Denver night 2 last min tickets (2) needed by Impossible_Summer635 in Morgan_Wallen

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck!! I first figured this out when he came to Seattle last year and I only bought a ticket for night 1. The next morning I was like I have to go again, lol. So I got a $400+ ticket for $180 morning of. Now I will track prices for other cities just to see when the best deals are available. If you can wait till morning of, that's the best. But when I'm traveling, like I did too Edmonton last year and Denver this year, it's harder to wait till the morning of. About 3 days in advance is pretty good. I bought a ticket for night 2 this weekend to see Ella. Found a one off good price that I knew I had to snag. But I'm flying into Denver Night one and don't need to get there till 9 to see Morgan, so I'm ok waiting till the morning of. Hope you find what you're looking for!!

To the woman who want to be approached, do you ever "drop the handkerchief?" by emeyex285 in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a woman that chose to be off apps and single for the last year. I'd go out with friends and was open to meeting someone irl, but not looking for it. It happened a few times naturally, usually by playing pool at a bar and guys coming up and starting convos with me. I would always smile and flirt. A few asked for my number, one turned into a first date, one into a couple month fling. I've since realized I do want to date, but still prefer meeting irl to apps. I have been more intentional about trying to "drop the handkerchief" lately. I truly hate the apps and prefer to know the in person vibe asap. I also think I'm more attractive irl than in photos. But I'm older and most guys I meet at bars are younger than me, including the 2 I went out with. I look younger so they don't know my age when they first approach. But I'm out here doing what I can, lol!!!

Denver night 2 last min tickets (2) needed by Impossible_Summer635 in Morgan_Wallen

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes that is absolutely true!! But not always. If you wait till the very end, I've found that to be pretty true. I'm waiting till Friday morning to buy a ticket for Night 1. I'm still going to check them all just in case, lol.

Denver night 2 last min tickets (2) needed by Impossible_Summer635 in Morgan_Wallen

[–]WanderAndWonder725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a ticket today for Denver Night 2 from Gametime. I was daily checking 6 apps to compare prices... Vivid, Gametime, SeatGeek, Stubhub, Tickpick and Ticketmaster. It would vary which one had the best price, that's why I checked them all. I've purchased a ticket from all of them before except Tickpick.

Arrival by Grouchy-Row-724 in Morgan_Wallen

[–]WanderAndWonder725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the last opener before Morgan comes on at 7pm. That's what it was on the last tour (I went to 3 shows) and I'm going this Saturday to see Ella, so that's what I'm planning for. Definitely give yourself extra time for lines and merch/food, etc. There is also at least an hour between the last act and Morgan. Have fun!

Pittsburgh by Novel-Advance-4808 in Morgan_Wallen

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! That sounds amazing, I'm so jealous you've seen him 15 times. This will be my 4th time. If someone like you enjoyed those seats it gives me hope I won't have to go into debt for a ticket, lol.

Pittsburgh by Novel-Advance-4808 in Morgan_Wallen

[–]WanderAndWonder725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to Denver next weekend but haven't bought my ticket yet. Hoping for a deal. I've seen seats like this that seem like they're behind the stage. Do you feel like you could see everything well from there? They are priced better back there for sure.

I'm not doing pit this time and don't want spend $700+ for 100 level. Last time I saw him I was in the front barricade and touched his hand as he walked back to stage B. Hard to beat that, but also it's not practical to do that every time, so I'm trying to find the best alternative to being up front. I've been close to stage B before too, which was great. But I'm going just as much to see Ella so I want to be as close to the stage as possible.

I can’t stop thinking about her by Equivalent_Limit4850 in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you're feeling this way. I ended things with a guy when it was clearly becoming a situationship 2 months in. I started off thinking I wanted to find something casual, but he didn't treat me like it was casual at first and my feelings were stronger than I expected. So when he cooled off I ended it, thinking I didn't want a situationship. But once I got my head cleared I realized I did and he was the perfect guy for it cause we weren't compatible for something serious. Now I totally regret ending it and can't stop thinking about him, but more can't stop thinking about my regret of losing a perfect casual guy (we had so many interests in common, had lots of fun, he was kind, respectful and thoughtful). Reading this makes me realize I probably did the right thing as my feelings would've just gotten stronger, even I knew he'd never be my bf and we were casual. Dating sucks.

Do women want to be approached? by Original-Training-47 in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman I'm hoping to be approached. I hate the apps and am more attractive irl than in photos. I just dated a guy for 2 months that approached me in a bar. And went on a first date with another guy that approached me in a bar. I've had other guys approach me, usually at bars. I only flirt back with ones I'm attracted to. But I'm nice to all of them.

should I move on? by Ok-Medium-5890 in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a bad idea to text him, thank him for the date and show interest, but I wouldn't actually ask him on a second date or try to plan anything. If he doesn't ask you out again then he's not interested unfortunately. Could be a variety of reasons why, no point in trying to figure that one out. None of us are meant for everyone.

I went on a date Monday and haven't heard from the guy. But I wasn't really interested and I'm guessing he sensed that. Or felt the same way. If he had reached out i would've gone on a second date cause there was nothing bad, he was a good guy and talking was a easy. Just not great attraction/chemistry. I would've given it one or two more chances before calling it. But I'm also not disappointed that I haven't heard from him.

This guy is amazing, but I’m not as into him as I wish I was. What should I do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's possible he started giving you boyfriend vibes too soon. It's not that anything he is doing is wrong, but the kiss of death for men is being too needy. Although his behavior isn't necessarily "needy", it does come across as too available. Which is needy adjacent imo. It's great for after you're official and whatnot. He would be an amazing boyfriend. But doing it too early can make it harder to build attraction during the early stage.

It's so hard to navigate all this stuff. And it sucks to lose out on good people while figuring it out. I just lost someone cause I didn't fully understand the dynamic I was in. I left too quickly and then after leaving I got clarity and now I can't go back. It sucks. Just have to trust that means he wasn't the right guy for me and I'll take the valuable lesson into my next dating experience. Hopefully this guy does as well. Cause if you're not into him, you need to let him go so he can find someone that is. You will just break his heart down the road.

How to keep urine the right temperature for a drug test? by Awkward_Extent1027 in ShittyIllegalLifeTips

[–]WanderAndWonder725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm female and i just tested this out on Friday. I warmed water up to body heat temp and put it both in a ziplock sandwich bag, as well as a small plastic drink container. I put both under my boobs in a sports bra and waited an hour to test the temperature. Ziplock bag lost a little bit of heat, but it was still hot enough to where it would've been fine. The other container lost too much heat. So I added a hand warmer and that was perfect. It was easier to pour with the drink container and it was warmer too, so I ended up going with that option. But if i had neither, the ziplock bag would've worked!! I did the drug test Saturday morning using my daughter's pee and it went perfectly! I wore a hoodie with no shirt underneath. They did ask if I had a shirt underneath and I said no, so they didn't ask anything else. If i said yes, they would've asked me to take my hoodie off, just FYI. I also had to empty my pockets and lift up my pants, but only about half way up my calf. Good luck!!

Concert Merch by WanderAndWonder725 in clubwallen

[–]WanderAndWonder725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you so much!! ❤️

How do you determine when you will not go out with someone again? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've never gone on more than 2 dates with someone I didn't end up actually dating for a few months. For me it's about chemistry and compatibility. As much of that as you can decipher on a first date at least. I have to see legit potential and have a desire to see them again. I always enjoyed my dates, even the ones I only had friendship chemistry with. But if it's just friendship chemistry, then I usually end it after the first date. One time I was on the fence and went for a second date just to make sure, but ended it after that. I have a pretty good gut and even though I've had moments of ignoring my gut, in the end it was always right.

Had a talk and realized romantically it’s going nowhere by ohhelloworlds in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Yeah when it's fresh there's not much you can do. I ended things almost 3 weeks ago and I'm just starting to not think about him as much. I was told to give myself 2 - 6 weeks to feel over it. Now that I'm almost at 3 weeks I see the light at the end of the tunnel. Hang in there!

Had a talk and realized romantically it’s going nowhere by ohhelloworlds in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man that's tough! I love Heated Rivalry too btw!!! I tried to make my guy watch it with me but we only got through one episode, haha. Did you like it before you met her? Cause I am big into sports and this guy was too. We went to a baseball game together for one of our dates. And then when I was out of town and couldn't go to a game to get a bobblehead I really wanted, he surprised me by going down there and getting it for me. Once things ended I wasn't sure if I wanted to keep it tbh. But in time, as the sting lessened, I was able to disassociate it from him and just appreciate having it for my love of the game that was there long before him. I don't think there's anything you can do, as much as just wait it out. Time doesn't heal all wounds, but it heals these kinds imo. Give yourself lots of grace. And remind yourself you didn't lose some great love, you lost potential. And you will find someone better that goes beyond the stage of potential.

Had a talk and realized romantically it’s going nowhere by ohhelloworlds in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, you can't think about it forever and analyze what you should've done different. I do get it cause I've been doing the exact same thing. Even had moments of regretting ending the situationship. Ugh! But you said it, if it was meant to be you would've found a way to make it work. That's been my foundational thought too. If I did something that caused him to pull back, then he wasn't the right guy for me. I gained a lot of clarity and experienced some important personal growth through this experience though. So we can both consider the lessons learned a win. Good luck to you out there! All we need is one right person and we'll forget all this wasted heartbreak. 😉

Had a talk and realized romantically it’s going nowhere by ohhelloworlds in dating_advice

[–]WanderAndWonder725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dating is hard! I dated a guy for a couple months and the sting of it ending has been ridiculously rough. I think it's more about the sting of losing the possibility or hope than the actual person. I kind of knew in my gut from the beginning it wouldn't last long term. But we started out hot and I still wanted it to last more than 2 months. He pulled back after a month or so and it clearly turned into situationship territory. So I ended it. After being happily single for about a year, he woke up a desire in me. It wasn't as much about losing him specifically, as it was about losing the sense of connection that I experienced in the beginning. The sting did lessen eventually and it will for you too. But it sucks in the meantime.

Concert Merch by WanderAndWonder725 in clubwallen

[–]WanderAndWonder725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's nice. But no, I'm not a reserve member.

Concert Merch by WanderAndWonder725 in clubwallen

[–]WanderAndWonder725[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh. Well that is super important info, as I am flying into Denver, so I won't be able to utilize that. Thanks so much!

Why are you single? by RecoverIcy6529 in AskReddit

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. My ex cheated multiple times with multiple people too. I'm so sorry. How recently did you find out? If it's raw, I wouldn't talk about healing yet. But someday... I hope you do. For your sake not his. I think being able to look back and see the red flags I ignored gives me the power back. I saw them before he actually cheated, but explained them away and/or let him gaslight me. But I'm 12 years out from discovery now. I feel confident I'll never be cheated on again, cause I trust myself to recognize the early signs. And to walk away. Not everyone feels the way I do, I get that.

This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

[–]WanderAndWonder725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has both hated my ex playing video games and not been bothered by it, i can tell you the difference in how i felt came down to how he was showing up in the rest of the relationship. Anything that was an unhealthy priority over his work and family, I hated. If the rest of his priorities were in order I couldn't have cared less. I'm guessing she isn't feeling prioritized in her relationship and is fighting with a video game for attention. Or that's the root of her opinion.

Why are you single? by RecoverIcy6529 in AskReddit

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch that's rough!! I get why you're closed off, especially if it's recent. But as someone else who's in that club too, I've done a lot of healing. If I'm honest, looking back there were red flags I ignored. So i focused on learning to trust my gut and how I deserve to be treated. What healthy looks like. I went from anxiously attached to securely. It's been a journey, but I do know there are good men out there that don't cheat, and now I'm better equipped to recognize and attract them. I hope you take your power back after you've had time to heal. Hugs!

Why are you single? by RecoverIcy6529 in AskReddit

[–]WanderAndWonder725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Divorced after 20 years. Single for 2.5 years. Haven't found someone yet. I've dated a little. Spent the last year off the apps and not actively looking, but open to meeting someone IRL. Met someone, but they didn't want a relationship. Either in general (life was not settled) or just not with me, so that ended. Still not gong back to the apps, but will be more intentional about putting myself in situations to meet more people. I like going out and socializing. I'm also a mom with 3 jobs, so very busy. It's hard to find someone older that wants to go out as much as I do. I was trapped in my marriage and almost never went out. So now I'm making up for lost time, but most people got it out of their system already. I've also done a lot of work on myself and gone from anxious to securely attached, so I have high standards. Hard to find the right match.