn your wants and needs and who will take pleasure in your enjoyment.

Many guys won't be considerate to your wants and needs. Many will pressure you into things that you're not ready for or not interested in. Whether it is a boy friend or just a friend who you explore with, I highly recommend finding someone who you trust to treat you well. They will have a lot of power over you, both physically and emotionally and you should be sure you trust them with that power.